please i dont know what to do
2006-10-17 04:06:25 · 9 answers · asked by sweenychick09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do your best to accept it. If everyone tries to make the best of this situation, it makes it easier for all involved. It's not easy though. Good luck!
2006-10-17 04:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they still love you and feel the same about you. the devorce affects you greatly but yet is not about you. I'm sure this is really hard time in your life, Remember also that the person your parent is marrying is not there to take the other parents place but there to be a friend and compaignion to yourparent. Just because your parents couldn't make their marrage work does mean they have to be single and alone. You mom will always be your mom and dad will always be your dad and that won't chance. I'm sorry you have to go threw all this I know it is difficult because I am devorcing and have 2 children it is hard on them also. Sit down with your mom or dad and just talk with them let them know how you are feeling and also be willing to listen to them. Good luck sweety you need to beleive everything will work out
2006-10-17 11:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by wendy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me and it was hard. Finally I stoped thinking of how I felt and thought about my parents. They new they did not love each other and needed to start over and i needed to respect that. So try to accept that your mom and dad love you but they just want to be happy. Keep a opened mined give the Step mother or father a chance.
2006-10-17 12:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on just like they did. They are people and need to be happy. Sometimes, married people just are not happy with eachother anymore and that's no kind of life to live. Sure, it's an adjustment, but it will work out, just try to go with the flow and keep communication open with both parents. I wish you luck sweetie, it's definitely not going to be easy, but so many of us have experienced this through out life and we have all made it out OK. Good luck!
2006-10-17 11:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some good friends to talk to, and ask your parents for some help in counseling. You might even find a family that isn't divorced and spend a little time with them. That is what helped me.
Parents go nuts when they split up, and a little more nuts when they remarry. Hang in there. I am sure they both love you.
2006-10-17 11:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my mother has been married 7 times and my dad has been married 4 times. it's no big deal just let them live their life the way they see fit. their the ones that have to be happy with what they are doing.
2006-10-17 11:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing for you to do. Support them in their decision to divorce even though you don't want them to split up. Wish them well and hope they find love again.
2006-10-17 11:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by robinallsup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be,in ur country s,itz cmman,india,they vauerelatnshp,so it doesnt happen,rarely here so i dont know.in ur country itz common so dont do anything,thy will get marriedagain,than u go again,ok.
2006-10-17 11:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by unlucky hand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when mine got divorced i got over it
2006-10-17 11:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋