Marriage & Divorce - 17 October 2006

I have been married for almost 2 years to a black man. He is my whole world he treats me like a queen but it seems like it is hard for osme people to get over his color. I was married to a white guy who beat me up twice and almost killed me and it seems like"that was ok" to some people.

2006-10-17 04:36:16 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 04:35:07 · 15 answers · asked by Carolina Girl 2

2006-10-17 04:33:08 · 8 answers · asked by bibillinma 1

I have never had a true friend I met my husband when i was 15 and married last year im 20 now and i feel like ive wasted my life he works and i set home alone i would love to just have someone to conversate with and he says all i need is him what do i do if any one wants to talk let me know?

2006-10-17 04:32:33 · 33 answers · asked by rachel h 1

I love my husband very much, but for some reason i allways find myself looking for someone new ive never cheated on him but i think if i had the oppertunity i would and i know thats so wrong with me ?

2006-10-17 04:28:45 · 25 answers · asked by rachel h 1

I know every marriage has minor problems but I hear so many drug, abusive, porn addicting problems on Answers.

Who doesnt have all those problems in their relationship and LOVES IT????

Just another "Bored @ Work" question!!!!LOL!!

2006-10-17 04:27:37 · 10 answers · asked by **What??** 4

But when he calls he asks dumb questions like what are you doing When I replied, He then asked what are you cleaning? Is he just hurt and playing hard or is it over? Men, what do you think?

2006-10-17 04:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by reddsmith69 1

after 6 weeks recieving the decree nisi how long before i get the decree absolute?

2006-10-17 04:24:25 · 11 answers · asked by whitetiger 2

I am not usually one to pay much attention to men coming in and out of my office, I work for a construction company so for the most part I just ignore them...but the HOTTEST guy I think I've seen in possibly years just walked in....Hope he doesn't talk to me, I might studder. Well ladies...it's a cloudy day today but the view from here is stunning:) Have a great day!

2006-10-17 04:14:24 · 17 answers · asked by sasha 4

i'm in love mith my x and she loves me back but she not sure if she in love with me and i have a girlfriend and she got a new boyfriend

2006-10-17 04:10:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

well at first i thought his single coz that what he told me...then later on he confessed that his happily married...i tried to forget him but i cant say goodbye to him no matter how i tried...so i accepted the fact and continue to love him...but it aches me everytime i think of the situation.. theres no single day that i didnt cry thinking that the man i love can never be mine.... but the thought of losing him and not be able to talk with him really hurt me most...i tried so many times to find someone but my heart is calling out his name...so now i dont entertain anyone...coz i love him with all of my heart no space for anyone.... what am i to do will i forever be alone coz he cannot be with me or he cannot stay by my side coz somebody owns his heart??

2006-10-17 04:10:17 · 28 answers · asked by ely 2

2006-10-17 04:09:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband used to enjoy giving me oral sex, which I crave. For over a year now, he hasn't devulged in any fore-play and when we do have sex, he just rolls on top of me and does his thing and that's it.
I go to incredible extremes to make sure that I'm asthetically pleasing to all his senses.
Freshly showered every night, shaved, his favorite perfume, etc.
It's a long drawn out process that I put myself through every night before bed just to make sure that in the rare case he wants me, that I'm prepared so that it's a good experience for him.
Should I stop going through all the trouble for someone who obviously doesn't appreciate the effort and just continue with my toys to pleasure myself when I need that kind of stimulation? Or how do I get him interested in oral sex again?

2006-10-17 04:08:22 · 13 answers · asked by princessslave 2

please i dont know what to do

2006-10-17 04:06:25 · 9 answers · asked by sweenychick09 1

what did they find irresistable in you?

2006-10-17 04:03:09 · 5 answers · asked by anxiousgirl888 1

IT'S BEEN MONTHS SINCE WE HAD SEX. HE CLAIMS IT HAS NOTHING TO DO W/ ME...IT'S A PROBLEM HE HAS. SAYS HE HAS NO INTEREST BECAUSE OF DEPRESSION...BUT OBVIOUSLY HE DOES IF HE IS ON THE PORN SITES??? I HAVE TOLD HIM NUMEROUS TIMES HOW UNSATISFIED AND UNHAPPY I AM...WHY CAN'T HE STILL TAKE CARE OF ME??? I HAVE TOLD HIM THAT PORN DOES NOT BOTHER ME USUALLY...IT'S ONLY BECAUSE I HAVE TO GO W/O...THE FACT THAT HE IS MAKING A CHOICE FOR THAT OVER ME. IF I WERE SATISFIED...THEN I WOULD EVEN ENCOURAGE IT. WHAT AM I NOT UNDERSTANDING HERE???

2006-10-17 03:53:38 · 30 answers · asked by D 1

2006-10-17 03:50:56 · 14 answers · asked by Rachel 7

We have no hugh obligations as far as credit cards,furniture or vehicles with payments. We are amicable about everything even the two boys. However, I am a college student in the state of Florida and am not working.We have been married for 17 years. He wants to move out and find his own place. My bills for the household expenses are around $2000 a month. What do yall think? He says he only wants to give me 250 a week. Remember he makes around 70K a year.

2006-10-17 03:45:18 · 21 answers · asked by shugabam! 2

2006-10-17 03:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by CORNIE 5

I had to sign a prenup which gives me nothing. I have nothing. What should I do first? HELP!!!

2006-10-17 03:41:10 · 15 answers · asked by Michelle J 1

If so i have see men who is married and also have Mrs according to thier culture. Find from which country they belong!!!!!

2006-10-17 03:35:51 · 35 answers · asked by Ali M 1

my ex and i have been over for a year now. to me we were both happy until i had to move away...soon after he started acting different. not too different hust not like i known him to be. so i broke up with him. i still had a feelings for him so i lied and played games to get his attention but he wasnt to forgiving. months later he contacted me telling me he missed me but i was already involved. 4 months later he tells me hes engaged then gets married one yr exact of time i left to his ex girlfriend. we never talked about what happenedwith our break up and now he doesnt even want to talk to me. its like everything we had was so easy for him to let go. Whats the deal im just curious

2006-10-17 03:33:03 · 7 answers · asked by REGINA p 1

Not divorced yet. Individual I would be living with is a male that has no history of abuse, neglect, ect...

2006-10-17 03:31:24 · 13 answers · asked by me_me625 2

my x-boyfriend & my name is on the deed to the house but only his name is on the mortgage. Do i have equal rights to the house? We were never married or any kids.

2006-10-17 03:28:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Being a Christian, I believe porn to be very wrong and damaging. I have a beautiful wife and am very happy, but due to a situation outside our control right now, I'm having a little bit of difficulty in this area. Without going into more detail, I'm just writing to get some advice or answers from someone on this issue and ways to defeat it. So any answers or emails are appreciated

2006-10-17 03:18:04 · 18 answers · asked by BMJ2 1

While having the intercourse what % of penis would be pulled out? is it full or half ? which one women like more.

2006-10-17 03:17:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will my divorce be final after this? My ex and I aren't fighting about much, we've already pretty much split our property and are on pretty decent terms (other than matters related to child support), so I don't see this as being something that will drag the divorce on any further...

2006-10-17 03:15:45 · 3 answers · asked by crankensteinsmom 1

hmm where do i start, i mean it was a year ago, basically failed my first test and told dan* how i felt, he felt the same and it went from there. It went on for at least 5 months but then he moved into a new house with his wife, step son and his own kid and decided to ditch me.

I cant seem to get over him, its got better but i am still so angry at him, he was supposed to care about me and he stranded me, my mum got cancer&he promised to be there for me but he left me broken hearted and to deal with my life alone.

I am so angry with him, i have calmed down since it all happened, but he is basically a c*** towards me now, he doesnt speak to me and refuses to even aknowledge that we happened or that i even exist.

When he was with me he he told me he loved me and wanted to leave his wife- i know likely story, but i believed it because i was naive- i was 18 at the time and he was 32. I really loved him and it properly smashed my world apart.

I dont know how to get over him completely??

2006-10-17 03:14:46 · 23 answers · asked by static_lullaby 1

i got married after knowing my now husband 6 months. we have been together a total of 10 months. In this time I have caught him in a number of lies, which i forgave him for. This time he caught in a lie about having a daughter which he doesnt have. He didnt even seem sympathetic when he apologized. he lied staight to my face repeatedly when i tried to confirm the lie (which isnt the 1st time he did this) then i broke up with him and he left and brought a ticket home when were we supposed to be on vacation together as we speak. all he can say was that he said sorry like its no big deal that he lied and makes he its seem like i made the wrong decision when hes the liar. What should I do know?

2006-10-17 03:13:28 · 14 answers · asked by REGINA p 1

To whack your spouse over the head with a ball peen hammer, garage can lid or some other handy object?

What do you do to resist the urge?

2006-10-17 03:07:31 · 14 answers · asked by oh kate! 6