both of us have our own families and we havent seen each other in years, we started talking and it seems like we just picked up where we left off. is it possible to keep the friendship open and not do anything that would cross the line?
2006-10-17 09:06:42 · 18 answers · asked by sundance28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't play with fire. You will regret it.
b smart. Good luck
2006-10-17 09:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't believe that someone can BE IN LOVE with two people at the same time. You can love more than one person - i think we all do parents, siblings, but the love between a man and a woman (or a man n a man n a woman n a woman) isn't the same. I think if you believe you will be hurting your significant others by pursuing your relationship your making a HUMUNGO mistake and should quit while you are ahead! Be smart is it worth ruining your current relationship, if you love your husband n your family don't u owe it to them to talk it out - COMMUNICATION is the key - good luck!
2006-10-17 09:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible, but this may be a dangerous path. It sounds to me like your feelings may be more than platonic. If that is the case, you should keep your relationship in check. Remember, there are two families that could be destroyed by an inappropriate relationship. If you start to feel an emotional tie to this person, you should keep your distance. Your feelings could change the way you feel about your husband, which, in turn, could push you across that delicate line you mentioned. If you can remain platonic friends, than you should enjoy your rekindled friendship.
2006-10-17 09:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible, and if you can keep the friendship open, then its good. But watch yourself. Don't trust your own strength to cross the line, it takes only 2 secs.
2006-10-17 09:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by jackbauer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible but it is also very hurtful, it's so hard to have to live with one man but be in love with another. Your love is on your mind night and day and you can't give your love to the one that is just there. Best to tell your husband, because when the phone rings he knows it's someone else. Just tell him and why not divorce and get with the one you love. That is if he loves you also. Get happy, you just live one life because when your dead your dead for a hell of a long time. Be happy while you can.
2006-10-17 09:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, but hard as hell. I am in the same situation. I love my husband, but as for my friend all he would have to do is say the word, and I would be there. BE CAREFUL not to cross the line. this is also considered to be flirting with danger.....The bible says that adultery actually starts in the heart, no action has to be taken! Good Luck!
2006-10-17 09:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible but very risky. And even if u don't want to cross the line, u are going to be headed that way if u keep it up.
2006-10-17 09:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is ok to feel that way with some one, but i worry that one day u might cross the line. Maybe might be u or him to strat cross the line and that will hurt ur own family!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 09:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by narumol c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, its "easy" to "love" someone for many years when its not their socks you are picking up off the floor constantly, his meals you have to cook, all life's problems and stresses you have to deal with DAILY....get a grip lady, what you have between this guy isn't love at all.....you just feel unappreciated and bored at home.
Fix your marriage...........
2006-10-17 09:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't play with fire, you will get burned. Don't throw the baby out with the bath water. When in Rome, do as the Romans do.
2006-10-17 09:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When deciding between right and wrong everyone walks the razors edge.
2006-10-17 09:26:39 · answer #11 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋