OK,This is the deal..met a man,by internet,ended up knowing him from college,sounded like we were both in same type of marrage(husband sleeping on couch for a year,him 5months)wife had an affair,I did not cheat on my man,we just separated.So we got together,ends up wife is a little screwie,scrip meds and wine,after about 2months into relationship ,broke it off,well went on a break with him,got together for a day of "fun",after a month apart, then called or IM everyday for weeks and she got phone bill and she calls me,I dont talk to her but tell him this is not working,she freaked like she was being cheated on,not like she was a cheater.
So I end it again,like another break,he sends me an email from her to him to prove her cheating and med. abuse,still wont see him,chatted twice. Wife has called me 3 times today..wants me to call her,says there are things I need to know. Should I call her back
2006-10-17 17:57:08 · 25 answers · asked by DeeDee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let her call you again, and when she does listen to what she has to say then let her know that she needs to deal with her problems with her husband and no tyou.
2006-10-17 18:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by mickey_ds 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, call her. Find out her side, then drop this guy -- he's as screwy as she is.....He's no more ready for a relationship than any guy still living under the same roof with his wife. Then date guys who are really available.(divorced, been by themselves awhile, yadayada.....) There are tons of available guys on the internet, nice ones too. (and obviously some still attached or in situations just tooooooo sticky to bother with.....You just met a game-player, that's all. Don't put too much store in anyone until you know them better.....) You just need to be more careful......and go slower.
2006-10-17 18:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, because if you will take all his claims on faith, maybe she has some dirt to sling also. Its rediculous they havent gotten a divorce. Both marriages equally pathetic for different reasons.
You dont state why your hubby is on the couch.
So maybe you need to look into your own selection process before you run off with this guy and end up in yet another screwed up relationship. Do your homework. And hear what she has to say.
2006-10-17 18:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? You have nothing to hide right? You are both separated from your spouses? It will give you some insite into their twisted relationship. Document it, you may have to use it later when you have to get a restraining order. Or you may find out he is full of crap and has been really cheating on her all along.
2006-10-17 18:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by tiredinaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure call, whats the worst that could happen, you ruin a relationship that doesnt exist. In all actuality, you might end up helping this lady cope with her problems. She probably needs to explain herself so she doesnt seem crazy. If she just ends up b*tching at you, hang up the phone and call it a day.
2006-10-17 18:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have gotten yourself into a very unhealthy relationship. This is very sick and its not going to get better. Leave both the man and his wife or you're going to get into more trouble than you can handle. Just walk away and concentrate this energy on your own marriage instead. Save your marriage and get counselling, don't waste yourself in bad situations.
2006-10-17 18:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did mention "WIFE" are you saying that he's still married? if that's what you said than you need to back off until he's done, because what comes around goes around. This is part of his life that you can not interfear with, you can call her and tell her that you are out off their life until he works out some kind of deal with her.
2006-10-17 18:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by TOUR IN WARZONE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, call her and tell her that whatever happened between her and her husband is none of your business and please don't call me anymore. Make police report if she does. Stay out of the relationship until he makes the effort to officially end it. Whatever she has to say about him is her opinion and you don't need to be involve.
2006-10-17 18:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by 7yrs2go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you like the drama, eh? You did cheat, being separated does not mean being divorced. If you have reconsidered your fling with him, stay far away from both of them. If you're lovin all the attention and "fun", go at it...
2006-10-18 01:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's sucking you in to her drama. Drop the both of them and let them fight it out. It's their issue to deal with. Change your phone number too.
2006-10-17 18:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by chnchita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋