Marriage & Divorce - 2 October 2006

my lover (B/F)send me this birthday greeting to me, isnt this soo touching card, with so much meanings, i am sooo glad, how is it?

what can i say to the one i love

more than anyone or anything

when I've so often failed

to let it show?



what can i say to the one

who sahres my life, my hopes,

my dreams, my days, my nights..

the one i cant imagine life without?



what can i say to the one

who's stood by me

through good times and bad times,

the one i sometimes

seem to take for granted,

even though i dont mean to?



what can i say to the one

who understands me

better than i understand myself

and whose support, ecouragement,

and belief in me

help me be a better person?



what can i say to show my love?



My only hope is that you can feel it

what i put my arms around you

and tell you you're

the only one for me forever...

because you are.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET HEART

2006-10-02 23:47:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This morning I go before the Judge for the last step in our divorce. We have been married for 24 years and 7 childern later. She said that she starting to fall out of love with me about 6 years ago. She started working 3 years ago and met the head cook who she now lives with, For 4 months. He is still married and has been secretly with my wife. I was shock to find this out. My question is what can i text her this morning after the divorce, that would be impacting to her mind. She has turner in to a"deal with it when it happens"person.She has no plan and lives for the day. On the other hand I have the 4 youngest kids 15,13,11,9. I have the house and the debt. I am blown away by her complete change. Maybe its a mid life crisis &she want to be free again, well ok. I want to text her something so impacting that maybe she will wake up for just that moment, Please help me and submit your thoughts and a "text message" that will make a dent in her world,that will make her wake up and think

2006-10-02 23:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by james.ampmerch 1

I enter the chat room with another name and tried to tricked him that Iam another women and want to be a friend , but unfortunately he discover me. what can I do please?
Shoul I deny that he is wrong or confess to him that Iam trying to test him?
Please send me your answers as soon as possible

2006-10-02 23:29:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

one week ago my husband told me he wasnt sure if he could be with me & he was seeing someone else, it just came from nowhere. no indication ever that he would ever leave. im devasted and sick, i want to work things out but he will not put any effort in to it. how is it so easy to just let go after so long, weve never had any real problems. i love him and tried telling him that we could get past this and start over but he turned from a caring person to just plain cold. i shut him out in a way the last few years after some traumatic things happened but i opened up and talked to him, told him how i felt but he said its too late. i dont know what else to do. i also have a son who is 12 that thinks of him as a father since hes been in his life since he was 3.

2006-10-02 23:28:26 · 16 answers · asked by lil mac 1

2006-10-02 23:12:20 · 17 answers · asked by sammy 6

Dated high school sweetheart. Was going to break up with him-all he wanted to do was watch tv. Got pregnant. Went through the pregnancy expecting to place for adoption- even chose parents. Placed her- then changed my mind. Didnt know if I was ready to parent, so daughter was in foster home for 6 months. Finally decided I wanted to parent, so picked her up. My boyfriend and I moved in to raise her. After 1.5 years, I left because of the verbal abuse.
5 years later, decided that I want to marry this boyfriend. He always wanted to be with me and I wanted another child with him. So, we got married and had a son. It was great for 2 years, but then I became very depressed. I was emotionally abused by him consistantly- we never knew what kind of mood he was going to be in when he came home. I finally figured out that he is a narcissist, and demanded that he get help. He wont unless I promise to stay, but I feel emotionally drained- dont know if I want to do this anymore.

2006-10-02 23:02:44 · 12 answers · asked by Lizzie 1

if someone is claiming benefits and a partner moves into the house. who is not earning or claiming benefits how would that effect the persons benefits if she called up and said someone has now moved in????

2006-10-02 22:49:39 · 14 answers · asked by gooner1972 3

That person is working in a private company and the first wife is not with him from past 4 years. And she left him immiediatley after 2 months they got married. So kindly tell me what are problems we may face and what loss i will have if I am going to marry him.

2006-10-02 22:47:35 · 26 answers · asked by parvathi s 1

I just wanted how can a girl conquer back a guy. what would you do?

2006-10-02 22:28:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I get dressed, she moans that my clothes aren't nice.When I eat she moans about that. When I get into bed, its too rough, When I do anything,its just not good enough.Why is she like this?

2006-10-02 22:06:43 · 29 answers · asked by SteelJazz 1

2006-10-02 22:03:07 · 33 answers · asked by curvy_tall133 1

i am muslim he is hindu he promise to convert to islam now ai am in different city cant make sure of this

2006-10-02 21:56:46 · 3 answers · asked by hope 1

2006-10-02 21:48:07 · 12 answers · asked by christine f 1

i hate men.. does any one else? lol ok give me your opinion: ok, my man constantly tells me he loves me..and i believe him when he tells me..were having our second child in may, and well heres the problem he works out of town and he goes out there. he dosent come home till after midnight. and does not call me. i dont know why i feel so insecure, maybe its the pregnancy. we've been together for almost 3 yrs. and yes we've broken up 3 times all for a week.. he tells the people around him that he comes back because he has too much to lose. i dont know how to take that, what does he mean house wise or fam wise?? im so confused what do you think? we've talked about marrige, alot but i've came out pregnant right before we have wanted to start workin on it, but then again hes very disconnected from the relationship.when we break up he acts like its nothing, and i always have to put more on my behalf, in order for him to come home. he dont go out, during that time. i dont know im confused.

2006-10-02 21:30:30 · 9 answers · asked by nahdya21 2

My hubby is very close with this colleague who is 9 years older than him and is also married. I have seen mushy sms send by her to him & vice-versa. They are in very good talking terms and when he found out that i saw the sms, he got quite furious. Yesterday, i dreamt about him having an affair with her. In my dreams, he confess that he likes her, had sex with her etc. This may sound stupid to some, but i really hope someone could help me interpret my dreams vs the reality cause i think i am going crazy soon. It seems like the reality is what i have dreamt. How true is it?

2006-10-02 21:24:13 · 20 answers · asked by missy 1

but if u dont love the person who loves u ,its easy to leave and dont care what he/she feels...

2006-10-02 21:23:58 · 5 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3

im 27, from chennai

2006-10-02 21:09:35 · 27 answers · asked by Vanilla 1

i always said i'll marry for love. So i try to have a balance between being completely in love and also be good friend and buisness partner. basically make it so that were happy with each other only. but for some reason i feel like i missed a step. sometimes i think that i like sex to much. is any thing wrong with enjoying sex all the time?i'm not saying it to be freaky, but i was justing thinking about how women say they stop having sex when their man does something they don't like. i don't stop until the relationship is completely ended. and the only reason for that is because i don't cheat. and i don't want my man to feel he needs to cheat. guys.... i don't know what to do. help me out with some logical advice. (and add your sign at the end of your message)

2006-10-02 21:00:51 · 18 answers · asked by free 2

After 20 years (no kids) my now ex dumped me three years ago for a younger, prettier, more supportive etc woman. Now he wants to be friends. Should I return his calls?

2006-10-02 21:00:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband walked away from 20 years has been gone more than a month and i need some finalization

2006-10-02 20:58:45 · 5 answers · asked by suzyqluv2 1

why do so many marriages in North America end in divorce ? and what would you do if you marriaged someone and then discovered that you were not happy with that person?

2006-10-02 20:53:21 · 12 answers · asked by lovely_kitty 1

My wife leaves me then moves back in and says just friends, the whole time carousing around with men at bars (drunk), staying out late and somtimes not comming home but staying in motels with strange guys, saying that their just friends and never thinking about my feelings. She got sick and now is depressed and when her attempts to make me leave failed, she left, but couldn't make it on her own. Now we've even been with eachother which she says was more than sex, but she just keeps playin around with me. I'm about to give up and leave but if i do i'll always know she won, she got what she wanted which was to drive me away. I don't know what to do anymore, any ideas?

2006-10-02 20:50:35 · 7 answers · asked by vautiko 2

my husband said he does love me....but how come wen i said to him that we should pursue the divorce coz im so confused right now...
and i dont want that im gonna decide now and next time not...change my decision so i want to make sure everything gonna be ok...so,i told him that anyway the final hearing is next week and we just need to think after the divorce...just give as 6 months...so,anyway why he contact his ex gf and now they r back 2gether...y is that?
im so hurt?i still love him....

2006-10-02 20:47:09 · 4 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3

I have met this great guy so much more in common i know this could be lust and the saying the grass is always greener. I just wondering what would you do if you was in this situation.

(1) Work things out with the partner, learn new hobbies together spice up the current relationship and see what feelings if any come back.

(2) have a nice fling with the new guy seperate from your partner give into your desires. See what happens you never know could form a relationship (rebound) Anyway i am not asking for anyone to justify things for me just some advice would be great so i could see my options

2006-10-02 20:45:31 · 20 answers · asked by jules 4

what charactor of your hasband makes you decide to marry him?

2006-10-02 20:43:04 · 16 answers · asked by Tony 1

I am going thru a divorce and was wondering, how long on average does it take from the divorce date to receiving half of the 401K from your spouses account? And yes, it has been 10 years so I qualify. Thanks

2006-10-02 20:03:11 · 6 answers · asked by bunnylatte 2

He said the girl sucked his penis and thats how he got it ofcourse I dont believe that...We have been marraied for 4yrs and 2kids 3&5.

2006-10-02 19:58:22 · 16 answers · asked by wonder woo 2

Hi,
I have been married for 4 years now to my soul-mate. I love him with all my heart. But now he is out of town and never home anymore because of his job. He is a truck driver and now he lives in a trailer with 4 other co workers. I am very lonely and miss him so much that I stay depressed all the time now. I cry now at the drop a hat (so to speak). I found him this job so he could get off the road and be home more. But now they have moved him to a town 4 hours from home . When I call him he is always to busy to talk long. He is either playing cards with the guys or going shopping or watching a movie. And when I call him on his cell while he is working he always cuts me short because he wants to talk with the guys on the CB.
We fight all the time now when we talk over the phone. I ask him to look for another job where he can be home more and he always brings up the good money he making. But my point is HOW do I keep our relationship together when we are never together anymore? :o(

2006-10-02 19:56:18 · 16 answers · asked by Krissy 1

My Sister's husband could give her divorce,she has two girls, both very young,below 3 yrs of age, the question is according to islamic law a guy can marry 4 times,but in america only one wife, can this person keep his other wifes in different country and still be allowed to carry on with his first wife here in usa?i mean my brother-in-law is saying if she doesnt come to his home country, she can stay here and he will stay there, he didnt mention divorce, but he did say he will get married there otherwise,will INs people allowe this, my sister says she will not take any responsibility if he marries another time and comes to us,she will report him to INS,and if he divorces her, what rights does she have being a us citizen, can she get allimony,and the kids?can any one plss help me with this.iam asking this because islamic laws allow different marrieges but not us law, so what will likely happen,plss can some one shed some light on this?

2006-10-02 19:55:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends, I know it will be little confusing a question.. since i know I am the right person to find the answer to it.. still I would appreciate all your thoughts.

actually I want to know. the reason..

Why I am loving someone.. ?
is that my selfish mind asking myself to show the love and get loved?

just sexual desire?

is there ia anything called blind love? do anyone love for nothing?

or is there anything else making me to love?

what actually making me love her..

2006-10-02 19:49:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous