Marriage & Divorce - 2 October 2006

2006-10-02 19:49:19 · 7 answers · asked by ankit 1

domestic arguments & counter arguments cause domestic violence , among two persons ,who should be the first who may be expected to lead stopping it taking bad shape.

2006-10-02 19:47:12 · 5 answers · asked by AMBRISH K 1

2006-10-02 19:46:09 · 6 answers · asked by lost soul of chaos 1

a girl is engaged to a guy, and has been with the guy for 2 years. this girl knows another guy before she met the engaged guy, but stopped talking to him a year before and now resumed talking to him. she says she is committed to her fiance but in fact loves the other guy, what should she do? be committed and the possibility of an unsuccesful marriage? or break off the engagement and see what happens with the other guy?

2006-10-02 19:42:39 · 11 answers · asked by balanced112 2

I am recently seperated from my husband. We are trying hard to remain civil and friendly during the whole seperation and divorce process but because their was cheating involved, I am finding it difficult to not reach over and scratch his eyes out somedays. There are no kids involved, but everyone keeps telling me it is impossible to remain civil to each other, and that the fighting will start soon enough. We were together for 12 years and I dont think that hating him now will prove anything.

2006-10-02 19:41:05 · 34 answers · asked by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6

My husband and I have been married going on a year, however there is a small trust issue with me on him. He got a tattoo of my name on his arm and I just asked a question on if anyone else out there would do the same. I got a response that said that it was a FRONT to make me trust him more, and now that question has popped in my head. WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?

2006-10-02 19:37:48 · 10 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3

We have been married for 9 years and it was a really good marriage for the first 5-7 the last couple have been so terrible that I felt seperation might give us both a chance to regroup and let things settle down, he left five days ago and it has been a lonely sad time. I cry every night and think about him and what we can do to fix this or end it so life can go on and things feel better. He is going to think about it and I agreed whole heartedly with what ever the final choice would be, I think I will take a couple of weeks to get my head together and think with unclouded bias or interjections. What would you do to get the process rolling without being pushy or overbearing? The waiting is the hardest part at night the most!

2006-10-02 19:36:28 · 5 answers · asked by want2flybye 5

How many people out there would put their mates name on their bodies!? My husband proudly let me sign his arm and tatooed TRINA.. with a heart dotting the I..! (and i say he dont love me)...answer honestly.!!

2006-10-02 19:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3

we have both went on with our lives and its been 5 months now, why hasnt he sent me divorce papers yet? i cant bring myself to divorce him but if he divorces me i am all for it. what should i do?

2006-10-02 19:25:41 · 19 answers · asked by grniz07 3

2006-10-02 19:25:27 · 25 answers · asked by MIra 2

2006-10-02 19:20:07 · 20 answers · asked by Kimberly 3

I recently came to know someone in my office and we got togather as friends. She wanted to be friends but later we got attracted to each other. One day we had a fight and i think it was all my fault and i agreed to it ..later she just wanted to be friends and nothing more. Being friends with someone you have hanged around had become very difficult for me and i decided to quit friendship because it was more pain just being friends.

I work with her and i do like her a lot. and she avoids me so much. It has become so hard for me to get over her and is really painful to see her avoiding me. Please help me out.. i m loosing my concentration in work too..:(

2006-10-02 19:15:41 · 7 answers · asked by lostsomewhere2 1

I met my husband online almost 2 years ago. When he came to be with me I found out he was talking to girls still online. I constantly ask him about what his ex's look like and if I am better than them. I keep wanting LONG CURLY HAIR like the one's he favors. In bed I'm constantly, comparing myself to them sexually. I dont know if this problem is going to come between my marrage or not! I wonder often if he's sick of me asking him "am i better than them" but anyhow what should I do?

2006-10-02 19:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3

I have been married going on a year now on OCT. 31st! I'm a very happy newlywed, who now is planning on starting a family with my husband. There's just one problem I dont think myself to be sexy enough for him. When we make love after a few sessions I admit he doesn't stay erect, He clames it's because he's climaxed more than 2 or 3 times and that I have nothing to do with it. However I feel that its because he doesn't find me sexy enough. Am I wrong for thinking this ?

2006-10-02 19:00:22 · 24 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3

Since our birth was not our choice why shd we bring our child forcibly ?

2006-10-02 18:58:31 · 9 answers · asked by snbsk 1

For those of you who answered my question i say ty...Even to those of you gold diggers that answered against me..As for the answers to some of your questions...I only had 1000 characters to work with and could not give all the details but my kids live with me 6 months out of the year so the few of you who said i do not pay enough can kiss my ***..I still pay 50% of all doctors bills above what i pay for ins..I still buy my kids school clothes for the most part. Anything they want as far as toys go falls mostly on me because the mom never felt the need for a fulltime job til we agreed to split up so she can't afford much in her line of work..I work my *** off on 2 jobs and still manage to be home for my kids six months out of the year. And for your info i did try to stay together for the kids. she walked out on me 4 times and i let her back in..the 5th time it was mutual..I don't ***** about taking care of my kids they are with me 50% of the time and i still pay all this for them.

2006-10-02 18:58:27 · 7 answers · asked by choco_50 2

I recently asked a question about what people thought about a one time, no-strings-attached fling before you get married. Earlier tonight I was talking to some girlfriends, and one said that she would do it, two said that they would not. I wanted a diverse answer from people on what they thought of it.

Instead, I got yelled at.

I AM NOT THE ONE GOING TO HAVE A ONE NIGHT STAND.
I am personally against the idea. I love my soon-to-be husband and I won't be sleeping with anyone else, ever. I simply wanted to know what people's thoughts on the subject were, seeing as how there is such a diverse set of people on here.
So, I ask again: what do you guys think about having the option of a one night stand. Do you agree with me and say it's wrong, or do you disagree and say that it's right? If you do it, would you tell your partner?

2006-10-02 18:50:16 · 16 answers · asked by Bachman-ette 4

We have a 3 yr. old and a 1yr. old & we've been married 5 yrs.

2006-10-02 18:36:29 · 52 answers · asked by mmjuarez4 1

If you read my previous questions, you will know that my husband cheated on me for over a year, has moved out and is still with his girlfriend.

We had a heart to heart talk tonight and this is what he told me. He said that he feels guilty for everything and wonders if he is doing the right thing. He says that he still loves me and misses me sometimes.

His girlfriend is supposed to be moving in with him, and he's not sure how he feels about her now. I even asked him and he couldn't answer. He says that he feels responsible for her and the choices she has made, so he may let her move in still because she has no place to go. He said that he told the girlfriend part of this, but she still wants to be with him. He called her tonight but just couldn't end it with her because of the guilt and he does care.

He also said that a part of him feels like we will get back together, but if she moves up, we won't. So, why can't he just end it? Why be so torn?

2006-10-02 18:28:00 · 20 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

I am a married woman and in love with someone else. I would never tell this person. I don't think this person would ever date me anyway. How do I make the feeling go away? My marriage not good. Help.

2006-10-02 18:25:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband said he is going to take me to the beach this weekend but that I have to breastfeed the baby on the way down there in the passengers seat. I told him that would be unsafe for the baby because if we got in an accident the baby could get hurt not being in a child seat. He told me it wasn't up for discussion and that I had to do it. I've been crying some tonight because of this. My husband is impatient and doesn't like to stop on trips so he makes me pack a lunch and some snacks for the road and makes me wear a diaper in case I have to go to the bathroom. I respect my husband's authority but I feel I need to protect my baby. Should I talk to my dad and ask him to talk with my husband? I think he might listen to a man but then again he might get mad if I talk to daddy about this. I don't know what to do.

2006-10-02 18:24:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i askd asimple question where this married woman pays for sex ,she is my husbands mother in law that,s right his dad is a good man and she has .4. kids. his son is mad as at get out and i wanted advis from you all on how he needs to tell his dad is that to bad a thing to ask whatever, if he finds out the truth all hell gonna break lose so dont his own son have this right to tell his dad ,whatever,terri

2006-10-02 18:15:26 · 9 answers · asked by whitmangal_2 1

My husband always requesting for rear entry. I have not allowed him due to fear. Is it painful? whether mostlly men like it? is it good for women?

Thank you for your answers in advance

2006-10-02 18:13:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

in them that turn woman on? My wife loves to read them before we go to bed. I never actually picked one up and started reading one. All I know is that throughout our marriage of 25 years our sex life has never been boring.

2006-10-02 18:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi this might me sound like a really bad person but im happily married yes happily but i have devolped a crush on his friend we talk all the time and i cant help but have a crush how do i get these thoughts out of my head? PLEASE HELP!!?

2006-10-02 18:10:18 · 26 answers · asked by aleym 2

I have been married 18 years. I have a 23 month old baby to care for and I get two hours of sleep per night. (I go to sleep when my husband gets up for work and sleep until the baby wakes). This has gotten worse over the past few weeks...I just do not know what to do. We do not have a spare bedroom..there is no room for a bed in the babys room, and our sofa is the kind with two recliners on each end so it is not comfortable to lay across. I am so grumpy because of lack of sleep. Its not fair to my baby, or to me...I know it is not healthy for me or my husband. The doctor gave him a CPAP but refuses to wear it. The doctor said his sleep apnea is very bad...and that was 3 years ago. It has gotten much worse lately. I have tried to talk to him..but it did not do any good. I am at my wits end. Please someone help!

2006-10-02 18:02:16 · 22 answers · asked by rcpaden 5

my ex is in a situation that he is just severly depresed.his grandma passed away.and ever since he is not happy.he seems to find confort with me.a couple of days ago he said he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.but i just dont feel like that about him.i actually feel sorry for him.is it that we are getting close again and i dont noticed?he said he loved me and i said ditto.and i feel like if im in the corner and cant find my way around.i hate to se him like that.i do what i can for him to smile.i hate that he came to me for confort. i never looked for him he came to my door and now he just want to be with me.he tried to kiss me and i stoped him.i think he is falling for me again.but why, he cheated and now after a couple of years he comes back i dont know what to think about this.anyone have any advice?what do you think?

2006-10-02 17:59:50 · 15 answers · asked by super girl 3

I'm getting married in a few days and I was wondering what are the steps I have to take to get my last name changed?

2006-10-02 17:51:59 · 7 answers · asked by xxxxxxlinziexxxxxx 2

Some girls and I were talking about whether it's ok to have sex with someone other than your future spouse before the wedding--a last chance, no-strings-attached fling before you're officially Not Single. Should/could you have a one night stand? If you do, should you tell your partner?

I'm not looking for condemnation or commendation, I'm looking for thoughts, opinions and insights. Serious answers only please.

2006-10-02 17:51:27 · 45 answers · asked by Bachman-ette 4

they are upset with him because he doesnt like to travel but i dont think they deserve their $5.00 back because they agreed to buy him as is so how do i tell them that they just need to teach him not to be so whiny?

2006-10-02 17:46:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous