Would you let her do your taxes?
Would you play on a volley ball team together without the kids?
Would you keep her on your checking a year after the divorce?
Would you loan her your car for a week?
Would you say its ok for her to call you at your girlfriends house when it does not involve the kids?
Would you say its ok that she looks at your medical records?
Just wondered.
2006-10-05 13:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keeping in mind, would it be ok if your girlfriend to do the above things with her ex husband?
2006-10-05 13:59:05 · update #1
It is my eternal wish to never see her again, hear from her again, or be reminded that she even exists....ever!!
2006-10-05 13:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She could do my taxes if I felt she done a good job.
I could do things with her because we need to get along and this is good for all. Kids, mutual friends and us.
No the checking accout is now mine and she needs to access and I need none to hers.
If she needed it for the kids only. Loaning things causes problems in friendships.
No do not bother me unless it is an emergency about the kids or I am at home or the occasional cell phone. My friends do not need to feel we are still in love with each other. That is hard on a future girl/boy friend.
Why does she need to see my records. If the kids need to see family history then fine she can look for that reason but if nothing to hide then it does not matter anyhow.
A lot have grown up and live near thier ex so it is good to a least get along with. Some people can just not live together.
2006-10-05 21:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know I'm the ex wife not the ex husband. I HAVE NO CONTACT with my ex we have a kid. I do not know where he lives works or anything else he pays no child support. So in my case the answer is NO. If you are dating a guy who's ex dose those things he's still dependent on her may not mean they want each other if he wanted her they would not be divorced.
2006-10-05 20:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex is my best friend, I tell her everything that is going on with me. I wouldnt let her on my checking acct, but yeah if she wants to call me she is welcome to, any g/f who has a problem with that can get to steppin'. And I have had a few that did.
2006-10-05 20:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I had one....
Maybe
Sure
Definately not
Sure
Probably not
Definately not
2006-10-05 20:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Bamos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not prefer to say, sorry
2006-10-05 21:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by asru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋