i haven't been married long at all and i'm constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me, he hasn't given me any cause to think this other than he is constantly telling women that he is single.
2006-10-17 08:40:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think i would be paranoid if my husband told other women he was single. Gosh what on earth is he saying that for, sounds suspicious. Tell him you do not like it, its bad. if he does not listen, well, would see a counseller because it woudl liek he wasnted an affair, he is out of order. take care its horrible and he should not do this to you, you are too precious.
2006-10-17 08:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I CANNOT believe your husband is telling women he is single!! He should be proud to be married. Does he wear a wedding ring? If not what are his reasons. Marriage is a huge, lifelong commitment and his behaviour should not make you paranoid it should worry you. Openly question his commitment to you, ask hime why he married you in the first place if he was only going to hide it from the world, especially women. Tell him how it makes you feel (pretty crappy i should imagine). It not fair for him to treat you this way, you ar ehis wife he publically declared his undying love for you. You need to tell him how you feel and take no bullshit, there is obviously a problem with how he feels or he would not be doing these things. Rather than sitting their stewing over your paranoid, explain you're not only hurt but afraid he will cheat on you. If your marriage is to last this needs sorting out openly and honestly now before one of you does something you regret. Marriage is a work in progress it needs constant effort, communication and adjustment on both sides. Talk to him and do it now. Good luck
2006-10-17 09:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by esmequeenoftheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not paranoid. Most times your first thought is the correct one. If you think he is cheating, then 9 times out of 10 he is or already has. Communication is the key especially in a marriage. Talk to him about it and let him understand your point of view. Telling someone of the opposite sex that you are single but really married seems a bit disrespectful to me.
2006-10-17 08:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by ikkinaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!
Firstly, strange how youre thinking like that - believe me I have gone through that myself (not married but with my boyfriend). If he hasn't given you any clause to think like that maybe you should try to forget about it as believe me, it will take over and you will begin to believe it and imagine things that are not there.
If it upsets you that he is saying he's single to women, tell him that and tell him you are beginning to wonder why and it's not that you don't trust him, it's that it bothers you - put it back on him and ask him how would he feel it you were going around telling men you were single. What was your relationship like before you got married? Did he say he was single before?
2006-10-17 09:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Deemakca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a spouse you're in contact , no longer paranoid or gullible. If he's cheating numerous issues to contemplate. you're saying his activity keeps him faraway from domicile many times in one day. is this the 1st time this sort of incident occured, and if so then it may desire to be because of the fact of his workload he did no longer have the time to touch you actual away. although he could have discovered it sluggish to make a rapid call. it quite is something which you will could desire to make know whilst he's taking destiny journeys and confront him with reference to the failings which you're feeling are in-maximum appropriate and be conscious them down so which you will possibly be direct and top. If he's cheating on you you will definately locate out because of the fact his movements permit you to comprehend: as quickly as you already know this for particular then as a spouse refer to him approximately it and permit him comprehend the form you experience: If he's a sturdy loving husband then he's conscious what he has to do to regain your self assurance in him. stable luck.
2016-10-19 21:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be told, as gently as possible, that if he tells even one more girl that he is single that you will seriously consider ending this relationship. Ask him how he would feel if you were doing that with other men. Honestly, I know men and women are different but sometimes I just want to shake men and tell them to grow up!
2006-10-17 21:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just normal for you to feel that way because what he practices (introducing himself as single) is not normal at all. Why don't you talk it over with him and ask his objective in doing that? Tell him how you feel about that. Be open to him about your hurt emotions, fears and worries.
If he can't change the habit, I guess, you're the only person who can decide, If you can tolerate it, stay with him. If not, pray and set him free.
2006-10-17 23:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Orlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up he shouldn't be telling women he's single! It doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating but he's obviously wanting to chat up other women. I would ask him what the hell he's playing at before he really does cheat!
2006-10-17 09:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by littlebabygem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the last line in your question is a good enough reason why you don't trust him. How would he feel if you were to do the same? Try going out with your girlie friends one saturday night and take off your wedding ring and see what he says.
2006-10-20 00:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was u . I will be paranoid as well. Just sit him down and ask him what he mean by single or do he want to be single than he can go ahead !!
2006-10-17 09:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋