I found out that my husband has female friends, by snooping in his cell phone, he swear their only friends, however do u think if he knew I talk to one of his homeboy on the phone every now and then he would be mad, we are friends, of course thru my husband, but we just seem to click. Should I tell him, I wouldn't say I'm hiding it from he. I swear it's just someone to talk too.
2006-10-17 08:56:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Having FRIENDS of the opposite sex should not be a big deal... sometimes you need a mans opinion just as he might need an outside womans opinion.
2006-10-17 09:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk to your husbands friend I would say talk to him in front of your husband if you don't have nothing to hide then do it in front of your husband.I talk to my husbands friends but when there around the house and he is present.Or just a hello on the phone when they call him and he is not around.But what your husband does I do not agree I would not let my husband have phone numbers of girls even if he only says there only friends I do not believe that.
2006-10-17 09:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by SMILEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him it will start a fued.
Guys are not as understanding as we can be and they tend to be very jealous.
I don't know your man so it is hard to say he's the jealous type, but most men are.
Just maybe stop the calls and concentrate on the two of you.
If you want a strong relationship ditch the other distractions.!!
2006-10-17 09:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Joanne C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know what I think, I will tell you what I think, I think you have posted questions on here about your good for nothing husband and your dysfunctional relationship several times and for some reason you will not read the answers or you are to stupid to understand what they are saying. He is a piece of garbage, so either leave him or stay with him but dont keep asking us what we think when we have told you already.
2006-10-17 09:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why I don't go with a guy who has "homeboys" or "homies" or whatever..stay out of the ghetto when you look for a man...you should be alright then.
2006-10-17 09:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not telling you about his so called girlfriends, why bother. if he finds out and gets mad you have somethign to throw in his face.
2006-10-17 08:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Gee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why were u snooping, b/c you knew you were doing it too? maybe u guys aren't really for each other, he talks to other girls, and you talk to other guys.
2006-10-17 09:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both are immoral, unfaithful, sneaky and have no scruples.
Why....a marriage made in heaven!
You're made for one another.
2006-10-17 08:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is getting it on the side sing up for Springer
2006-10-17 09:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
then it all sounds like it's pretty fair then , huh?
2006-10-17 09:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋