My husband always requesting for rear entry. I have not allowed him due to fear. Is it painful? whether mostlly men like it? is it good for women?
Thank you for your answers in advance
2006-10-02 18:13:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think only homosexuals do this, my man always wants to HELL NO!! i have a pussy **** that lol if you want asshole **** a dude
2006-10-02 21:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by nahdya21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if your body and mind is not willing it's going to be painful. If you just let go and relax your body and mind it's wonderful, fantastic and your lashes will really curl. Drink liquor, relax your brain, use lubricant-- before that, make sure you cleanse your colon very important,and shave. The anus is stretchable skin-it can be tight or not depends on how you squeeze it. Don't do this with multiple partners only for the only one you know who is monogamy to you. When he enters there, relax don't squeeze. You only squeeze if its totally in. Talk to your partner to take it slow if not, you might bleed. This is a good time to communicate to your partner the way you like it. When you do it at the rear, don't ever do it at the front. If you're planning to do front and back, do the front first, and then back never go back to the front once you did it from the behind.
You will like it. Your husband will not leave you.
2006-10-03 01:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is painful so you have to go really slowly and use lots of lubrication. Unlike the other hole, this hole is not self lubricating and without lubrication, you can do some damage.
All men I've done it with like it because it is so much tighter.
Anal is actually very good for the muscles in that area and if you do it occasionally, it won't do you any harm and, later in life, it will help with bowel control movements having had the area stretched and retracted.
Once you get past the initial pain, it feels so good. I personally love it.
2006-10-03 01:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband sometimes asks for it. It tried once and didn't like it. Nor because it was painful, but because I didn't feel comfortable with it and had no particular pleasure. Most of my male friend say they like it, and most of the women I know don't. Maybe you should try, just to make sure you don't and maybe he'll stop asking you if he realises it was not your thing...
2006-10-03 01:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by pegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is like your husband. For 18 years he has been after me for that so one night I let him.It hurt so bad but he was so turned on by it we did it again only this time we had K.Y jell that helped alot and i got to enjoy it to.If you do let him it is important that you set on top of him that way you can control how fast or how much you are willing togo. .
2006-10-03 01:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by teeny r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremal painful , especially if he is not gentle . You would
most likely have physical problems down the line { like bleeding hemorrhoids } .
I allowed this because I loved someone so much I thought it was the loving thing to do and I have suffered for years .
Just tell him no and then tell him why . If he loves you he will understand !
2006-10-03 01:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well some women do it to satisfy their men but it has its consequesnces...its painful and plus it is more common to diseases then the normal sexual procedure....and if u ar efull belly then its bad luck on top.....well so if u feel u gonna take all the risk and make ur husband happy go for it.....else ur choice
2006-10-03 01:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by Vinny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's painful but u can decrease the pain by using a lubricant like KY.
2006-10-03 01:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding with this question???????? it is just sex....try it you may like it or not who cares..... the fact is if he really wants it that bad and you don't at least try he may just find someone who will.......he's you man talk about it share you fear of the possible pain work together and have fun cause that's what its really all about you two having fun together.......
2006-10-03 01:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm married and i've never done that...first it's not lubricating how much lubricant you will use..only men will be satisfied..think about yourself..making love is a two way process,,there are otehr way to make it good...just explain to your husband what you feel and if he loves you, he should understand
2006-10-03 02:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by harukashin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it will be painful first time and for some time.
it depends on individual.
it is not harmful to any one as long as you keep hygenic.
but, if you don't like it, plainly tell him so. accepting it onlyfor his sake and not enjoying it may result in mental tensions and create more problems than enjoyment.
hope your husband understands!!!
2006-10-03 01:19:55 · answer #11 · answered by iamgood 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋