My husband seems to understand, but I feel it myself. There's definitely something wrong with me!! I'm only 22yrs, healthy, so why don't i want it? Help me!! What can I do to be more keen? I want to surprise my husband by asking for it, not giving all the time..
2006-10-17 16:10:09 · 14 answers · asked by firaisah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you need to check out with the doctor. Either you had mentally stress with sex or you are not prepared to have a child
2006-10-17 16:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u want sex? ask yourself this question.
Have u always been like that or did it start happening now? maybe you r tired from working all day taking care of the kids
Maybe your husband doesn't turn you on anymore, he then has tp be more adventurous and romantic not just asking you to have sex with him.
Have u had other boyfriends before besides your husband? u should see if u had the problem with them too
Sometimes also if your body has changed like when u give birth or something and u don't like how u look anymore so u r turned off by sex proposals
I suggest you go read some hot stories on www.literotica.com or www.lustylibrary.com and you'll have some ideas on how to surprise your husband.
Good Luck, try to work on it find out what u really r missing it happened to me you know b4, but I worked on it and it changed our sex life my hubby and I
2006-10-17 16:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People, even 22 year olds, go through stages like this all the time. Remember that for women, sex is just as much emotional/mental as it is physical.
Do you have a lot on your plate right now? Worries that keep you up at night? Financial problems? Work stress? Family fights? Many of these things will preoccupy your mind so that you can't kick back and relax and enjoy yourself.
Try to elevate some of your stress, and things will get better!
2006-10-17 16:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling inadequate about your not being what you perceive to a wife's lot in life. To be the husband's concubine! Did he complain? Love is not just the ability to have sex! Try to please your husband orally. You'll feel more like your keeping him happy. Also, go to a doctor. There might be some medical reason for your decreased interest in sex. Go and ask youre HUSBAND, and get it over with! Gees! Since when do you think that only youre husbands can be the instigator? He will be overjoyed when you ask him. He will think he's a super-stud!
Go Girl...get with it!
2006-10-17 16:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a problem think of.... someone else. I ...use to do that with my husband....and i met a friend of his and what ever my husband want i did.and i had the best sex and sometime i would do it with a woman i saw in town or in the movies.....cuase men like a cook in the kicken and a whore in the bed room......no you husband is not understanding .......belive me he fine some one....he won't leave you cause your the cook but he need the (Whore) in the bed room ...we all need to feel wanted
2006-10-17 16:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are struggling with the idead that of not staying celebate long enough. Seeking a marriage counselor would probably help you in some ways.
2006-10-17 16:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself a little bit drunk n play with your own finger b4 your husband came home.Play until he came in the room.When he open the door u know what to do.Try this ok.
2006-10-18 06:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine what could be going on but I would definitely go see a doctor and if there isn't anything physically wrong then go see a therapist.
2006-10-17 16:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not get into that situation. My wife is like that but she is older than that, and it bothers the hell out of me.
I would love my wife to ask for it. That is a big turn on for me.
Be careful, you are too young to turn him off. Once he goes out and cheats on you, 90% of the time he will do it again.
I ask you to take care of your homework, or he will find it elsewhere. Been there, done that. Believe me.
2006-10-17 16:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certain types of birth control can ruin your sex drive. I was on depo-provera for a while and it killed it. talk to your doc about changing.
2006-10-17 16:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋