ok so-well ill be getting married to this wonderful guy-only problem is -he has a daughter! i cant stand her- i want him all to myself-he needs to choose between me or her-and another thing-i dont want to take her anywhere- shes like not cute at all-she looks like her ugly mother-shes 4- and if we have a baby-all his attention needs to go to our baby and not her.
2006-10-17 08:43:45 · 20 answers · asked by dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really hope he realizes how you are and decides not to marry your selfish ***!!! That is his child and he should love and care for her no matter what! Besides it takes a pretty pathetic girl to be jealous of someones kid. Grow up!
2006-10-17 08:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married to this man.
You are far to immature to marry anyone at this time. Did he have the daughter when you agreed to marry him?? Why would you think this would change??
A small child needs her fathers love and he needs her. Every child needs their parents love and the fact that you think you are more important that this child shows you don't have a clue. If you can not find it in your heart to love the child, you are not worthy of her fathers love, and your comments regarding her looks are so shallow I am guessing you are a teenager or at least I am hoping you are.
Don't make him choose, if he is a good man he will choose his daughter and you can move on and grow up
2006-10-17 16:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by sharing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You cannot really be that shallow, can you?
Just for the record, If you really mean this you must know that you are a selfish little child who will do little more than complicate the world of anyone who comes in contact with you. You must also know that his daughter has half his genetics so her lack of cuteness may also come from him. This could seriously affect your child. You need to leave him and go find someone worthy of your appearance. I do not think you could live with a homely child.
2006-10-17 16:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to be getting married at all. How can you say you hate a four year old. How can you call a four year old ugly.. You are selfish and self centered.. All children are beautiful..You have no right to make him choose between you and his child..
2006-10-17 16:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tracy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe you are lashing out at a four year old.He was her father before you even came in to the picture. That little girl deserves to have her father with her without you getting involved and treating her that way. She is going to always be there. If you want to be with this man you need to find a way to love this child and treat her like your own.
2006-10-17 18:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Pea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your wrong for that because first of all obviously his daughter came first before you did and if you don't like his daughter then i think he really shouldn't want to be with you because his child should come first......
and i think that your immature for that reason because all his attention cant go on ya child if you have one by him cause he does have another child and as a matter of fact they should be treated equally.. really what fault does his daughter have she is only four years old... and your acting like a child. you need a reality check... to tell you the truth he should leave you because if you cant stand his child then he doesn't need to be with you....
2006-10-17 15:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN GIRLIE!!!
You have no understanding about the connection between a parent and their child. Your life really does become second to that of your child and any parent that disagrees is fooling themselves. We want the best for our children and for them to get everything they want out of this world. Its people like you who are sooo self centered that make horrible parents and are in my opinion why the world is screwed up. Someone like you show do the world a favor and grow up.
P.S.
Please don't reproduce.
2006-10-17 16:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no right to make him choose between his daughter and you. He is first and far most a father. There are too many children out there without parents and for you to try to contribute to that is both shelfish and just plain ideatic. I hope he smartens up and drops you like a bad habit!!!!!
2006-10-17 16:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by kit-cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a grip. You cannot expect a man to "choose" between you and his daughter. If you expect that, and if he does it, he'll choose choose between another woman and you someday, or between another woman and your child.
The best thing that could ever happen to that man is that he lets go of you like a hot rock.
2006-10-17 15:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by knowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married, you need to much attention and you will not get it with him, his daughter does come first for him - or should! Not you... Sorry Hun, not the answer you were fishing for, but you are too selfish.
2006-10-17 16:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋