i hate men.. does any one else? lol ok give me your opinion: ok, my man constantly tells me he loves me..and i believe him when he tells me..were having our second child in may, and well heres the problem he works out of town and he goes out there. he dosent come home till after midnight. and does not call me. i dont know why i feel so insecure, maybe its the pregnancy. we've been together for almost 3 yrs. and yes we've broken up 3 times all for a week.. he tells the people around him that he comes back because he has too much to lose. i dont know how to take that, what does he mean house wise or fam wise?? im so confused what do you think? we've talked about marrige, alot but i've came out pregnant right before we have wanted to start workin on it, but then again hes very disconnected from the relationship.when we break up he acts like its nothing, and i always have to put more on my behalf, in order for him to come home. he dont go out, during that time. i dont know im confused.
2006-10-02 21:30:30 · 9 answers · asked by nahdya21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry on there i said dosent come home till after midnight i ment dosent go to his hotel room.. sorry
2006-10-02 21:31:37 · update #1
You know if you have serious gut feeling that somethings not right, your mostlikey on the right path to something. I would do a lil digging and check to see if he is cheating. Doesn't sound like he cares that much for you if he is telling everyone that he stay's with you because he has too much to lose. I mean basically seems like he's saying he wants to leave but if he does then he knows he'll being giving of half to you along with child support. I would check into it more cause something doesn't quite seem right with him.
2006-10-02 21:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Simmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would suggest your insecurity and constant nagging are playing a part and I would guess you have piled on a few pounds and since the kids are too tired for full sex. No wonder he is getting it elsewhere. Try more O some A and a BDSM spark it up a bit or he will find someone who will (If he has not already!)
2006-10-02 21:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was youi would hold of any marriage plans till you sorted yourselves out make him a romantic meal sit him down and talk to him you never no he may suprise you som how then when your sorted think about marriage personally i would wait for the baby to be born then youll have a better time with all of you there in maybe a family photo which would make the day even speciala i hope this helped you a bit
2006-10-02 21:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Karen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For you I'd make the world turn,
For you my heart will always yearn.
For you I'd give my life at will,
For, you are the one who makes my heart stand still.
Without you, my life is dull,
Your smile warms my deepest soul.
Your laugh is like a thousand bells,
And when you laugh... my heart doth swell.
For every wave that finds the shore,
My heart loves you a thousand times more.
For every bird that sings it's song,
My love for you grows deep and strong.
Always and forever, I'll love you till I die,
And to you, my darling, I cannot lie.
For you, my heart, I'll always endeavor
To love you now, always... and forever.
2006-10-02 21:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have alot on your plate right now.First of all u need to think about all the times he's not coming home that's not cool .Than your pregnant u have to think about the baby right now cause the baby needs u right now;so u need to think about what's important to u.
2006-10-02 21:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by christine f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of town and not go back to his room till after midnight??? Do you really need me to spell it out for you???
2006-10-02 21:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
solve u r problem with him.its the better solution.tell him about ur thoughts .dont be afraid.if he loves u truly he will take u seriously and he will marry u.i dont like raising a kid without being married!!!
i hate men too coz they never show their feelings!!
if he wont marry u ,i will hate him too!!
2006-10-02 21:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
¤ dating status? - In dating ¤ Longest dating? - 3 years, Teenage love. he's married now, we are reliable buddies ¤ Ever been cheated on? - so a procedures as i know, no longer. ¤ have you ever cheated? - No and that i in no way will.
2016-12-12 19:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate men too
2006-10-02 21:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by black cat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋