Ladies do you care whether or not your husband wears a wedding ring? Guys do you want to wear a ring or do you just do it to please your wives? I want honest opinions please.
2006-10-02 06:51:05 · 33 answers · asked by OrianasMom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When we first got married I had my grandma's ring, but we couldn't afford one for him. Later I bought a cheap 10k gold set and he seems to be allergic to his ring. He breaks out everytime he wears it. I was considering getting him a new ring for Christmas. I thought about titanium since it is unlikely that he would be allergic, but I didn't want to come out and ask him if he would wear it since he's been so long without one and I wanted it to be a suprise. Hence my need for honest opinions.
2006-10-02 07:14:55 · update #1
Ok, I might be wrong to answer this.....first I am not female, second not married, and last Gay. But, I feel that if you truly love your mate and go through the whole ceremony then wear that ring and show it off with pride.
2006-10-02 07:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Michael R 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I wear my wedding rings at all times. My husband wore his for a long time. However, he opened a construction company. One day, the ring got caught on something and he almost lost his finger. Because of his work, he wears it when we go out and on the weekends. He actually loved wearing his band but it is just too dangerous. These factors need to be considered. Some women work in positions that would also make it a hazard. If it is not a hazard to either one, I do not see why they would not wear a wedding ring.
2006-10-02 06:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by mom of 2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband works in construction and has nearly lost a finger wearing his ring. He keeps it either on a chain around his neck or in his car when working (depending onthe job) but he puts it right back on after he has washed his hands at the end of the day. He said he hears so many of his buddies complain about their wives he is grateful he doesn't have to. I feel the same way about him and wear my ring everyday, even though the engagement ring part of my set was stolen years ago. He promised me a new ring for our tenth anniversary. I told him I would rather use the money for a downpayment on a house.
It's all about priorities. Is a shiny stone going to make you happy, or would you rather have the love it symbolizes?
2006-10-02 07:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Pixie Dust 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am violating most shop safety rules by even having a watch much less a wedding ring. I once had to have my gold ring cut off after a cat bite. My point being that there are lots of good reasons for nor wearing one. A wedding ring is not required if his attitude is married.
2006-10-02 07:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Unless one spouse works a job that makes a wedding band a on the job health risk ( ie works with heavy machinery that could catch on the ring and rip their finger off), I think its important that both husband and wife wear a wedding ring. It's a constant symbol of their commitment. Not only does it tell the world that they are married, but it serves to remind them that they have committed to another person.
2006-10-02 06:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not wear a ring, or any jewerly for that matter, just uncomfortable on my finger, my fingers tend to swell and the ring gets tight. As far as other women knowing I am married, well if I speak to a woman for more than a minute then she will know because I love my wive and family and they are the most important things in my life so it usually comes up pretty quickly in conversation.
2006-10-02 06:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally don't mind if he does or doesn't.. We have been married for 13 years and going and sometimes neither one of us wear our marriage ring. I think it all depends how much confidence you have in your self and in the relationship. I believe if a person wants to cheat on their mate the ring isn't gonna stop them from doing so. Don't get me wrong I respect every ones opinion on how they fill. But as for my hubby and I we really have a great relationship and for us wearing or not wearing our marriage ring it really doesn't hurt our relationship. The love we have for each other is very strong and beautiful. This is my honest opinion on your question..
2006-10-02 07:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally do not like wearing jewelry of any kind. I don't wear the wedding ring because it gets in the way of my work. Yeah, maybe it makes me look single, but the people here know I'm married because I tell them.
A ring is just an outward symbol that one is taken. Should it really matter?
2006-10-02 06:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, I never take my ring off, even while I am at work, for me, it is a sign to other women that I am taken, and I also wear my ring with a sense of pride that I married the best woman in the world.
2006-10-02 06:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
My Husband wears his ring all the time except when he is working, then he keeps it in his pocket. He is a carpenter and he almost ripped his finger off one day wearing it. I wear mine all the time but we really don't think it is a big deal because the ring does not stop you from cheating it is the symbol that is important to us.
2006-10-02 07:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by Bobbi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wear my ring all the time unless im doing something that will damage my ring. I dont have a problem wearing it, and i dont think most men will either as long as its a nice looking band.
2006-10-02 07:01:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋