I love my husband very much, but for some reason i allways find myself looking for someone new ive never cheated on him but i think if i had the oppertunity i would and i know thats so wrong with me ?
2006-10-17 04:28:45 · 25 answers · asked by rachel h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I DO NOT FEEL THERE IS ANY NEED OF CHEATING BE COMFORTABLE WITH HIM. NEVER SEE THE DOUBLE LOVE STORY PROGRAMME ON T.V. REMAIN BUSY WITH HOUSEHOLD JOB WHILE ALONE AT HOUSE. PRAY TO GOD WHO MADE YOU AND WISH BETTER LIFE FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND.
2006-10-17 04:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think especially when your in a relationship with the same person for along time. Everything feels so much like a routine. The things that used to give you butterflies become just like everything else. So people in general tend to want to feel like someone thinks they are attractive. They want to be flirted with and caught off guard and probably more than not romanced. I can honestly say that cheating would be a very easy thing to do. And for the first few times it will seem very exciting and like a whole new relationship. But in the end of everything if you truely love the one your with you will only end up making mistakes that will haunt you for the rest of your life. If you need some time to find you, then I say take that time and communicate with your partner. People would rather be hurt by the truth than a lie.
2006-10-17 11:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by hnilickafan33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a husband and also looking for someone!Well,I understand how you feel.I felt the same way.I found that mostly people who are in this kind of situation are internally unsatisfied,unhappy from inside,very ambitious,bored with the routine life,want to do something great means just than a normal person does on a regular basis.This is not called cheating because you are not a normal person.You have lots of ambition & drive in you.Want to talk to someone to share good & bad moments,respects you & loves you dearly.I am in the same situation too.Just looking for an opportunity.It's nothing wrong dear.Email me ppandya_1@yahoo.com
2006-10-20 14:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Prakash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as that is just a thought at the back of your mind, no problem. As an idle fantasy it may be OK, but it must never be a serious thought. Once you put it into practice, its real bad. Infidelity is wrong by any standards. And since you love him, why do you want to do it? Perish the thought from your mind. Its best for you. You never know what dangers these things might lead you to.
2006-10-17 13:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the problem is attention, you eather don't get it from him or you don't get enough, this is not just something wrong with you, many people who are married for at least a couple of years feel this. they may not admit that, but it is natural. things get to be routine and we tend to loose the spice, you husband may not see this because he works and gets out of the home, the best thing that you could do is to get a job so that you are not stuck at home and can have proper interaction with other adults. but try not to cheat, especially if there is children involved.
2006-10-17 12:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is missing in the relationship.It could be a number of things.Identify what it is that's wrong and talk to your husband about it.There's nothing wrong with admiring other people but address the fact that you know you would cheat if given the opportunity.
2006-10-17 12:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by malenymph69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for something else, there is something missing in your relationship. You need to sit down and figure out with your husband what that is and fix it. If it can't be fixed I would seperate before you find someone new. It is not fair to him to put him through that.
2006-10-17 12:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out what u expect from ur hubby. if he had been cheating on u would u like it. of course not then just make him ur best friend, try to c all the qualities u like in a guy and u wont b able to cheat on him. TRUST ME. take care.
2006-10-17 12:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by appu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ideas are positive but thinking is negative. Instead of looking for some one, better look for your husband. Enjoy the life, in due course of time, some one will enter in the life of both of you, (I mean, a beautiful baby) who will enforce you to think positive, OK.
2006-10-17 12:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do not know your age but maybe you didnt enjoy your bachelor life nicely. try to go and enjoy in night clubs with your husband and you will stop looking for opportunities. it would take time, but you will need to be patient. All the best :)
2006-10-17 12:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋