We have been married for 9 years and it was a really good marriage for the first 5-7 the last couple have been so terrible that I felt seperation might give us both a chance to regroup and let things settle down, he left five days ago and it has been a lonely sad time. I cry every night and think about him and what we can do to fix this or end it so life can go on and things feel better. He is going to think about it and I agreed whole heartedly with what ever the final choice would be, I think I will take a couple of weeks to get my head together and think with unclouded bias or interjections. What would you do to get the process rolling without being pushy or overbearing? The waiting is the hardest part at night the most!
2006-10-02 19:36:28 · 5 answers · asked by want2flybye 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he has to think about it, that's the answer to your question. Let him go.............
2006-10-02 20:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do something for you, to work out what you really want. I suggest counselling. I did and it worked wonders for me and helped me get to the centre of what I really wanted to do.
2006-10-03 02:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling, by yourself...then ..together..
find some hobbies to keep you busy..what things did you enjoy before you were married? maybe start some of those up
2006-10-03 02:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by figgy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to go out .. spend sometime with ur friends .. stay out very late and then go to fall a sleep with out no thinking
2006-10-03 03:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by mazen71j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up your mouth and ask.
2006-10-03 02:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋