My husband found out that his friend had been emailing me trying to get with me. When he asked me about it I explained that it was just some suggestive emails and I shut it down once I realized that he was serious. I showed him the responses i sent and he's cool w/me, but his so-called friend. My husband has been letting this simmer since Friday morning, and a few minutes ago he called from work and let me know he called his friend on his break and let him know that he knows and his friend said, "so what about it?" Then he hurried and got off the phone and said that he was at the hospital w/his wife. YES his wife. My husband says his so called friend did this because my husband had sex w/ his wife when they were in high school, before his friend and his wife ever met. I feel like this so called friend is no friend at all and should be ashamed of his behavior. I don't really want his wife to know because we are friends and i would NEVER sleep w/him, but he might try this w/ someone else
2006-10-17 15:46:14 · 22 answers · asked by PRL8268 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all if you are friends with his wife then you should let her into the loop and tell her what is going on. If she finds out after the fact she will be just as upset that no one told her what was going on. You are also right this person is not a friend and it would be in both you and your husbands interest to cut ties with him.
Also it would be a good idea to block further emails from him and if anything does come through take it straight to you husband so he knows it is not your fault.
2006-10-17 15:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you guys really need to find new friends. If you're not going to tell his wife about his behavior the best thing is to get away from them.both you and your husband.
2006-10-17 16:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by STORMIROSEBUD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest your husband and you find new friends. This behavior is against the ten commandments of life.
2006-10-17 15:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay as far away from both of them as you can. You should have informed your husband after the first message whether you believed it or not.
2006-10-17 15:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut contact with these people unless you want to get a divorce. You are not in high school.
2006-10-17 16:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by deedee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sounds like one "friend" you would be smart to keep out of your emails and your life. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-17 15:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in a tough place.This so-called-friend sounds like a jerk and really is NO friend.Telling your friend,she might get mad at you and never talk to you again.Or she might be greatful and try to go to counseling with her husband.Its really your call.But God Bless.
2006-10-17 15:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by springtime_pink_rose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Damn!!! Are you guys STILL in high school? You and your husband need to forget about this f*cked up couple. Find some new friends!!!!
2006-10-17 15:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by Who, me? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah your right, your so called friend has a problem...jealousy...he needs to grow up or get professional help
2006-10-17 15:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by bprice215 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell the wife.
2006-10-17 15:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by lucasban 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋