Marriage & Divorce - 2 October 2006

Because he never remembers my or my little one's b day or anniversary. what to do??

2006-10-02 11:54:11 · 14 answers · asked by kiran123 2

2006-10-02 11:51:25 · 23 answers · asked by holly b 1

2006-10-02 11:49:39 · 11 answers · asked by theresa v 1

I know this sounds weird and personal but i'm an only child, so i have no one of the brotherly or sisterly decent to speak with. But I honestly feel like I dont please my husband sexually. I was a Virgin, until I was with him so i dont know much of experience. However he claimes to only have been with 4 girls before me. I have a problem of constantly comparing myself to them sexually but I dont have orgasams with him, and I dont know what's wrong with me! What should i do!??

2006-10-02 11:47:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-02 11:42:49 · 23 answers · asked by brendajeanhindes 1

Our first kiss was 16 Yrs ago. We did not have a good first kiss and have felt uncomfortable trying. I think we have tried once or twice sense then

2006-10-02 11:41:51 · 14 answers · asked by DReidSR 1

2006-10-02 11:41:46 · 20 answers · asked by brendajeanhindes 1

My husband is controlling, lazy, and a hypochondriac. He does not keep a job, is not interested in pursing any education so that he could better find a job. He is at home and is offended that I would want him to do much of anything around the house. Also he drains our bank account, regularly we are overdrawn or he purchases things that we cannot afford.

He yells at me or our kids when he is mad, calls me at least 10 times a day at work, and is suspicious of relationships I have with others. Also, he is often crude, racist, fataphobic, or otherwise offensive.

Lastly, he has numerous illnesses, some real some not, that require many emergency room visits.

I am afraid to get a divorce as I don't want to share custody of my children. Also, I have no clue how to go about it, or if I should stick it out for the kids. He does not hit me or our kids and he does not drink.

Thanks for your honest advice.

2006-10-02 11:37:16 · 30 answers · asked by cassandra 2

2006-10-02 11:34:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has been married 3 times and had numerous relationships all of which lasted a year max and ended the same way - his violence - what is missing in him?

2006-10-02 11:33:15 · 15 answers · asked by MLWile 2

2006-10-02 11:28:28 · 10 answers · asked by fancy 5

2006-10-02 11:26:57 · 17 answers · asked by holly b 1

Just want to know if i need to buy buttonholes for all my guests at my wedding? or do i just buy them for the main guests, such as, best man, maid of honor, mother of the bride, etc. thanks.

2006-10-02 11:15:56 · 5 answers · asked by rach_b_2003 1

My husband confessed about cheating on me back in May. I confrontedthe girl (my cousin) and she denied the whole thing. Then turned my mom's side of the family against me because she wanted the affair to continue with my husband. Now, with alot of work, my husband and I are working on our marriage and seeing a couselor for support. Far as my cousin, I want to know her side and why/how could she; just her end. I saw her about a month ago at our state's fair with her husband and kids, and she said she was sorry and that she loves me. sometimes I feel like a real idot for staying I am so hurt by the betrayal on both ends. I love my husband, we have kids, 1 on the way. I just started our own business; things for the moment are going good. But I still can't get it out of my head; My husband hates for me to mention anything about her or the affair. Should I just move on and say screw her; or leave him and screw them both. Keep in mind, I have no where to go I am a SAHM

2006-10-02 11:07:31 · 23 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

I have never had a boyfriend that doesn't look at porn. I don't like it and it makes me feel like I am not enough for them and that if he had the chance to have sex with a girl he found arousing that he would cheat. Am I wrong? Is it 'normal'?

2006-10-02 11:03:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it true that there is a secret ingredient put into the frosting of a wedding cake that make a woman's sex drive deminish as soon as she takes a bite?

2006-10-02 11:00:54 · 18 answers · asked by schlepp 2

He has a history of porn addiction and my neice is very well built. The phone calls when I researched the matter extend all the way back to Feb of this year... I am not sure what to think about this or what to do. I am not that close with her and I can't imagine why a 41 year old is calling an 18 year old and having 20 minute conversations. Should I assume the worst? I confronted him about it but he has denied any (sexual relationship) wrong doing. I have also lost a relationship with her dad (my brother) because of this. Please someone out there if you can advise me on what you think. We have an empty nest now and there is no reason to stay in the relationship if he cannot be faithful.

2006-10-02 10:48:03 · 40 answers · asked by Gussyellis41 2

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for 2.

I am 24 and he is 26.

We have been talking about having our first baby for about a year now.

My mother and I have always had a rocky relationship and this year I finally put my foot down and distanced myself from her.

Since then my desire to be a mother has gotten worse than before, I want a child of my own that I can give all the things my mother never gave me (love, respect, etc.)

My husband and I want a family of our own and are financially, emotionally and mentally ready.

Sometimes I feel when I have a child I can fill a hole in my heart that my mother has caused by not being a crappy mother.

My grandma was verbally and emotionally abusive to my mom, and I know I can stop the cycle!

I have been to a therapist for about a year and he said I am well adjusted and seem like I would be a good mother.

I want a baby most because I love my husband and want to share something amazing with him.

2006-10-02 10:38:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

wife and husband with no money a lot of credit cards debts, two mortgages, one single house plus an apartment in the beach. two childreen 21 and 24 years old. Need inputs and solutions.

2006-10-02 10:36:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not that I get asked out a lot, but whenever a girl asks me to eat lunch with her or anything, I always say, "You need a note from my wife before I can do that." Well, today one of the girls that asked me to hang out with her after work actually has a note that appears to be from my wife, although this girl's handwriting is similar enough to my wife's that I'm not sure. I'm taking the note home and asking my wife about it, I figure she'll get a kick out of if she didn't do it. But what if she did? The note is a little explicit about what I'm allowed to do... leaves little to the imagination or interpretation... and the restrictions would be pretty much nil if it was legit.

And any women, why would she do it without saying anything?

2006-10-02 10:30:56 · 10 answers · asked by Sean J 5

What does it feel like to go from hot stud to middle aged, fat and slightly bald...
I'm not being mean... I'm just wondering who's "inside".
Is it still the young stud with all the cofidence? Or is the person inside bald and fat now...?
Your body moved on... did your mind follow?

I guess the same applies to "hot babe" to "middle aged soccer mom". Who's inside?

2006-10-02 10:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by Sienna Baker 3

do you cook for him, iron his clothes, make sure he has clean underwear?

2006-10-02 10:20:47 · 15 answers · asked by Christina G. 3

I hear this all the time, but someone told me that it is a very misleading statistic. Do 50% of all marriages really end in divorce.

2006-10-02 10:19:49 · 18 answers · asked by NoDoubt 1

He promised me he would never ask. But now he keeps wanting to marry me. I have a failed marriage that I am over, but feel that getting married again is not my goal. I feel that if you want to be with me... be with me without the paperwork... we should know our committment level...

He keeps talking about weddings.

Ack.

It's cute though. I'm getting nervous that he is going to propose.

****.

2006-10-02 10:16:41 · 18 answers · asked by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2

I am so upset. My wife hates my family and it is hard for me to deal with. I know my family can be a little odd and are a bit akward in dealing with people. My wife feels that they are constantly insulting her. My mom and dad try to be good in laws and help us out whenever we need it, and are overall very nice. The problem is that they seem to be very socially akward. My mom will occasionally say things that my wife takes as a huge personal insult. My mom means well, but my wife has a huge chip on her shoulder. To me, it is just my mom being annoying like she has all my life so I just ignore her and often don't even notice the things my wife gets so furious about. She expects me to call my mom and yell over stupid stuff, like she would hers. Her whole family is like that and they are always fighting about something. My family is a little more mellow and I never even saw my parents fight my whole life, so there is a big difference in perspectives that I have trouble dealing with.

2006-10-02 10:12:57 · 17 answers · asked by Alex C 1

My wife is desperate to have children,but i am lead-free.....This is my second marriage we spoke about having children b4 we got married and i said i would love children knowing full well that i was a jaffa.............my 1st marriage ended cause of this....Should i "come" clean and tell her the truth or wait until we go for tests and pretend i didn;t know although this information is on my medical records

2006-10-02 10:12:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been married 16 years have 2 kids 13 and 4....she says she doesn't feel Like I am the husband I used to be....But I try harder than ever to keep her Happy.....

2006-10-02 10:12:22 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

When do you start feeling comfortable with your significant other being in the bathroom when you're using it? Like you're using it and they just feel comfortable walking in on you? Since i'm very modest I doubt i'll ever feel comfortable with that...but maybe for married people it's different. Guess it just depends on comfort level.

2006-10-02 10:10:52 · 28 answers · asked by Shannon83 1

2006-10-02 10:07:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy-friend is going through a divorce (separated 7 months). He has a lot on his plate with his kids, work & school. He knows that I am interested in him, however, I am willing to wait and when he is ready - we have agreed to go on a date.

Sometimes, he has a hard time opening up to me. I understand. Once he does tell me something that is bothering him, we are able to calmly talk about it. I can sense his relief. He says his ex would usually scream & yell when it came to him talking about how he feels. I am not that type of person.

I know I have to be patient. Anytime I have asked him where I stand he is always quick to say "We are JUST friends..." which...ya know, okay, that's fine. But I can't help but think he might feel more and is just scared. So, I stopped asking.

Anyway, to my question, I have never been through a divorce nor do I have children, do you guys think that if I continue to be understanding when it comes to his concerns that he will be more willing to open up to me?

2006-10-02 10:06:35 · 14 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4