i was young when i get married with him....and now i am 26 years old and he is old then me....he is jelous of me..what can i do?
2006-10-17 09:33:01 · 10 answers · asked by maria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
talk about it. Get a mediator and find out why he is jealous all the time,if he doesn't want to resolve the issue then get a divorce
2006-10-17 09:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with the religion though same religion consider modesty a woman obligation. Nothing can ruin a relationship faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly when jealous. Jealousy will often change to the non valiant abuse.
Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive.
Jealousy comes about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them. Try to get consoling together maybe even with his clergy and yours.
2006-10-17 10:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, you knew his religion/faith before you married, let alone his country/culture.
he has every right to be jealous, he is after all your husband.
what are you doing to give him reasons to be jealous? every man or woman has a tendency to be jealous, human nature.
i am mormon, married a hindu. we discussed our faith/cultures for a good year before we married, i knew and he knew what we were up against.
its call love, and compromise. i love my Father in Heaven, and my love for my husband is just as strong.
love in the home is important, having faith in the same God is just as important.
dont throw away a good man.
you need to sit down and talk with him, so he knows what is going on in your head/thoughts.
communication is so important.
he may misunderstood something you did or said. you may have misunderstood something he did or said.
the best way to relax and move forward, is to talk with him.
you obviously love him, and he loves you.
talk to him, let him talk to you. you may have this paranoid feeling for nothing. and if something is bothering him or you, a talk will help build your relationship, and your trust. work it out.
dont complain about it, talk about it - with him, your husband.
get it fixed. by communicating.
good luck.
2006-10-17 09:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by dragonsclaw27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN LIKE HELL! Run very fast, far away and don't look back! I should have and I have regreted it every day since. I have a child and I will never escape him. He is the biggest mf that ever lived and has complete control. RUN!
2006-10-17 09:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce.
2006-10-17 09:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you still ma?rried; what kind of problems does he cause you.
is he mean to you?
2006-10-17 09:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Doctor Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god is he controling you. tell him to stop . You know your limits, now let him know
2006-10-17 09:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by cherdwum4 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is he jealous of?
2006-10-17 09:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-10-17 11:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by amberharris20022000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm.........What?????
2006-10-17 09:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋