Marriage & Divorce - 5 October 2006

2006-10-05 06:32:15 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does the stay at home mom(or housewife,if kids arent home all day),cook every night or most or hardly? And does she cook meals or just heat things up? And does she do all the cleaning and are these things demanded of her?(does she have one of those husbands?) Does the husband in your home do "housework" as well?

2006-10-05 06:29:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-05 06:29:13 · 21 answers · asked by lizdouglas_liz 2

what do you and your spouse like to do for fun other than sex or and being with the kids. But its also silly you would never let other people know

2006-10-05 06:23:15 · 25 answers · asked by lets talk 1

I mean does that mean if your divorced your free to see other people and are free and sep. free but can't see others?

2006-10-05 06:23:14 · 18 answers · asked by shazbot 1

My husband and I have very little in common. He is happy to spend every minute of his waking hours with his guitar. In the weekend, I want to go places (shopping, exhibit, fair, seminar, events, festival, zoo, swapmeet...) just for fun, information, entertainment... He just want to sit at home. I feel I have wasted my life with this guy.

I have gone out shopping alone (have to run errands and buy stuff). Should I do the rest by myself and leave him behind? How would he feel? It is not very fun to go out alone but it had been 5 years like this. Should I "move on" with my life and find a weekend partner?

Any one have the same problem? Can we go out together? I am in Los Angeles county.

2006-10-05 06:20:00 · 17 answers · asked by chanella90012 1

he wants a divoce i dont gods law says its no grounds for divoice i am not goig back to him but i dont want to divoice him

2006-10-05 06:18:43 · 18 answers · asked by emma m 1

he wants a divoce i dont gods law says its no grounds for divoice i am not goig back to him but i dont want to divoice him

2006-10-05 06:17:56 · 11 answers · asked by emma m 1

my husband and i have been together since i was 15. i am twenty now and we just moved to italy because he is in the military. i had to leave my family behind which was hard for me cause we are very close. i got a job here but i havent started yet, so i stay home all day. my husband is really mean to me because he makes all the money and i havent started working yet. everyday when he comes home from work he "inspects" the house to make sure i cleaned it good enough, and everyday he finds something wrong. he yells at me and tells me im a lazy slob and i would be no where with out a man to support me. he always puts me down. this is the fist time i havent worked since i was 16. i dont know what to do im so depressed! i just moved to another country with him and all he does is controll me! what should i do? he treats me like im worhtless! i want to leave but i cant its too expensive and im scared its not the right thing to do. please give me some advice

2006-10-05 06:15:31 · 30 answers · asked by amber 2

My husband has repeatedly been caught lying to me about talking to other women. He always has put the blame on me and never admitted that he was wrong. We are trying to work on our marriage but I find myself constantly wondering if he has changed. And advice for how to try to get over the past or can I>

2006-10-05 06:09:42 · 18 answers · asked by bamagrits84 3

2006-10-05 06:06:03 · 24 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3

my husband does nothing around the house, and i do it all, his never thankful or says anything nice to me, he don't want to have sex, and he stays in our room, and tells me how worthless i am

2006-10-05 06:05:29 · 15 answers · asked by rockerad 1

We are a good christen family and my sister is gay,which most of us in the family accept even though God says it's wrong. I just got married 7 months ago to my very beautiful wife
Well I work far from home, So many times I'm out of town and my sister is staying with us.I was happy for my wife to have a friend and a relative there to make sure everything was ok. I was able to get some time off from work to come home early from my job and found them showering together.needless to say I was heartbroken,I can't believe that my wife would do this to me and what about my sister I can't figure that one out as well. I'm so hurt and upset at the both of them. they tryed to give me some lame excuse that they were just saving water(we are on well water) But from what I saw thats a lie. what would you do if your life just came to a halt why did god let this happen? I've been good

2006-10-05 06:04:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

First let me start by saying that I love and adore my wife. But our sex life is truly boring the heck out of me. When we make love it is always at the same time of night, in the same room, lights off, same position, etc…you get the picture. I have tried to talk to her about this several times and have made gentle suggestions for how we might try to spice up our sex life a little, such as being a little more spontaneous, trying different positions, maybe even buying a book about different positions. Each time I have suggested something, she says it’s immoral or that I’m being dirty and she drops the subject cold turkey. I have thought about suggesting that perhaps we should talk to a marriage counselor or a doctor that specializes in this sort of thing, but there are two problems with that. First, I wouldn’t know where to find someone who specializes in such things and second, I don’t want to hurt her feelings.

So, my question is, has anyone else been in this situation and if so, what did you do about it? Did things eventually workout for you and your significant other, or are you still just dealing with it? I don’t want to leave my wife and get divorce, but I am a healthy red blooded American man and I want us both to enjoy our sex life together. Serious and mature responses only, please. I really need some help with this…

2006-10-05 06:01:36 · 26 answers · asked by Desiderata of Happiness 2

2006-10-05 06:01:30 · 6 answers · asked by gemma 1

I've tryed lingerie, and things. But when he says no (which is quite a bit), and i try and push it, he gets angry...which usually ends up with my feelings being hurt.

2006-10-05 06:01:01 · 12 answers · asked by photofemale810 3

Did this person just fall into your lap? Or were you patient until things fell into place?

2006-10-05 06:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-05 05:57:06 · 12 answers · asked by emma m 1

My wife is 22 and Im 27. we have been together for almost five years now and two weeks ago she tells me that she doesnt know what she wants, she feels like she wants to be single and she might not feel the same for me like she did when we got married. but she wants to try to work it out to see if we could both get to feel the same way we did when we meet. the other thing is that is just started a new job where she works with all men, i dont know if she she might be getting a little to much attention. should we get a divorce??????????

2006-10-05 05:56:38 · 16 answers · asked by caragon27 1

I am a married 38 M getting ready for my first surgery and scared and very depressed. All around me is failing and havent been able to really work. After this surgery (back) I am going to be off for months, my wife is disabled. Not sure what to do, but just reaching out there cause I am very very depressed and not sure what to do. I love my wife but we have had some real rocky roads and only been married less then a year. I did wrong she did wrong, but she got her family involved and now its like they come first for everything and i feel alone. there was no cheating just lies and mental abuse on both sides. We have said sorry and not doing that anymore, but there is no sex. Like I said I love her more then anything, but I feel alone right now and wish i wasn't here. Feel like really giving up.

2006-10-05 05:55:21 · 2 answers · asked by buddabear38 1

We've been married for 11 1/2 years. He feels very remorseful, but I can't forgive him nor trust him. This was a girl @ his job. He says that he didn't know what he was doing and is being very apologetic. I am very sad, and hurt and don't know what to do. We have two children together. He is giving me as much time as I need to forgive him. He says that he loves me, but i can't stand the thought of ever kissing him again.

2006-10-05 05:52:11 · 33 answers · asked by Tina S 2

The bad thing is, i have never been able to catch her in the act. How do you catch someone that is slick? She covers her trail really well, and is always one step ahead of me. Without the evidence, I have no case. Every red flag in the world is there, and I have been told she was with someone else. A private investigator is out of the question, since I couldn't hide that much money without her knowing. Surely somone has some ideas I could use, don't they?

2006-10-05 05:45:34 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 38 M married to a 33 F, we have had our ups and downs. Her family dont like me and she involved them in our fights. I was very controlling and mentally abusive, never physical. We have gotten back together and I know what i did was wrong and have said my sorries and I have been treating her good now I am going in for surgery next week and I feel something in my mind doesn't think I will be taken care of and if anything happens she will just run back to her family, who is and has been involved for to long. I to have been very hurt the way everything has went down, but I not the only to blame, she lied and did other things. She always chose her family over me know matter what the situation was. i have felt neglected and alone. My hurt turned into anger and that is where the bad words came from. not anymore, but its like I know I am different, but I dont feel she is and someone in my mind they are still involved. I am inlove, what do I do. Very sad and depressed and need some advice.

2006-10-05 05:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by buddabear38 1

Just curious how many of you use a vibe when doing it with your partner. If so, what kind.

2006-10-05 05:43:51 · 9 answers · asked by DK28 1

I dont think my husband has a romantic bone or blood vessel for that matter in his body. I am not asking for him to gush over me, nor do I expect it to be all of the time. We have been friends since 3rd grade, dated and now married, from day 1 there was no romance. Anyone have any advice on how I can help him be romantic, or am I just wishing for something that will never happen?

2006-10-05 05:43:17 · 27 answers · asked by nanners040477 4

Couple did not married. They planned a wedding, but it didn't work out. The custody battle is messy. The mother is trying to take sole custody through character assassination; including false accusations. Father is on the verge of doing the same.

2006-10-05 05:35:14 · 6 answers · asked by stigys 2

2006-10-05 05:29:25 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-05 05:28:21 · 28 answers · asked by River Walker 2

repost, to make more clear....My brother lives in another country, his ex wife and 2 kids live in florida. she ripped him a new hole when the divorce was done, Can he be held in contempt for not sending her the alimony part of the payment? IF he were to come to the states, can anything be done (like arrested?) He pays his child support as ordered without question. She just lied and had fake papers for the judge showing she was a poor woman being left out to dry, she lives (and always has for 18 years) in an OLD trailer, and lives on her family's property. She is getting 2000 a month alimony and he only makes 3600 a month??? IS THAT FAIR? HELL NO! WHAT CAN HE DO?????

2006-10-05 05:25:14 · 8 answers · asked by angie_pcola 1

My husband clearly wants to have sex with other women, and to mask it he keeps trying to hook me up with other men saying he wants to see (sexually)me with someone else. He has placed me in situations where he pushes me to be with someone and gets mad when i don't hit on them or make a move. He talks about "swapping" because "i know you want to do someone else and maybe i could hook up too". I have given him the freedom to do what or whom he wants but he thinks it is a trap so i can divorce him for infidelity. He is the one who wants to stay online trying to find someone "for me". I don't want any part of being with someone else sexually and his addiction is really starting to bother me. What do i do?

2006-10-05 05:18:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous