To whack your spouse over the head with a ball peen hammer, garage can lid or some other handy object?
What do you do to resist the urge?
2006-10-17 03:07:31 · 14 answers · asked by oh kate! 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People, I did not say I had these urges. I was merely wondering if you did.
2006-10-17 03:31:30 · update #1
Sugaree, I totally agree with you.
2006-10-17 05:40:22 · update #2
I have never been tempted to whack your spouce over the head. until now.
2006-10-17 08:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think these people who say see a therapist or being very hypocritcal and not completely honest with themselves.
I have been with my mate for six years, and I absolutely love him dearly, and accept his downfalls because that is love. Now I love myself as well and loving him does not in any way take away from that. If it did, then it would be over.
But I can say there has been many times I have wanted to whack him upside the head, and I am the first person to say that violence is not the answer. But have I thought about it, god yes
Why because he is the only person who knows how to reach me, and with saying that he also knows how to piss me off. It's a give and take, when you give yourself to someone completley you have to be prepared for the consequences of that. And sometimes that means them knowing you so well they use it against you to gain control during a confrontation. IT's human nature we cant help it. And when you have two people that are passionate about every aspect of their lives and share that passion together there will be fireworks, and their is never a dull moment. I will say I love my husband, but their are somedays where I want to murder him, and I find no harm in being truthful about that. Being truthful only leads to a more stable and meaningful relationship.
I wish you well
2006-10-17 10:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by fryedaddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either you are b.s.ing everyone or you have some head issues. I would say to see a marriage counselor but your choice of objects depicts an underlying violent urge to harm your husband. Seek a Psychiatrist out, they're in the yellow pages. Psychologists can merely counsel and not prescribe medicine..
2006-10-17 10:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey:
Well a few times but I ahve clamed myself down thinking a couple of things:
(1) I donot wanna go to jail
(2) He is not worth it
(3) I can do better- I mean hurt him another way!
Goodluck, remember Violence donot pay!
Love SANAM
2006-10-17 10:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Hell yeah. U hit it on the head with that one. But u know what I'm tempted to hit him with my damn fist with some brass knuckles on. That was so funny because when i seen the ? b4 reading it in it's entirety i thought u was talking about bad tempting meaning: being real mannish. U feel me.
2006-10-17 10:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by the real deal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've hit my ex husband with just about anything that was close by. I even threw the cat at him once. I tried to hit him with the car but he jumped behind a tree.
I never threw anything first though. I've been hit with just about everything too. That's why we aren't married anymore
2006-10-17 10:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by danadeville 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm tempted to whack someone alright. six months on here without a violation and i get three in two days.
2006-10-17 12:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but we both have martial arts training so its only a passing thought. We do spare though.
2006-10-17 12:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I get to mad at my husband, I go for a walk or go visit a friend.
2006-10-17 10:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by lanie1713 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. I am always perfectly reasonable.
2006-10-18 15:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by Trust Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋