my husband said he does love me....but how come wen i said to him that we should pursue the divorce coz im so confused right now...
and i dont want that im gonna decide now and next time not...change my decision so i want to make sure everything gonna be ok...so,i told him that anyway the final hearing is next week and we just need to think after the divorce...just give as 6 months...so,anyway why he contact his ex gf and now they r back 2gether...y is that?
im so hurt?i still love him....
2006-10-02 20:47:09 · 4 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Capricorn Girl:
This is a sad story, and I see it all-too-often. Women are precious creatures with dreams of an ideal marriage that begin to form in early childhood. Often, as in your case, these dreams are disassembled brick by brick, page by page, 'till nothing remains but the pain of lost love.
Why is your husband behaving in this manner? It doesn't matter.
Your heart only understands the pain of lost love and shattered dreams. I am going to ask you to face the reality that your heart is in danger, and must be protected at all cost. Rather than obsess over lost love; grieve, with lots of tears, and let that bitterness wash away into the sea of forgetfulness.
This may take some time. You'll know when the worst has passed. There will be a feeling of resolution. Sad, yes, but no longer bitter. Now your heart can begin to rebuild, and make itself ready for the great love that you have been dreaming about for all these years. And I promise you, love will find a way. Never underestimate the power of love!
2006-10-02 21:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by The Heart Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-08-29 08:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh the male.....so fickle at times !!! if he really loved you he would not be having contact with his ex but trying to get back with you. Its all hot air !!!! Move on darling and Good Luck !!!
2006-10-02 20:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos he just nees someone to love him
2006-10-02 20:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋