Marriage & Divorce - 5 October 2006

He yells at me and treats me like crap these past two days i try to ask him whats wrong and he just ignores me. man i hate him so much right now, what should i do???? today we were pulling in the drive way and he yelled at me and i told him not to and got out of the car slammed the door and my son got scared and started crying, i wanna tell him that if he wants out just to tell me but to not treat me like shiit, what should i do? oh and i also reminded him that our 2 yr aniversary is this saturday and he just said SO??

2006-10-05 14:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by sourgirl 3

2006-10-05 14:04:37 · 13 answers · asked by paul 2

I think I married the wrong guy... We dated for 1 year and then got married. He was perfect at first. He was so sweet. He was caring. passionate. We made love frequently. However now after 7 months of being married, its like hes not the same guy anymore. Hes mean and rude to me. On top of that he never spends time with me. All he does is wake up, go to school, and chill with his friends the rest of the day and come home at 2am or 4am. We rarely have sex anymore and he never spends time with me. Like I dont think hes cheating. Ive tried talking to him and all he does is make excuses... I dont want to leave him bcuz im still madly in love with him and i want our marriage to work. is there anything i can do to try to fix our marriage?

2006-10-05 14:03:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-05 14:03:02 · 4 answers · asked by paul 2

I am in the middle of a divorce, but I still sleep with him, is that wrong?

2006-10-05 13:56:53 · 19 answers · asked by Evie 2

Would you let her do your taxes?
Would you play on a volley ball team together without the kids?
Would you keep her on your checking a year after the divorce?
Would you loan her your car for a week?
Would you say its ok for her to call you at your girlfriends house when it does not involve the kids?
Would you say its ok that she looks at your medical records?
Just wondered.

2006-10-05 13:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6

We are seperated and I would like things to work. He always thinks there is some thing sneaky behind what I say, and that is not the case. I just don't want it to end, and love him very much. I haven't given him any reasons why not to trust me, and I don't get this. Please help

2006-10-05 13:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by Evie 2

my g/f and i have ben together for 2 years. i love her varry much. i trusted her complety until about 3 month aggo when i found some mail that she left out that was some letters from a friend across the country. they things they were talking about was how much they like each other and how they wish they could sleep together. so confronted her she broke down and told me that she still has fealing for him, but she agreaed that it would be in the best intrest of this relation ship that she stoped talking to him. so a few months have gone by and i found out that she is still talking to him. so im haveing a hard time trusting her. i want to but now i question what else she is lieng about. i think it is varry disrespect full of her to be doing thease thing behind my back. i want her to say these thing to me and not some one else. she doesnt seem to care. is it time for me to just give up? (sorry about the spelling)

2006-10-05 13:29:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex contacted me recently after she left me, & we were able to meet as well. She explained how sad shes been feeling recently, and that she still loved me, although she walked out on our marriage because she believed I hurted her. But the thing is, I dont feel the love from her side. I mean, her ways of showing love before was different, but now I just feel like shes just saying "I love you", gives me a few kisses, and asks how was my day.

Am I just imagining, or is it possible that my ex just says that she loves me but what she actually means is that she misses having someone in her life? She says that she can feel my love, so Im sure that Im not doing anything wrong. But I remember how she insisted on the divorce because she kept on saying that she can never forget how much I have hurt her, & I believe that she is still hurt after 7 months of seperation, but she probably doesnt know it. Am I wrong?

2006-10-05 13:26:33 · 11 answers · asked by Zwerg 3

Sometimes my husband will take me out to the mall and I will see all these pretty women wearing these cute little jeans and I have asked my husband he would get me a pair and he said no :( He tells me that pants are for men and look too immodest on women. My dad told me the same thing so I have never been able to wear them. I guess I'm being a brat by me still asking every now and then but I guess I just wish I could wear jeans just once in a while, maybe every third Friday or something. Do you think there is anything I could say to my husband that would make him change his mind? If not, any tips for being content with dresses and skirts?

2006-10-05 13:16:52 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are yo fine with it as long as it doesn't go on to other things OR is this something that you don't tolerate at all?

2006-10-05 13:14:01 · 18 answers · asked by bettyspagettii 1

My ex speaks rudly to me. He always had to have control in our relationship, and what is worse, is his mother had control over him. He didn't work on our marriage when we could have saved it, and now that I am short with him, he acts as though I am wrong for doing that. What can I do?

2006-10-05 13:10:02 · 8 answers · asked by Evie 2

everytime when me and my husband ha a huge fight he always put my family members in it, he calims that me and my parents are going straight to hell!

2006-10-05 13:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3

I had been with the father of my kids for 10yrs and i left him because there was some domestic violence and drugs involved. I finally took the courage to leave him but why is it that i dont miss him or have feelings for him. He has hopes that we'll make things work out and be a family someday but im not interested one bit in doing so. Im trying to be self sufficient and financially independent,something i dont know about. Is it wrong to not miss him and wanting to get back together. Im i the one who gave up on us or what?

2006-10-05 13:05:58 · 19 answers · asked by melissa 2

2006-10-05 13:03:30 · 3 answers · asked by Hi :) 2

Ladies please tell me you would feel offended too if you climbed into bed while your man is still there after you just had a shower (yes in the nude of course) and he turns over and says " eeww there's a wet dog in the bed! Not good! Kinda turns off the mood!

2006-10-05 13:03:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i get my husband to trust me better? i have never doubt him, he's had bad experiences with past relationships and it has never been an issue b4. well kinda. but never this serious and intense. my husband thinks i have slept with someone b/c i decided not to have sex with him after delivery of our little girl to prevent from not having a third child. I think of everyday I have to carry those to around while he is at work in this HOT miami son...FELLAS please tell me what to do...Ladies pls help. I am going to ATL and ALABAMA (WAR EAGLE) to visit my friends but he acts so jealous and as if he doesnt trust me. My friend from college (a guy) came into town and he was cool with that. Now when I go on the trip to visit family and friends I wanted to visit a childhood friend who is in jail. I asked him if it was ok with him he said "I dont care." What do i do in this situation???? HELP!!!!!!!!!
I JUST GOT THE 3 MONTH BC SHOT TODAY SO WE WILL BE HAVING SEX!!
I AM NOT GIVING UP ON HIM

2006-10-05 13:00:57 · 6 answers · asked by Wouldn't u like to know 2

2006-10-05 12:58:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

most people have told me that getting married is boring. you never get to go out ,you never get to do anything.

2006-10-05 12:52:20 · 26 answers · asked by sweetie 1

I have been married for 13 years and a half, together 16. We have 3 children. There is a problem I used to thinkthe sex was ok, I have been having problems right now with stamina also getting it hard, I have been to the doctor. My wife told me thats my problem, I don't feel supported. It also feel like I have alt of pressure to try to perform. I don't know what else to do, because all I hear is complaints and no show of love and support!

2006-10-05 12:50:28 · 18 answers · asked by jokay 1

A friend of mine was active duty military when she got married, her husband was not. The person that married them did not turn in the paperwork but they got a marriage liscense. The military issued her husband a dependent I.D. (which means the paperwork was legal, because they check,right?) After two years they seperated, he ended up dating and then marrying someone else (without divorcing her). They have two sons together and he is now in jail. My questions are: Were they legally married? Can she file charges against him for marrying someone else while married to her (*if theirs is legal too)? Would the courts grant her a divorce at a minimum (if she does her own paperwork) or will she have to get a lawyer, which she does not have a lot of money to pay for one. Please give real answers, and references if you have any.

2006-10-05 12:50:27 · 5 answers · asked by LadyJ 2

how do i get my husband to trust me better? i have never doubt him, he's had bad experiences with past relationships and it has never been an issue b4. well kinda. but never this serious and intense. my husband thinks i have slept with someone b/c i decided not to have sex with him after delivery of our little girl to prevent from not having a third child. I think of everyday I have to carry those to around while he is at work in this HOT miami son...FELLAS please tell me what to do...Ladies pls help. I am going to ATL and ALABAMA (WAR EAGLE) to visit my friends but he acts so jealous and as if he doesnt trust me. My friend from college (a guy) came into town and he was cool with that. Now when I go on the trip to visit family and friends I wanted to visit a childhood friend who is in jail. I asked him if it was ok with him he said "I dont care." What do i do in this situation???? HELP!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-05 12:41:42 · 15 answers · asked by Wouldn't u like to know 2

Ok, help with your advice out there. My husband and i have been seperated over a month. Everyone says i should be getting more comfortable with moving on with my life, but it isnt happening. I still love him as much as the day i married him, i still miss him, i still go to bed at night crying. I still wish for every day that goes by that i would hear his voice, and the day ends and it doesnt happen. He hates me, its obvious, and its obvious he is happy with his decision. Our seperation occured because we could no longer get along. What do you do?

2006-10-05 12:39:41 · 14 answers · asked by Elly 3

wouldn't it be a better policy to keep your man at home by him knowing that you are the best there is and no woman can do it more often or as good?????

2006-10-05 12:38:39 · 24 answers · asked by 57chevy 3

I have been getting up in the night and looking at porn sights my wife just found out and is very MAD she says it is wrong and I should not do it behind her back what do think

2006-10-05 12:34:40 · 34 answers · asked by clueless 1

I work out of town 80% of the year. I have been married for almost six years. I found out that three months ago my wife started having an affair. I told her it was a mistake and I filed for divorce. She had an ex parte filed against me saying I threaten to kill her. I can prove that I didn't, but my lawyer insists that I plead out so I don't go to jail. He says its to hard to prove I didn't say it. then to say I did say it to avoid jail. He isists that in my case that the numberous calls to her won't look good. Those calls were only made to talk to my son. She wouldn't let me. So now how do I prove that she's lying and that I didn't say those things? I believe that pleading guilty is just what she wants so she won't lose her son and therefore her child support. She also knows I can prove she is a bad mother but with a domestic abuse charge I won't be able to gain custody of my son. I would like any help I can get.

2006-10-05 12:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by Dan P 1

WHAT REALLY TURNS YOU ON IN THE HAY

2006-10-05 12:30:44 · 6 answers · asked by pickledaddy 3

we where marry for 10 years and have three kids. i still love him but he doest want to be with me.

2006-10-05 12:29:29 · 25 answers · asked by lil dog 2

Do you believe you can have a couple of (feeling 'in love') relationships with someone or others over your lifetime yet feel you have found 'the one' that is your true soul mate.
I have felt this with my last partner but wondered if me feeling I have found my soulmate is all in my head.
Does this really happen and have any of you felt the same that you have also found your 'true soulmate'

2006-10-05 12:25:09 · 13 answers · asked by snogger18 1

Really, is there no end? Why do you have to grovel over every woman you see? Even if you are married, it's just seen as normal for you to fanticize about and look at every other woman. Why can't you just be satisfied with one? If you already have all the sex you could want, why do you constantly want someone else? It makes me feel like I will never ever be good enough and nothing I do is enough, he will still be looking for something else. Why do you do this?

2006-10-05 12:14:48 · 25 answers · asked by Ferosia 3