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I found out that my husband has female friends, by snooping in his cell phone, he swear their only friends, however do u think if he knew I talk to one of his homeboy on the phone every now and then he would be mad, we are friends, of course thru my husband, but we just seem to click. Should I tell him, I wouldn't say I'm hiding it from he. I swear it's just someone to talk too.

2006-10-17 08:14:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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it sounds like you are entertaining the idea of exploring more than friendship because of the lack of trust ("snooping..") you have for your husband ... and you are already secretly ("if he knew..") talking to your male friend on the phone ... this sounds like something being done for revenge without proof that could blow up in your face .... I think your marriage is in trouble and you two need counselling

2006-10-17 11:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0 0

I think you have issues in trusting him. That means, there's issues in the marriage. If you wish to save it, improve it, you need to talk with him. Not accuse him, but tell him how you feel, and where your insecurities lie. And if you are truly innocent, then there's no big deal if you have friends who are the opposite gender. And if he is truly innocent, it's no big deal for him. It's an issue in your relationship, not anything else. Good luck

2006-10-19 06:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 0 0

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