What the hell happened to the sanctity of marriage? What is so sad is that some of us go into marriage knowing well, if it doesn't work out we can get divorced! Personally I think they are the scum of the earth, but thats just my opinion. Why do people cheat (GET THE HELL OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP) so its not considered cheating JEEZZZZZZZ I have to ask!
2006-10-17 08:40:59 · 11 answers · asked by HereweGO 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i agree. what happened to the covenants made between man and woman and even God? hhhmmmm....no one seems to care any more. they live by Satans wants and not Gods. anyone that deliberately breaks up a marriage/family will burn in hell. the unity of a family is sacred, and when a person breaks it out of lust and greed and selfishness, will have a lot to deal with on judgement day. not my opinion, clearly states in several places in the bible, you know, the word of God.
2006-10-17 09:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by dragonsclaw27 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
GEEEEEEEZ-is!
Why are all of you people casting judgement on someone else's life? I guess you are all saints right?
I really dont understand why YOU are so concerned with what goes on in someone else bedroom! If you are faithful to whom-ever you are with then cool hopefully they are staying true to you also......but to call others scum & other names like that tells me that you all are sticking your nose in, & worried about what goes on in other peoples bedrooms! why? what does it matter to you? If 2 consenting adults want to fool around with eachother then thats up to them! let them deal with the good & the bad of what may or may not happen!
I'm currently not cheating nor am I being cheated on.........But I dont sit around wondering why is john doe sleeping with a married jane smith! If I know of someone close to me who is cheating..........then thats there business! I hope that they are having a ball!
Now if you were just cheated on & was asking what steps should you take to get over it?......then I can understand this topic. But if you're just worried about why people that you dont even know & never will meet, are cheaters then you either need a life or are so bored that you're looking for other people to agree with you!
2006-10-17 20:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by Scorpio Rising 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people cheat because during the courtship days everything was great, and both parties were putting on their best face, than all of a sudden you get married and everyday life happens, and people don't have the relationship skills, or the right character to stay, they meet someone new who offers your spouse something new without problems, and for awhile that other person puts their best foot forward, and their self centered natures away to meet all his, her needs. i believe people who leave their marriages, are self centered, always looking for something better, never wanting to put the effort into their spouse. loving someone is not a feeling but a decision to stay with that person and work things out when you don't always get your way.i think cheating is wrong, and before you go out looking for someone else you should be divorced first. don't let the divorce be because you found something you think is going to serve your needs better.
2006-10-17 22:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately many people are in situations where just leaving is not a viable option. It takes two to tango but only one to walk off the dance floor and leave the other one standing there like an idiot. Marriage is a partnership but way too many start to take their spouse for granted and don't keep the fire alive.
2006-10-17 15:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by medic 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think people who date married people are there for the chase and know there is no real future there, take my ex and his girl friend together for years but she wont marry him because she knows he is a cheater (with her) how would she ever be able to trust him??
NICE! its too bad they wont ever have a solid relationship
2006-10-17 17:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by sharing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they are scum. If they only new what they were doing to the persons family they wouldnt do it. of course it takes two to tango so the cheater is also as much to blame.
2006-10-17 16:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think those people are insecure and afraid of real commitment.
I like "Scum of the Earth" too.
2006-10-17 15:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by Doll 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, in my single days I date 4-5 married woman (maybe one of them was separated). It was for the sex for me and an escape from their life for them.
I think people would date married people to be shallow. I know I was.
2006-10-17 16:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since they cheat now, why wouldn't they cheat later, scum of the earth, pieces of sh&t, lowlifes, etc.
2006-10-17 15:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Chris L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most people cannot get a divorce. Its easier for most people to just stay together. It also depends on who the people are.
2006-10-17 16:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by sillybeargirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋