Marriage & Divorce - 28 September 2006

behaviour of my husband is not good with me what to do and i have a little kid also? and his mother & grand mother is doing black magic on me i am alone over hear can u please tell me what to do?

2006-09-28 23:44:46 · 14 answers · asked by Pinki 1

2006-09-28 23:32:59 · 5 answers · asked by queen 3

Hi all, my name is Bez from birmingham and im 26. This is my first post and being as there is an agony aunt section, i thought id try it and see what feedback i get so here goes... i've been in a long term relationship for 5 years with nicky who's 21. We have lived together for that time and all has been great untill now. She does genuinly love me very much, she washes my clothes, cooks my food, always shows me love and has a lot of love to give. The bad sides is that she dont stop talking, is a good liar, quite 2 faced and a pretty messy person to live with. She has lots of love to give, too much sometimes and it does make me thing that she's needy, clingy and an attention whore.

To cut a long story short i found out she gave her number to a bloke at a club and then found out later that she was texting raunchy sexy messages to my so called mate. She swears she has not shagged these blokes and i do believe her. This mate was an old school friend from 10 years ago, we lost touch but i bumped into him again about 2 months ago and he showed me the messages she sent to him. He said he wanted to see how far she would go and wanted enough evidence to show me, nicky admitted starting the sexy texts but swears she was only winding him up because of how weird he is and non of the girls will fancy him. I said i want her out my house asap. She is begging for forgiveness and is giving me her side of the story about what my mate was texting back to her. Im thinking that it is good of him to tell me, but why did he go so far with the messages. Nicky said she did all this because she was getting attention that she wasn't getting from me. My best mate harry is asking whats going on and i replied this...

"She still ain't moved out yet. I still feel the same and want her to move out but i know its gonna be hard and I'll miss her when she's gone. She has been telling me about what James said in the texts and the way he was looking at her down the waterfront. I know it is true about how desperate he is because I've seen it with my own eyes. You gotta admit that he is weird and is prob STILL a virgin. I do kinda feel as though he genuinely wanted to start gong out with Nicky and when she eventually told him she was messing about, me & James were playing pool at the time and James suddenly went in a mood and went all quiet and pissed off. I thought it was this other girl that texting him but it was Nicky.He got jealous/pissed off and told me simply because he knew he had no chance with her anyway. Apparently he asked her for a lift down Riley's a few times without me and asked if she wanted to come down to his house for A VISIT?!?. I've got a feeling that he is just as guilty as her, maybe worse..what you reckon? I've also got a feeling that he was trying to catch her out for 1 reason or another, but I'm thinking if my mates misses did this to me, i would DEFINITELY not gone as far as saying "come down my house" to my mates Mrs!!! I would have told my mate asap so why didn't James do that?? He said he wanted to see how far she would go, but why would he want to say VISIT ME??? I just don't get it and it's as if he's trying to get a load of evidence to split us up. I never saw any messages he sent her and i wonder WHY??? Surely a true mate would have ignored the messages and tell his mate when he feels ready!! James sent her messages suggesting seeing each other behind my back and when he gets the cold shoulder off Nicky, he feels truly dumped and very jealous of me who is in a relationship with a nice looking girl, nice car and own house whilst he lives with his mom and no Mrs. He tells me the truth, hoping we split up so maybe she will start texting him again and bingo!! he is with her just like he planned...what you reckon haz..have a good think and get back.

2006-09-28 23:32:29 · 12 answers · asked by skinnyminniekitten 1

2006-09-28 23:30:28 · 9 answers · asked by Pinki 1

I was married and divorced from the same man twice,I am now about to claim my pension and they need to know the date of each date of each decree absolute.How can I find out without it costing me anything.I can't claim my pension unless I have this information.

2006-09-28 23:27:23 · 4 answers · asked by animalwatch 3

they have set bailiffs on me ,i dispute their claim. i can not get legal aid and i have no savings ,how do i fight them, any good advice welcome .my daughter was 17 in 2001 and i have court order saying i had to pay 5.00 a week untill she was 17 years or further order at the rate of 5.00 per week . child surrport agency give me no help when i phone them , just pass me round and round on phone nobody will explain how they came to 6.000 bill for 2001 2003 please help .its took me 2hours to type this cant work computer ,if possibill please phone keith on 01912261160 and i will ring back thanks.

2006-09-28 23:26:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told her if it dosent stop i was leaving,between that and bit. about money ,she aint had no job in eight mon.

2006-09-28 23:25:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 23:20:59 · 8 answers · asked by Pinki 1

2006-09-28 23:18:09 · 12 answers · asked by Pinki 1

2006-09-28 23:15:56 · 21 answers · asked by NG 2

i am in love with a gay named gagan now a days he is ignoring me,he dont have trust on me.whenever i talk to any boy he start ignoring me and make me insult .

2006-09-28 23:06:53 · 19 answers · asked by hima 1

Shz 1 year older 2 me and more intelligent. Bt we have same proffession. If we both Love each other and want 2 marry, will it be a successful marriage? Provided, we are of d same relegion.
Is it a rule that wife shud be younger, always?
M askin coz m confused.
I Love her very mch n dnt want 2 leave her....
Thank U!

2006-09-28 22:55:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does the child look more like a Whitey or with east asian features???

2006-09-28 22:27:53 · 16 answers · asked by meikon80 1

I caught my ex with someone else. I divorced him and his friends thought I was wrong.

2006-09-28 22:26:02 · 7 answers · asked by Sybel 1

i have been seperated from my husband for 3yrs, I would like to get divorced but we are still really close friends and maybe I think there might be something there. Do I just move on or suggest we try again as we have children together.

2006-09-28 22:21:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-wife is doing everything in her power to prevent me from seeing my daughter. She has gone as far as making allegations that I have molested my little baby. Do I endure this f**cking BS for the next 16 years of my life? or should I cut my losses and convince myself that it was the best thing for both of them and wish them a happy life....

2006-09-28 22:21:33 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1

Have you ever been unfaithful to your husband/long term boyfriend?

Would you consider doing it again?

Do you have brown eyes, shoulder length hair (or longer), D cup breasts, are you under 5' 10", do you like to wear your hair pinned up, do you wear glasses, do you drive?

If you have answered 'yes' to all of these questions then email me with your stats and in return I will email you my phone number because you deserve to have your bare bottom spanked and I'm suitably qualified to dispense with such a punishment!

2006-09-28 22:19:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would u marry, after you've hooked up with someone that makes you feel good about yourself.Thing is they cook, clean, lick toes and freak too well (experienced).. How can you trust that this hasn't happended many,many, times before, during and after. Would you trust them or wonder about them when out of your presence?

2006-09-28 22:19:24 · 5 answers · asked by Orig1 B 1

why do men think they can stay out late but for a women we cant it makes me laugh that one rule for them and another for us ....
LETS sort this out for once and for all

2006-09-28 22:13:25 · 22 answers · asked by flowerpot 3

myself and my husband dont sleep in the same beds..he was pissed and came into my bedroom trying to get some..it was 2am i was tired and just wanted him to leave but he wouldnt get up off my bed the more he kept trying to touch me the angrier i got..shouldnt i be entitled to peace in my own room??so he wouldnt leave because i was mad...i ended up shouting at him because i got so mad...then he said im not leaving till u calm down..i would calm down 5 more mins this dragged on till 5am and he knew i was up at 7am..we ended up having a huge row were i somehow got him out of my room and locked him out..he stood at my door for at least half hour asking me to open it..is it just me or is THAT JUST WRONG? he seems to think its ok to treeat me like this..and its all my fault because he remained calm and i got angry

2006-09-28 21:54:34 · 22 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4

is relly better to love and lost than to never loved at all?

2006-09-28 21:50:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I are very much in love but I know she is not right for me in the long run. The things that aren't right with us keep coming up over and over. It even caused a breakup for a couple months but we ended up getting back together about 6 months ago. And now some of those problems are coming up again. I told her last night that I wasn't happy with the relationship and things had to change and she begged me not to break up with her and she said she would change back. I thought about it more today and I think we both deserve someone better matched for us and that she shouldn't have to fix something about herself to make us happy. She is an amazing girl and I am in love with her but these things that come up are parts of her personality that she can't change.

HOW DO I DO THIS? It is going to kill me because she hasn't done anything wrong it's just that we are both different now. Im 22 and shes 20. Any insightful help is much appreciated.

2006-09-28 21:45:11 · 14 answers · asked by ChemGuy 2

I want to do something romantic for my husband, but do not know want. It there some one that can give me advise wat to do please. I want to tread him tonight

2006-09-28 21:43:28 · 14 answers · asked by Lizel M 2

i am 34male from mumbai & a catholic,got married last year in oct,it turned out that we are totally incompatible, i am fed with her nagging & complaints , she has already left my home, iwant to separate as this relationship is meaningless,how do i get tthe anullement from the church & a divorce from the court in mumbai,what do i do if she refuses to go aahead with the divorce,what about alimony ?how do i avoid it? please help i am totally stressed up

2006-09-28 20:55:08 · 9 answers · asked by stanley 2

When I was dating my husband he was so attentive and sweet. He would do anything for me and showed me he loved me all the time.
Now he hardly ever talks to me, has no respect for me and pays no attention to me and wonders why I never want sex! DUH!!!!!
I've told him this and he still doesn't make any effort! It doesn't count when he ignores me all day until he wants it. Why don't men get a clue?!!

2006-09-28 20:54:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 20:51:20 · 8 answers · asked by K_love4u 1

i do not know his current whereabouts and i am on limited budget been seperated for 13yrs. last known whereabouts ST. Louis MO.

2006-09-28 20:48:16 · 4 answers · asked by tiaspider0528 1

I am trying to find out if someone new that i am dating is being honest about the number of times he has been married. of course it would be great if it is a free site, but if not that is ok also. THANKS!

2006-09-28 20:25:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

-I love her, but my family dislike her, what should I do

2006-09-28 20:17:45 · 27 answers · asked by SunnyT 1

I'm 19 and he's 22 in the Army, and we both knew that we werent' meant for each other from the first time we met on our blind date at baker square. We've been together for 1 year and 5 months. I know even when he does propose to me, that were not going to get married for like another 3-4 years after our engagement. I love him always and forever and he is my world, my life, my one and only true love, and our love for each other is eternal and will last until we die! I Love you forever and for always, I DO!

2006-09-28 20:07:27 · 23 answers · asked by Kristin C 2