how do i get my husband to trust me better? i have never doubt him, he's had bad experiences with past relationships and it has never been an issue b4. well kinda. but never this serious and intense. my husband thinks i have slept with someone b/c i decided not to have sex with him after delivery of our little girl to prevent from not having a third child. I think of everyday I have to carry those to around while he is at work in this HOT miami son...FELLAS please tell me what to do...Ladies pls help. I am going to ATL and ALABAMA (WAR EAGLE) to visit my friends but he acts so jealous and as if he doesnt trust me. My friend from college (a guy) came into town and he was cool with that. Now when I go on the trip to visit family and friends I wanted to visit a childhood friend who is in jail. I asked him if it was ok with him he said "I dont care." What do i do in this situation???? HELP!!!!!!!!!
I JUST GOT THE 3 MONTH BC SHOT TODAY SO WE WILL BE HAVING SEX!!
I AM NOT GIVING UP ON HIM
2006-10-05 13:00:57 · 6 answers · asked by Wouldn't u like to know 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I AM COMITTED TO HIM AND WORKING IT OUT...
I BELIEVE IN GOD AND THAT HE WILL WORK IT OUT ONE WAY OR ANOTHER!! I WILL BE PRAYING FOR US AS I SHOULD HAVE ALL ALONG.
2006-10-05 13:01:35 · update #1
Well, it sounds like you both need counseling and really a relationship with GOd. Marraige is a covenant and it is not to be broken by unfaithfulness. He really needs to exam why he got marreid. Did he get married to worry about cheating or for you to build a family, life, and a long term commitment together. He has some issues and probably you too and I would recommend a family counselor because it sounds possesive if he does not trust you and you did nothing wrong.
2006-10-05 13:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Inspire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, once you 2 first have been given married ther could've already been that "wholeheartly" have confidence. turn the placement around, could you ideas if he went to his girlfriends out of state? even nonetheless there is not any longer something occurring with you or somebody else your husband will continually experience that way. Deep down he does have confidence you yet basically understand the way he thinks and acts. this is diverse now you cant flow to adult males buddies that are locked up.
2016-10-18 21:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey who hasn't had issues, but its not fair to hold u hostage b/c of the PAST! he needs to gt over it if u haven't done anything (PROOF) he needs to let it go a d trust u B4 u get fed up w/ the drama and paranoia !! Have fun while ur gone and deal w/ him w/ a fresh and rested mind!
2006-10-05 13:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what you can do for him to make him feel ok? Tell him, his insecurity is not your issue. Tell him about all your contact with other men and include him with your male friends. I am bi, my wife is straight and we both have friends of both sexes but we always make sure we are both copied on on all emails and know about all conversations with others. Marriage takes constant love and reassurance and total honesty and openness.
Good luck.
2006-10-05 13:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Houston Golf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LISTEN GIRL, IF DEEP IN YOUR HEART YOU KNOW YOU ARE FAITHFUL YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND TO TAKE A CHILL PILL.YOU CANT PAY FOR OTHER WOMEN CRAP.... DO NOT LET HIM CONTROL YOU BECAUSE IF YOU LET HIM DO THAT YOU BE ASKING FOR "PERMISSION" TO GO PLACES AND YOU ARE A GROWN *** WOMAN CHILDHOOD IS OVER.. HE NEED TO EITHER TRUST YOU OR GET SOME HELP TO COME IN TERMS WITH ALL THAT BULL CRAP... YOU TELL HIM LISTEN WHAT EVER IT IS THOSE GIRLS DID TO MAKE YOU SO INSECURE?? GET OVER IT YOU ARE WITH A DESENT WOMAN NOW AND I WILL NOT BE YOUR PRISONER.. GO WHERE YOU HAVE TO GO AND IF HE GIVES YOU TOO MUCH GRIEVE ABOUT IT WELL LET HIM GO... GIRL DONT LET HIM CONTROL YOU.... THAT IS NOT LOVE. YOU WILL END UP WITH ISSUES OF LOW SELF ESTEEM AND INSECURITIES ABOUT YOUR SELF.STOP IT NOW WHILE YOU CAN. HE AINT YOUR DADDY.... TELL HIM TO CHILL. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-05 15:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea if you got god on your side it will all work our
2006-10-05 13:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋