I have never had a true friend I met my husband when i was 15 and married last year im 20 now and i feel like ive wasted my life he works and i set home alone i would love to just have someone to conversate with and he says all i need is him what do i do if any one wants to talk let me know?
2006-10-17 04:32:33 · 33 answers · asked by rachel h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WAIT FOR YOUR KID AND IT WILL BE OK AFTER THAT. YOU WANT SOMEBODY TO PASS THE DAY TIME. READ SOME GOOD MAGAZINES AT THE DAY TIME. BUSY WITH OTHERS WORK OF HOUSE. MAKE ONE FEMALE FRIEND LIVING NEARBY YOUR HOUSE CHAT WITH HER IN THE DAY. GOD BLESS YOU PEACE OF MIND.
2006-10-17 04:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You appear to be a daydreamer, expecting something that is impossible. It might be because you are only 20… having crossed the teens not so long… you are a bit immature… and disqualified for becoming a homemaker.
Better, you should have been studying in some college and opted for marriage after having crossed 25. Romancing at the age of 15, appear to be too early and so does your wedding at 20.
If you have so much time to think about your loneliness and condemn solitude then it is sure you might not be looking after your house at the optimum. If you keep your home in order… neat and clean… properly decorated… if you make many delicious dishes for your taste buds and that of your husband then you would not have time to breath… how come going around for a spare wheel to tow your vehicle.
You appear to be not so honest to your husband. Stop searching a spare chatterbox on internet.
2006-10-17 08:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are at home that does not mean that you can not have friends. Your husband should not expect you to not have friends. That is being unfair on his part. You can go out shopping, if you have family you can communicate with them. Sitting here and writing to others on Y/A is very good for you to. On here you are able to express your feelings give others your advice. And when you are not busy doing something else this will keep you occupied. Everyone needs a friend and someone to talk to not only their husband,he goes to work and spends time with others and you should be doing the same.
Good Luck!
2006-10-17 07:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends are hard to come across. People need time away from their spouse and they need to socialize otherwise you can go crazy and drive your partner crazy because then you become very needy. Why don't you go to college meet people there and interact with them join some clubs. You should be more social and leave this heavy strain on your spouse and so should he. You should have your time with your friends and your time with him. I would go crazy if I didn't have any social interaction and I am a homebody but too much can make me go crazy, I get in this weird depressed mood if I stay home with no outside interaction. If school isn't possible right now what about just taking like a part time job or something hopefully your spouse isn't possessive otherwise you will have issues.
2006-10-17 05:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage at very young ages, as in your case, is more a result of infatuation and in many cases don't involve any serious thinking. Moreover, your not having any true friend, might have led you to latch on to your husband, in whom you found a sense of true friendship. But friend and hubby are different things. Anyway, now that you are married, try to make the best of it. If you want to talk that badly, isn't there any woman in your locality with whom you can converse? I'm sure your husband wouldn't mind that. Try your best to make your marriage work by talking more often to your husband about things you want badly and try to convince him. Engage yourself in useful hobbies. No use harbouring negative thoughts like you have wasted your life. Think positively. If anyone wants to talk to you, talk to him/her. If that person isn't bad, no reason for your husband to object to.
2006-10-17 06:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So stop sitting home alone! Go to college or get a job. Getting out with other people will make you feel better. Next time your husband tells you that all you need is him, file that comment in the "lie" section of your brain -- everybody needs more than just one person in her life!
2006-10-17 04:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe friendship never ends,only when both become a loyal frineds to each other.You do crave for a true & a good friend whom you can talk, who listens,respects and understands you very well,spends time with you.Isn't it true?Is that you are looking?I live in Washington DC-you may email me at ppandya_1@yahoo.com,we will go from there.Take care dear.
2006-10-20 07:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by Prakash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like hes a controller, when he said all you need is him , but on here there is a lot of people that would be more then happy to talk to you, or find a friend at church, old school mates, or get out and meet people at stores restaurants lots of places to meet people that you'd like to talk to.
2006-10-17 04:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ill talk to you as a friend all you want.
I have to go to the gyn now but I promise Ill answer every mail you send me.So you have one new friend that should help a little.
2006-10-17 05:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Nevada S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are hurt a lot by him, and he doesn't respect you at all. I think you can resume your modelling career and make your way in it. You should not waste your time as he is wasting your time and career. Better realise it now before it is too late!
2006-10-17 05:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by anil m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you have a child it will pass the time, better yourself, get yourself into some studies, or work out and make your bod look good! Decorate the house, paint! Don't start watching soap operas and get lazy!
2006-10-17 05:13:24 · answer #11 · answered by momma whitley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋