I have been married going on a year now on OCT. 31st! I'm a very happy newlywed, who now is planning on starting a family with my husband. There's just one problem I dont think myself to be sexy enough for him. When we make love after a few sessions I admit he doesn't stay erect, He clames it's because he's climaxed more than 2 or 3 times and that I have nothing to do with it. However I feel that its because he doesn't find me sexy enough. Am I wrong for thinking this ?
2006-10-02 19:00:22 · 24 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Believe it. Most guys conk out after one time. If you can keep him coming back for at least another two times then you are sexy beyond belief. BUT you knew that didn't you!!! You foxy little minx. You are posting this question so that men like me will tell you that you are sooooooooo sexy! Trying to boost your confidence in yourself, when you knew it all along.
Ha Ha Ha LOL! Good for you. I love to compliment a lady, especially when she wants it.
Yes Baby, you ARE SEXY, & nobody knows it better than your husband. Obviously! (3 climaxes whoo boy!)
2006-10-02 19:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like the problem is u. If he has climaxed 2-3x already then it's natural for some men not to stay erect after that. And if this is the case with him, wow, he's lucky he can climax even that many times in one session. Besides, he married u didn't he so why should u think he doesn't find u sexy?
2006-10-03 02:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, my husband climaxes once, rolls over and sleeps!! You are more than sexy enough if he's going for a few times!! You trust your husband don't you? Then take his word for it and believe what he tells you! Just keep on loving each other and feel good about you!!
2006-10-03 02:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by XxbrooklynnxX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he thinks you are sexy. Men like to be with women who they find attractive (not trying to make guys sound shallow at all) but it is true. And sometimes guys are more "stubborn" when it comes to their climax, it does not mean that he does not find you sexy. And the majority of guys do not stay erect after sex, its natural, lol its tired
2006-10-03 02:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by dance2stayalive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have low-self esteem. Thats okay it can be fixed. You should talk with him and tell him you do not feel sexy to him anymore. Maybe he can do more things to show how he feels. If he loves you in his eyes your the most beautiful women in the world, from the inside out. Most guys can't even climax more than two times, its not your fault.
2006-10-03 02:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by italianrae1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did not think you are sexy the why did he marry you?. You have to remember that the male Organ Can only work for a short time. It needs to rest. remember men are not like ladies Forwhich ladies can last longer then men. A lot longer. And yes you are wrong for thinking that you are not sexy.
2006-10-03 02:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him! Why wouldn't you have anything to do with his climaxing more than 2 or 3 times? Seriously, if you want a family, you have to be able to talk to your husband.
2006-10-03 02:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, we are our worst critic and if we find something we don't like about ourselves then where gonna make sure we blame our husband's for not liking it as well. Just relax, what ever's keeping you from feeling sexy start working on it, and if the same thing happens you'll know he was telling you the truth.
2006-10-03 02:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mycan Moneek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yrself sexy, naughty, maybe watch a porn movie together.
Dress in just a little sheet, buy roses, spread the peddles all over the bed. Take a long, soak in the tub with him. Try sexual things that you haven't experienced. The list is endless.
2006-10-03 02:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not sexy enough. Your instincts are correct.
If he can not climax ten times in one hour the problem your appearance and your technique.
Seek help ASAP. You may find your Pastor to be of great help in this situation.
2006-10-03 14:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋