we where marry for 10 years and have three kids. i still love him but he doest want to be with me.
2006-10-05 12:29:29 · 25 answers · asked by lil dog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look, I dont know you. We haven't met before. We haven't talked by phone or by anything. Here's my advice...
Start by putting his photos away. Like the one that you might have on the living room...on the wall, on the kitchen...even on the restroom.
Then you might want to start going out so you can distract yourself. You know, doing fun things, go out to any place...makes you forget the problems.
Start talking to your kids that one day, not far away you will need to get a boyfriend. Tell them that now they might not understand you but when they grow up, they will.
Hope that you overcome that obstacle. Hechale ganas tia y que Dios te Bendiga.
SUERTE!!!!
I mean... Good Luck!
2006-10-05 12:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no possible make it easier to overlook your ex-husband. which will take time. Getting divorced is like having a member of the family die in some tactics. you in easy terms would desire to settle for it and take care of the discomfort. there's a reason which you 2 are ex-companion. Get out and get a existence...that could help to. attempt to stay busy.
2016-10-01 23:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-wife has remarried a long time ago and she still remembers me on my birthday and Christmas and has recently told me that she still loves me. I suppose that women have a special place in their hearts for the man that fathered their children. We remain very good friends, even after having been divorced for over 30 years. You will find that you both have things in common, your children. Lines of communications should remain open for their sake. Who knows, after the emotion of the divorce settles down, you may get back together. It is not unusual for divorced couples to remarry. Good luck to you.
2006-10-05 12:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-05 12:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit him for child support and move on with your life. Simple since he no longer wants to be with you, there is nothing that you can do.
You don't want to forget him and never will be able to do that, but over time you wont care one whit about what he does or with whom he does it.
The opposite of love is NOT hate, but indifference. When you get to that stage, then you know your done with him for good.
Just keep telling yourself you don't care, and get on with yourself, and your life.
Make sure he keeps up his responsibilities as a father as well.
Good luck.
2006-10-05 12:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by frankly2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am going through the same thing. It is tough but it does get easier. Keep yourself busy. Focus on your kids. As time goes by you will find that you are thinking about him less and less everyday. Date when you are ready. Hang in there! Remember,,.you deserve better.
2006-10-05 12:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can heel those kind of wounds. You may never totally get over him but you hurt will subside. Don't let him control your future anymore. Get involved with a project or your church and pick up a hobby with your children. You will feel better in time but keep yourself busy.
2006-10-05 12:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going for your kids first of all. And start having fun without him...Girls Night Out! It'll get better. Good Luck :)
2006-10-05 12:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by pezzle9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try and forget him. Take the lessons learn from this relationship and use them to improve yourself. Every situations good or bad makes us who we are. You have the chose to learn from them and make yourself a better person or ignore them and make the same mistakes.
2006-10-05 13:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by fidxgonzo32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human love is conditional. Divine love is only from God. When you believe into Him and receive revealations from Him through pray-reading His word, and ask Him what love is in your prayers, He will answer you when you are matured.
Everyone seek for love. But we all need to grow. When we grow to maturity, we will be able to love and be loved and to know what is the breadth, lenght, depth, height of His love.
Do you love Him or do you love to have your ex loving you back?
Once you know love, who will not be attracted by it? Satan.
2006-10-05 12:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by tonyleemba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋