2006-10-17 04:33:08 · 8 answers · asked by bibillinma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Straight out and to the point - Sounds like a pun now that I think about it however, this is the way to go.
If you keep it a secret and run around behind your partner's back to satisfy your desire you will be short-changing yourself and living a lie. As with all secrets, it is eventually found out so all you are doing is delaying the inevitable.
The Good: You tell your partner and find out you have their supportive. You may even be surprised that they too have a secret that could enrich both your lives.
The Bad: You tell your partner and find out you do not have their support. They may even get down-right ticked-off and as such give you a piece of their mind before walking away from the relationship.
The Silver Lining: You may find someone new who is able to help you fulfill all your desires. At the same time you do not have to sneak around to find happiness and everything is out in the open.
Good luck with your decision. Only you know if you want to walk around with your secret all your life.
2006-10-17 05:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by IB M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is one male, or female on this planet who has not in one time or another been confused about their sexualty and found themselves in a curious experimentation of the same sex. Now when you implied the question do you mean you have had encounters and sexual relationships with the same sex, and have not shared that with your mate, or is that you feel compelled to tell because you are going to take action in this area. If you have a mate who loves you and accepts you, no matter what dark secret you share they will understand, unless they themselves are insecure and find your information to be a threat. If that is the case it wouldnt matter if you did or didnt tell them, eventually their insecurity would weaken the relationship.
But if you plan to leave this person for said same mate relationship the only way I would suggest is to be completley honest, and tell them that you respect them enough to be honest with them as well. You cannot be responsible for someones lack of understanding, but what you can be responsible for is someones lack of understanding, because you didnt explain. You can only be as honest with others as you are to yourself. The acceptanc of oneself is much greater than the rejection of others
I wish you well.
2006-10-17 12:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by fryedaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he sees her checkin' out a man, make a comment how good he looks. You can pretty much go from there based on the reaction she gives.
2006-10-17 12:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to? Since you asked this in the Marriage & Divorce section, I would assume you are married. Do you tell her about all the other women you are attracted to? Assuming you intend to be faithful to your partner, there is no need to tell her about your other attractions -- it's really irrelevant.
2006-10-17 11:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask if she wants to have a threesome and then tell her that you would really enjoy it and she should get the idea. Plus you both get to have some fun!!!!
2006-10-17 12:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Nkeadle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless you're the partner, stay out of it. It's none of your business
2006-10-17 12:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by married2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her so she can leave your homo ***.
2006-10-17 11:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by kyle g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I'll just go pack my things now"
2006-10-17 12:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋