most people have told me that getting married is boring. you never get to go out ,you never get to do anything.
2006-10-05 12:52:20 · 26 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only if you want to be miserable.
2006-10-05 12:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'm not married yet but my fiancee' and I still have a great life outside of the home. We have a blast as much as we can money and time being the biggest constraints..
As for others it depends upon who you marry. Marry a couch potato and you will be lucky to get chips. Marry a party head and you will be lucky to know what your own bed looks like.
The best is to marry a partner that wants and needs the same things in life as you do.
2006-10-05 12:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage can be wonderful if both parties know what the vows they speak actually mean. If one sees it as a temporary thing then it will be,if one sees it as smothering so it will be. If one sees it as all rules and regs then they do not understand it and are not ready for the commitment. Marriage is a life time spent with another of your choosing,not to be entered into frivolously. Marriage is saying to the world I love this person and I am fully committed to them. Anything less is friendship and you can stay single and have friends too. O_-
2006-10-05 13:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how the TWO of you feel about each other. I personally like being married to my husband,but apparently his ex-wives didn't. But that also goes for my ex-husbands about me too. Not getting to go out,that is absurd.Never getting to do anything this is even worse. You don't marry someone to be held captive,this is MODERN AMERICA-for goodness sake. Stop listening to those idiots who are telling you such stupid things,listen to your heart,ok? Good luck
2006-10-05 12:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by grbarnaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse is your best friend and you marry for true love life is never boring unless you let it get boring. There is no rush.
2006-10-05 12:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Memphis Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's boring only if you marry a boring person. Take your time looking, test-drive a few of them, and make a wise choice. Then it'll be fun.
2006-10-05 12:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My marriage is ANYTHING but boring!! I married my soul mate!
When you're in a committed type of relationship..going out with without the other is boring and is just a waste of time...I don't want to go out without my husband and he doesn't want to go out without me...we have a date night set aside and we drink a nice bottle of wine and listen to music or watch a movie...Marriage is what you put into it...NOT just what you take out of it...
2006-10-05 13:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are boring people. I love being married. We go out alot and do cool stuff. Here's a piece of advice an old timer gave me and is true: If you marry broke, you'll stay broke.
2006-10-05 12:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by All I have to do is dream... 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is very much a stereo type on marriage, they also say you dont get enough sex, it all comes down to the relationship itself, it comes down to you and your partner, its not true and a generalisation, a relationship does not end in marriage, it begins, it needs to be nurtured, understood and communicated, it is more work yes, its more effort, but its all worth it!
2006-10-05 12:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by lavidamasespecial1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I agree we wouldn't of rushed into marriage if we had the choice to do it again. We get have a great marriage,but a piece a paper shouldn't be so over rated. If your committed to that person then you shouldn't have to have a piece a paper to say you are together forever.
2006-10-05 12:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by Kris80 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When it depends on alot of things.... personally if you love the person then you do not you get married to them unless your faith ,upbring,or ideals dictates otherwise for me i prefer to be single but i do miss capaionship from time to time
2006-10-05 12:56:21 · answer #11 · answered by stormy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋