Marriage & Divorce - 17 October 2006

in bed last night with 3 midgets and after she was done I asked her what the hell was that all about and she said she spoke to Ms Cleo. She told my wife that these 3 midgets were to be the last men on earth so my wife wanted to sample the goods first before they got all tired out. Would you do a midget if they were the last man on earth ?

2006-10-17 09:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

I found out that my husband has female friends, by snooping in his cell phone, he swear their only friends, however do u think if he knew I talk to one of his homeboy on the phone every now and then he would be mad, we are friends, of course thru my husband, but we just seem to click. Should I tell him, I wouldn't say I'm hiding it from he. I swear it's just someone to talk too.

2006-10-17 08:56:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 08:53:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 08:53:40 · 54 answers · asked by Japanese Womanizer 1

My husband and I have been happily married for 2 years. Recently however, I found out that my husband lied about some finances....long story short.....we are going to couseling. My husband keeps saying he wants a divorce whenever we don't see eye to eye on something we don't even have to be arguing. Then he'll come back and say he didn't mean it. This is hurting me and I have told him so. But, here lately he is always standoffish and wants to fight about everything and I don't. Any advise? Any similar situations? I just want our marraige to work. Thanks

2006-10-17 08:53:39 · 24 answers · asked by Princess T 2

Ok, I have been married for 10 years and when it comes to sex I do everything I can to satisfy my wife. I take her advice and when it is not feeling good to her I listen to her suggestions and bam she is happy. However when I suggest that I would like her to start working on the cowgirl position with me, she instantly gets defensive and snaps at me. W*T*F. I thought it was the men that had the ego problem. I really didn’t think that it would be such an issue, every once and a while I would like her on top so I can relax and enjoy it. Also I thought that position was empowering to women to be on top. Before any of you girls decide to bite my head off and say that I need to be more in tune to her feelings. I did not demand, I suggested as she does to me about what she might like and how to make it better. I am about to the point where I am going to snap. I want some satisfaction. Any suggestions?

2006-10-17 08:50:18 · 21 answers · asked by winterlinda21 1

2006-10-17 08:49:21 · 32 answers · asked by yooooha_mastenger 1

Tell me your story!

2006-10-17 08:45:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My marriage is over. After years of trying to hold on, I'm now letting go. He said this morning that he wants a divorce. I want to give him one. The only problem is the cost.

He hasn't worked steady since July, and has shown no interest in changing that situation.

He's cost me so much already. Any advise on how to do this without paying out the big bucks?

2006-10-17 08:44:15 · 6 answers · asked by Doll 2

ok so-well ill be getting married to this wonderful guy-only problem is -he has a daughter! i cant stand her- i want him all to myself-he needs to choose between me or her-and another thing-i dont want to take her anywhere- shes like not cute at all-she looks like her ugly mother-shes 4- and if we have a baby-all his attention needs to go to our baby and not her.

2006-10-17 08:43:45 · 20 answers · asked by dee 1

of the engagement ring or wedding ring? I hear that most women want just what is special and has meaning to her or shows how much the man cares for her. However I hear women discuss how much their rings cost or how large and the grades of the clarity, and bad talk other women who have a smaller one? Whats the catch? Apparently it matters where the diamond comes from too, I wouldnt go "cracker Jack" but you always see the movies where he gives the girl a key ring or foil ring and she's in tears and thinks it's the sweetest thing. I know she wants that diamond though...right?

2006-10-17 08:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 08:41:13 · 3 answers · asked by harshal n 1

What the hell happened to the sanctity of marriage? What is so sad is that some of us go into marriage knowing well, if it doesn't work out we can get divorced! Personally I think they are the scum of the earth, but thats just my opinion. Why do people cheat (GET THE HELL OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP) so its not considered cheating JEEZZZZZZZ I have to ask!

2006-10-17 08:40:59 · 11 answers · asked by HereweGO 5

i haven't been married long at all and i'm constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me, he hasn't given me any cause to think this other than he is constantly telling women that he is single.

2006-10-17 08:40:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I AM LOOKING TO FIND A GOOD MARRIAGE COUNSELOR, NON- CHRISTIAN APPROACH. ANY SUGGUSTIONS?

2006-10-17 08:35:40 · 3 answers · asked by TONYA G 1

do I need to get a referrel from one attorney to get a divorce, how do I get a divorce lawyer, can any one help me??

2006-10-17 08:33:00 · 3 answers · asked by Sara 1

I see alot of people trying to justify their actions. Anyone going to say "it was wrong I was stupid, I wish it never happened"?

2006-10-17 08:19:56 · 1 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I found out that my husband has female friends, by snooping in his cell phone, he swear their only friends, however do u think if he knew I talk to one of his homeboy on the phone every now and then he would be mad, we are friends, of course thru my husband, but we just seem to click. Should I tell him, I wouldn't say I'm hiding it from he. I swear it's just someone to talk too.

2006-10-17 08:14:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 08:13:46 · 2 answers · asked by big_strong_one 2

Why is it cheating spouses (and now ex spouses) can justify all their lies, cheating and deception? My ex is a master at making himself feel look like a good guy and that he actually was the one hurt. He was the one who lied, cheated and left his family for another woman!

Also - why do things get nasty whenever money is involved?

2006-10-17 08:01:48 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are moving out of NY to Sanantonio, TX. My husband got a new project in TX. Its been really depressing spending the last 2 months in NY. I just love this city, its never boring here! I have been here for more than 6 yrs now (almost my entire sweet yrs of youth) and am really scared of how its going to be in TX. Anyone know abt sanantonio? Do you think its a rt decision?

2006-10-17 07:56:56 · 23 answers · asked by Someday 3

I've been separated from my husband for 5 years and have been with my partner for 4 and a half.I would like to get divorced,but the problem is my ex has heart disease and has been told there is nothing they can do for him.do i ask him for a divorce anyway?or is that kicking him when he's down?or do i wait for the inevitable to happen.I'm not being a cow,i'm just saying the facts.help!!

2006-10-17 07:54:15 · 45 answers · asked by missy k 6

2006-10-17 07:51:58 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay see my ex-husband has a drug problem... he smokes weed and uses cocaine. In the past he has done both in front of the the two children we share ( that he gets every other weekend ) for two years i kept them away from him because of the use but now i the courts have ordered me to let him see them... i can not make the courts understand the situation in his household. So here i am hoping some one can help me fix the problem.

2006-10-17 07:47:46 · 20 answers · asked by akn521 1

I've read alot of people saying "I cheated because I wasn't getting what I need..."
Anyone out there willing to say "I scr*wed up and I was stupid and I feel horrible about it". No positive spin about it.
So anyone just think their affair was just the stupidest thing they have ever done?

2006-10-17 07:37:51 · 5 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

THIS MAN IS THERE 4 ME MORE THAN MY HUBBY AND I TRIED TO DO MORE THINGS WITH HIM BUT HE JUST WANT TO BE AROUND HIS FRIENDS.

2006-10-17 07:35:47 · 5 answers · asked by mdsp35 1

So my freind really likes this guy, and he seems to like her. He says he "wants her" and that he "likes her as a person." He has made a couple of moves on her, they kissed, fooled around ,etc. but no sex. Only problem is, he's married with two kids. He tells her she is beautiful, but he can't keep seening her because he doesn't want to lose his kids. In fact he has told her this twice, but still came back for more the second time. He obviously really loves his kids, and seems to be a good man. He says that he has never been in this type of situation before. He never says anything about not wanting to hurt his wife, only about hurting his kids. Is it just me, or does this guy seem to just be with her for the kids? Also, if he came back to my friend once after telling her he couldn't, is there a chance he'll slip up again, or is it more likely that he is serious this time.

2006-10-17 06:44:41 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately my husband and i havent been on the same page, we dont click like we use to. i sometime talk to my ex but my husband doesnt know.when i talk to my ex i can tell we both still have feeling for each other.we both thought that we were each others soul mate.the reason that we are not together is that he moved and i fell for someone else (my husband) .should i stop talking to my ex? tell my husband?or see if there really still chemistry between my ex and i ? what should i do?

2006-10-17 06:43:35 · 58 answers · asked by Kay 2

I have been with my boyfriend almost 2 years. Before we met I used to have a drug and alcohol problem I have been clean for several years. The problem is whenever we argue it gets thown in my face. No matter what we talk about it always go back to my drug usage. How can I get him to understand the person I was before is not the person I am now? Also, how come it is such a double standard if you say something about a mans past (god forbid) it wages an all out war but when a man says something about a womans past it is also the here and now so to speak? Also any time I bring up his past ooh my god it's horrible. How can I get this guy to chill. Always saying I am like his ex wife and this and that and I always have to accept that and when I say something negative about him he comes back with "if you don't want to be with me leave" I really love him more then anything I just want to get along and have an even ground.

2006-10-17 06:39:58 · 29 answers · asked by Hautie 1

My wife walked out of our relationship about 2 years ago. I was not sure whether to call it quits when she left. We have a son together so that made it harder for me to just get up and say let's get a divorce. I tried somethimes to make the situation better, but everytime we meet or talk it's always about the past, and about my fault's only. I have to admit that our communication level was not the greatest. But at the same time i find it hard to communicate with someone who has outburst ever time, or always pointing the finger at me. Sometimes i would walk away from the situation till things cool down. Maybe a day or so, then respond. I love her a great deal, so during our time apart we would have sex. So she got pregnant again. I tried to be the better man for the family and for me by asking her to take her ring back and start over. She told me that she would not take the ring back and she was not sure if the child was mine. I know what to do in my head, but in my heart i don't know.

2006-10-17 06:38:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous