Marriage & Divorce - 2 October 2006

we both are divorced and I would like to get married but i have one hesitation. Her first marriage with a guy ended in 2 months and she was fooled by the guy and their marriage was annulled. She confessed that she acted out of innocence in marrying the guy. After a while, she dated a guy and she didn't tell him that her first marriage was annulled before they planned to marry. The guy came to know about this and he stopped the forthcoming marriage with her. After that my girl friend had went through depression and we have been dating for the past 6 months. She seems to be a good girl. Can i believe in her? Any ideas? is she geniune

2006-10-02 07:00:22 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1

I love my husband but I told him that if he relapsed again that I would divorce him. Obviously, after 3 relapses I threatened divorce but never followed through. I can't go on living my life with someone who just told me recently that he will "try" not to pop any pills. I have really lost touch with him and I always worry whether he is high or not. And as far as having kids I don't want to have them with him (even though we were trying). Even though he wants kids. I don't want to be a babysitter anymore. He is an adult and should no better. He is a great person with a wonderful heart but..... What should I do?

2006-10-02 06:56:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies do you care whether or not your husband wears a wedding ring? Guys do you want to wear a ring or do you just do it to please your wives? I want honest opinions please.

2006-10-02 06:51:05 · 33 answers · asked by OrianasMom 3

2006-10-02 06:49:23 · 13 answers · asked by Satriani 3

When I read some of the quesitons, I get terribly worried. Questions such as
is it okay for me to cheat or for them to cheat or
should I tell my mate that I killed the cat by accident or
is it okay to have a threesome, to
is my spouse wrong if they wont do a threesome.

I swear, the more I read from people, the more I become convinced that people are idiots and we are in very serious danger.

What do you think? Do you share the same views?

2006-10-02 06:44:11 · 22 answers · asked by Mr. JW 3

2006-10-02 06:40:40 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was a plus size woman when my husband married me I am really a pretty woman I get complemented on all the time but it seems as though he don't find me attractive any moore what can I do besides lose weight to get his attention?

2006-10-02 06:39:32 · 27 answers · asked by lala_chic2003 1

nobody's perfect..my boyfriend cheated on me 4 months into the relationship. we split up but got back together and have been so strong since...we confide in each other and spend a lot of time together.. we are best friends now. our families have met each other and things have been great.
2 days ago, we both had plans of going out seperately with our own friends. he went out with a friend of his whom i don't particularly like(bad company) and i went out with one of my girlfriends.
i came back rather early and @ 6am, i gave him a call. he told me he was in an expensive hotel and that he and his friend shad booked 2 rooms after their nite out (one friend had come from out of town). i called the hotel to check out the story and thats where he was.
my hearts of hearts tells me nothin happend but because of last year, i can't help but feel that maybe he strayed again...
i don't know what to do. when confronted, he apologisd for not calling and promisd nothin happen. is he lying?

2006-10-02 06:33:19 · 20 answers · asked by robert 1

When a man loves a woman, the fact of fighting for her in my case seems to make things worst, weeks after I stop she seems to be showing signs she miss me. Is this a mind game?, she wants attention or someone to be after her for a lifetime?. Consider my question, has someone went back with him because he fought?, I think no woman out there would go with a guy because he has fought (and the relationship post-break up worked)

2006-10-02 06:31:10 · 15 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3

My husband has cheated on me in the past and he has worked away for 6 years now and i dont have a clue if he has cheated on me while he is away..all i do know is that he is gone for 2 weeks to a month at a time and i get lonely ..he gets mad if i have a babysitter for our 2 wonderful children because he dont want me to get out with out my kids.. I have met this really nice guy that is very good to me but i have not crossed the line with him "let me remind you i have never cheated in my husband"!! I have known this guy for a year now and he has done nothing but be good to me and my kids.. My husband also knows this guy because i introduced my husband and this guy to each other before i started liking this very sweet man!! Now I am very confused and I don't want to hurt anyone...I do love my husband but the spark is gone and I can't trust him I have tried for 10 years now..I don't believe he is cheating on me all the time but I have no way of knowing..What should I do????

2006-10-02 06:22:40 · 26 answers · asked by browneye_ky_girl 1

i know my husband look at porn on the computer... we have a great sex life (always had) and we get along great. one day i checked the cookies folder and i see all the sites he goes to and when. He goes on when i'm either at work, or still sleeping in the morning. I confronted him a couple of times and he denied it, however i don't want to show him the "cookie" log because then he can go and delete them himself. What should I do, it disgusts me, and makes me feel "not sexy" knowing that he looks at these things. we have only been married a little over a year! he rarely goes out with freinds and i know he's not cheating on me. Should I just let it go? When i tried to talk to him about it we end up getting into a fight! please gimmie some advice....

2006-10-02 06:18:34 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-02 06:14:33 · 11 answers · asked by Satriani 3

The first thing he does when he walks in from work is head for the remote.
He get up 15 mins before he has to leave for work - he never makes up the bed.
I also work and somehow he thinks I never get tired .
I cursed him out and we are not speaking for two weeks, it does not bother me , it is my time to rest and dont do any s**t for him

2006-10-02 06:14:20 · 15 answers · asked by ayo 1

....and she said, 'THEY SHOULD KEEP MARRYING UNTIL THEY FIND THE RIGHT PERSON?" ..haha....what do you think?

2006-10-02 06:12:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-02 06:03:28 · 32 answers · asked by Kate J 4

2006-10-02 06:03:14 · 30 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

2006-10-02 05:56:14 · 11 answers · asked by Veronica 1

2006-10-02 05:56:04 · 27 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

my husband has been locked up alittle over 3 years and he will not give me a divorce and i don't have the money to really afford one

2006-10-02 05:51:13 · 4 answers · asked by poohbaby28000 1

I believe my husband is a pedophile, i found out he has known this girl since she was 16 is now 18 the both say they never had sex?
if they never had sex, will that still make him a pedophile, i don't understand y or how a 26yr man can be friends with a child. I' m really torn by all this, I love my husband , but i can't be with a pedophile. please help

2006-10-02 05:50:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the day, month and year of my divorce?

2006-10-02 05:48:56 · 4 answers · asked by Pip M 1

We've been going out for over 3 years, we've been living together for 2. I love him more than words can say. And I really want to surprise him. I would love to have a really romantic evening/night. But what's romantic for a guy? Or do they even want romance? My guy is pretty normal - not too soft and not too tough. What should I do to make an unforgettable day/evening/night/weekend.

2006-10-02 05:47:23 · 16 answers · asked by Medea 1

My exhusband is in prison in Texas. I was told by DSS that I don't qualify for any assistance. I work 70 t0 100hrs a week to raise my three children. I feel I have cheated my children. I need answers. I need help.

2006-10-02 05:46:27 · 14 answers · asked by helloit'sme 1

My husband and I went to his fifteen year reunion. His brother went with us. I was standing with my husbands wife looking at pictures when my husbands brother grabed my breast. I slapped his hand and told him that I didn't play those kind of games. Then he went to reach for my private area and I told him that I would hit him were it hurt. That he better stop. When I found my husband and told him what happen he acted as if it was no big deal. I was hurt by the fact that his brother did this but I was more hurt by how my husband acted to the whole situation. Do I have a right to be mad at my husband?

2006-10-02 05:38:43 · 32 answers · asked by Tammy L 2

Okay, I've been real stressed out by this but my husband was deployed over In Iraq 3 months ago. Everything was fine till like 3 days ago when he e-mailed me saying he has to worry about stuff back home and he just wanted to end it now.. I don't understand. He had written another e-mail saying he wished I would find another guy when he came back. Is he just insecure?? It started after he found out he would be deployed to Iraq 3 more times. He comes home on leave in Feb. hopefully. but, I don't know how to take all this. Any advice?? thank you for reading.

2006-10-02 05:38:08 · 23 answers · asked by CNT C ME 1

2006-10-02 05:37:43 · 20 answers · asked by patrickneil40 1

My wife just got a big, big promotion.
What are some gift suggestions.
She is super picky and I am not sure a gift certificate says enough.
(She is 40ish, active, and of thin build)

2006-10-02 05:32:03 · 18 answers · asked by WheeeeWhaaaaa 4

Why do people think that if they tell you their birth date that you can tell their future? Like what job they will have, when they will get married, etc.? Why do they tell you their birthdate and the birthdate of their significant other and ask if they will get married? What does this mean?? It seems ridiculous to me....

2006-10-02 05:29:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is any one on here a single parient going to college, and if so how do you manage your school work and trying to give your children the time they need with you. I have two girls and it upsets them when I tell them I can't play with them rignt now because I have to study, and it breaks my heart when they get upset. How do you handle it?

2006-10-02 05:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

2006-10-02 05:26:55 · 3 answers · asked by randy g 1