everytime when me and my husband ha a huge fight he always put my family members in it, he calims that me and my parents are going straight to hell!
2006-10-05 13:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my parents loves him and say that he a good man, he did somthing to me that they did'nt approve of like broke my leg, and had a affair.
2006-10-05 13:19:39 · update #1
I like my m-i-l to be, but I've had some horrible ones in the past. He needs to quit focusing on your family when you are fighting...this is b/t u and him.
2006-10-05 14:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by ASH 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may hate his in-laws but he married you and not them. When you argue and he brings them in it somehow, he probably is just saying things he has had on his mind from day one and resents them (as he has been holding this in for some time). If it bothers you, tell him so, and the next time you have an argument tell him to keep it between the two of you, ONLY!
2006-10-05 20:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by LadyJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't stand mine! We have been married for 18 years now and they (mother, father and sister-inlaw) still try to do everything they can to start trouble for us....thankfully, neither of us believe anything they say and just ignore them! But early in our marriage, because of them we fought constantly. Now my other 2 sister in-laws and my brother in-law...I get along great with them. On the other side of the coin, my husband just loves all of my family and they love him too!
2006-10-05 20:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate my in laws. They meddle way to much, and have always voiced that they wished our marriage would fail. If your parents are always in your marrital business, than I can see why his doing that. People just don't hate people for no reason. Plus, are you setting boundaries in your marriage with your parents. People tend to want to get a long with the others relations, and if he doesn't like them, he probably has a reason.
2006-10-05 20:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Evie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could never hate my in-laws. They are my husbands parents, a part of him. Too many people involve the family in their quarrels and thats just not right. Family is family, whether its blood or whether you married into it.
2006-10-05 20:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a butt hole but I know what you mean been there!
I used to have a huge grudge against my mother in law cause my husband always sided with her about certain things i don't know anyways that eventually wore off. But he still brings my mom into things. : )
2006-10-05 20:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i DON'T LIKE MY MOTHER IN LAW B/C SHE IS TOO GHETTO!
BUT THAT'S THE ONLY THING I DONT LIKE ABOUT HER.
I CAN'T CHANGE THAT NEITHER CAN I CHANGE THE FACT THAT SHE IS MY MOTHER-IN-LAW. I DONT WANT MY CHILDREN TO BE GHETTO SO...
I JUST HAVE TO LOVE HER FOR HER!!
2006-10-05 20:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by Wouldn't u like to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋