in them that turn woman on? My wife loves to read them before we go to bed. I never actually picked one up and started reading one. All I know is that throughout our marriage of 25 years our sex life has never been boring.
2006-10-02 18:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The romance novel has the prelude, the chase, the leading upto, the psychological and emotional 'foreplay' that women are turned on by. This gives her the 'foreplayed' emotional state of mind to later act out on her spouse.
I actually like the foreplay part and skip over the actual sex part if it's in there. The words are actually kind of silly; 'spent member' lol
Lucky guy that allows his wife to read romance novels, he's on the receiving end. Just a tip guys!! ;)
2006-10-02 18:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance novels have sex...usually about 2 steamy love scenes and a few teasing moments trickled throughout. The best way to arouse a woman is through her emotions...when a woman reads a book, she can pretend that she's the beautiful heroine and her lover is the gorgeous guy. A really great book allows you to cheat without really cheating. You get to fall in "love" with a fictional character, but share your sexuality with your significant other.
2006-10-02 18:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greenback:
You say your love life has never been boring, but I would like you to aks your wife her opinion, and give her total freedom to express what she might. As an outside observer, I would say that your wife is very hungry for romance. Often we men forget that our wives are precious, imagnative creatures that often hunger for adventure. We can be powerful, energetic, inventive lovemakers and still fail to hit the mark because we did not connect with our woman's heart.
In her heart lies all her dreams, since early childhood. That's where Prince Charming lives, that's where she keeps the detailed plans for her castle, and each species of flower in her magnificent garden. Have you been to that secret place with
her, and shared her innermost, most precious thoughts and dreams? It may be time for such an excursion.
I promise you, if you join her in her dreams and secret adventures in her mind, the romance novels will soon find themselves at the curbside, where they belong. It is our job, as men, to fulfill the fantasy lives of our women: not some pulp writer that wouldn't know her dreams from a tuna sandwich.
2006-10-02 18:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by The Heart Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also read romance novels. I really don't think that there is anything in there that you need to worry about. It is just alot of romantic stuff that probably doesn't happen all that much in real life. It's every woman's fantasy to have a man like the one's in these books that look at you as if your the only woman in the world. All i can say is run to your local bookstore and stock her up on some new books.lol. Nora Roberts is one of my favorites.
2006-10-03 06:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by lighthouse lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man and woman brain works differently, i m not a doctor but i did read this type of research book sometimes. they like to imagine but man is much more realistic that's y its you time to use to creativity to make you wife happy . love novel makes them fantasy about love that's y woman like it and man don't , we know it a complete different world.
do you know most woman say french man is the most romantic man? where do they get this info? no one say that so you see it a fantasy and reality matter . i hope you have a good marriage and i m sure this marriage will last forever ,
aaron
aeeyo@yahoo.com
2006-10-02 18:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of it is the mystery , part is the romance . You could probably be very pleasantly surprised if you discuss it with her ! Ask if the two of you can take turns reading , you also might find out things about each other that will be beneficial .
2006-10-02 18:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she gets ideas from these books? I've read a few myself, and never found them that appealing. Some women like to read them because it gives them a sense of passion and adventure, whlle at the same time, still married to a wonderful guy. Beats cheaing on your spouse.
2006-10-02 18:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the category suggests - romance. It is a wonderful fantasy world where romance always wins over all the problems in a relationship.
2006-10-02 18:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dats easy...womaen are always fascinated with romance and fiction...the thought of a prince charming coming to sweep them off their feet....that really turns them on....become that prnce charming and she'll never open another book again
2006-10-02 18:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by dante_cyberdemon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance Novels are women's porn.
2006-10-02 19:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋