Are yo fine with it as long as it doesn't go on to other things OR is this something that you don't tolerate at all?
2006-10-05 13:14:01 · 18 answers · asked by bettyspagettii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Last time I checked my husband was a grown man who makes his own decisions, and talks to whomever he likes! We are both mature adults in a happy, secure marriage. Women can be friends, just like men can be friends. I couldn't imagine saying "How dare you speak to another woman!" How insecure is that?
2006-10-05 16:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Toylady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its fine depending on of course how he's speaking to her and touching etc... you didn't say if you have a problem when your husband is talking to women in front of you; or if you meant when he's not around.
Many men handle it the right way. when there wives are there the wife is usually beside them there either standing close holding hands and just talking to the other lady. and if not holding hands you know its just regular talk no need to get upset over. just as you would if a man came up to you and your hubby there. both sexes show respect .
2006-10-06 02:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind but as long as it doesn't get out of hand and you know what to look for. He plays on a volleyball team with women and i don't mind, that's just a thing he does. I don't even go to watch him play. I think it depends how comfortable you are with your marriage and how he reacts to other women. Some guys just look like cheaters and you can tell what they are after.
2006-10-05 20:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by lazycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is fine, a hug and a kiss on the cheek is fine; however, outrageous flirting is off limits, and my husband knows that, and I do the same when I talk with other men.
2006-10-05 20:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He DOES leave the house and do things, I don't have him chained to the bed, so yes, it's inevitable that he's going to eventually speak to another living breathing female. I think it's alright, but only when it would turn into something else is when I'd consider it a problem.
2006-10-05 20:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you consider talking to other women as in working friendship and social chatter, then its perfectly alright to me. Going to a bar with co-workers after work and socializing outside of work is not OK. Having women call him at all hours of the day to talk to him is definitely not OK. Would it be OK with him if you did this things...I think NOT.
2006-10-05 21:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married 20 years - my husband works with many women and therefore must speak to them on a daily basis. I feel you must have a certain amount of trust in them - and he must have trust in me as well since I work with many men and have several male friends (married, single and divorced). It also helps that everyone he works with is familiar with me and that he has two children with me.
2006-10-05 20:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by Been there 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sure. I need my husband to avoid speaking to half the human beings on the planet. Give me a break!
2006-10-05 20:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please. Not even complicated. Man or woman, doesnt matter, people are people friends of both sexes is healthy not bad. If a spouse has issue, kick them to curb and marry an adult. Include her, tell her about it, dont hide anything. Thats the only way that **** works. Trust me, I know all about this one.
2006-10-05 20:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Houston Golf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am never fine with my husband talking to an attractive woman, hell he is a man, and if i can see that she is attractive, so can he. There is a fine, fine line to this.
2006-10-05 20:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by LadyJ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋