and emotional abuse of my daughter [and the 3 kids that get to hear it ] he doesnt think he has a problem . she is a stupid ***** period as far as he is concerned . he makes good money 100 k or more . maybe they could persuade him to get counseling . of course i may never see my grandkids again , i could just anonymously mail the family violence laws to them with his name on it . he is to smart to hit her . cops call the name calling .......here it comes ........wait for it ........a verbal altercation .......you stupid ***** you . how f-ing dumb are you ? ball and chain around my neck forever i guess. he wont file ..he wants her to ...appearances you know .
2006-10-17 15:41:23 · 15 answers · asked by Mark H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are out of your mind. Stay out of it, and don't try and mess up his job or he can and will sue you.
2006-10-17 15:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As tough as it is, this would not help. You would most likely get him fired (which could escalate things more) or they would tell him about medeling family (which again, probably esalate things). There is no simple solution. As a police officer in the military, I saw many domestic issues. Verbal altercations can easily be raised even if he doesn't seem like it now. I am sure your daughter didn't marry this guy thinking how he would make a great husband and that little pesky belittling and emotional abuse was no biggy. Rarely do we see the neighbor on TV saying how this guy was a jerkoff and they knew it would happen like this. Don't escalate it yourself, not only will you possibly lose now, but in the future you will blame yourself if something does happen and you were not always there for your family.
2006-10-17 15:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by trooperthorntton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money does sometimes talk, I'd suggest even taking a loan out if necessary to hire the best attorney that money can buy!!!!!!!!! Get her full custody of those kids!!!!!!!!!If you invest in an attorney now, he can pay your daughter back for it later if you get my drift!!!!!!! Children should not have to listen to that kind of language, get the best attorney money can buy, plan on spending $5000.00, do not give attorney all of the money up front, give 1/2 up front and then a little at a time in order to make sure attorney works for you!!!!!!!!!!!Leave his work alone in the meantime, don't do anything stupid now that may be held against you in a court of law later!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 15:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it as far as calling anyone....however tell your daughter to get the hell out. Give her a place to stay and be supportive. If you start calling places...which wont do anything anyway....it will make it worse for your daughter.
She needs to be strong and get out...and you need to support her....but DO NOT start a P issing contest with this guy...as you and more importantly your daughter and grandchildren will lose.
2006-10-17 15:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stuck in the middle of this abuse, if you do mail this you may only be opening a can of worms. Unless your daughter fights back there is nothing you can do but grin and bare it
2006-10-17 15:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your daughter want to do?
I don't know if I would mess with his job...he could take it out on them since she won't leave him.
Sometimes as hard as it is there's nothing you can do but be there for her if/when she comes to her senses.
2006-10-17 15:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could loose your daughter and your grandkids. She is an adult, unless there is physical abuse, unless you have solid proof, stay out of it.
2006-10-17 15:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not the way to handle the situation get him fired then he won't be able to support the kids.
2006-10-17 15:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by Tink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can call the family abuse hotline
2006-10-17 15:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by PURE SEDUCTION 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are laws against polygamy? You couldn't have shared this with me earlier??? Thanks a lot, buster. Now I gotta make some phone calls.
2016-03-28 13:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a real mental problem , just tell your daughter too enjow the money , and give you some of it then you want have such a problem ,
2006-10-17 15:46:05 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋