We are seperated and I would like things to work. He always thinks there is some thing sneaky behind what I say, and that is not the case. I just don't want it to end, and love him very much. I haven't given him any reasons why not to trust me, and I don't get this. Please help
2006-10-05 13:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by Evie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Chances are that what he is accusing you of, is what he is doing himself..
2006-10-05 13:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa MacDonald 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself... What is HE doing sneaky himself perhaps!? That sounds like an accuser that does not want to be faced with what he knows he should be accused of.
It takes half the time youre with someone to get over them.
So hopefully there was not toooo much time invested , but reguardless, it only hurts because having him in your life is what your use to..The cure is do everything all day long a little different and you've made one step towards having something that doesnt remind you of the two of you together in some way... Walk a different route, Move the furniture around, have a garage sale and buy a new wardrobe/look but never change what you like about YOURSELF.
He's gone now, may or may not come back...You'll know that if and when he comes back.
If he doesnt you havent even noticed that half that time is already over and got through it without him.
2006-10-05 21:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you it sounds as though he really doesn't want the marriage to work out and he's blaming you for it failing. All you can do is tell him honestly what your feelings are. If he just once again lays the blame on you then I'd see a lawyer and end it. Better yet let him get the lawyer and pay for it if he really wants out of it bad enough. ;o)
2006-10-06 17:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't trust what you say, then he doesn't trust you. If you've given him no reason to feel that way, then it probably won't work. He has to be the one to eventually trust. You can't do it for him.
2006-10-05 21:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You responded to my question about my friend and her marital problems. You made a harsh critical judgment on me, yet you don't know anything about me or who I am or my relation to my friend.
I want to respond to you in person and defend myself, but you do not provide a link to email you. So I am answering all your questions in the hope that you see this and respond to me in person. You can't go attacking someone like you did to me, and not give me a chance to respond.
Please click on my profile and send me an email so I can respond to you.
2006-10-06 14:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by worldpeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You speak of a very complex subject that analysts, even after hours of interviews and feedback, offer no guarantees that two people will reunite.
2006-10-05 20:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his bluff. See if he really wants to end it oris trying to be controlling
2006-10-05 20:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Chris F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be turning it all around on you , so he can look innocent by blaming you for the mistakes he has made himeself. "some" men are real good at this.
2006-10-05 21:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he is cheating on you?
2006-10-05 21:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋