i am a catholic want divorce she is difficult to live with ,what is the procedure & what do i do if she refuse

Question

i am 34male from mumbai & a catholic,got married last year in oct,it turned out that we are totally incompatible, i am fed with her nagging & complaints , she has already left my home, iwant to separate as this relationship is meaningless,how do i get tthe anullement from the church & a divorce from the court in mumbai,what do i do if she refuses to go aahead with the divorce,what about alimony ?how do i avoid it? please help i am totally stressed up

Answer 1

if you have no children then get an annulment
as for the court only a lawyer in Mombai can tell you

Answer 2

See a priest concerning an annulment through the Catholic Church.

See a lawyer for information on a divorce in Mumbai

Both procedures will take time. I hope you have a better reason than her nagging. I don't know her side of the story, but you may have problems too and that is why she left. You both may just need counseling. It's kinda pathetic your worried over alimony. Did your church not have classes to attend before the process of entering the Sacrament of Marriage?

Answer 3

Well the Holy Estate of Matrimony isn't to be taken lightly, so I think God shall take into account that you are looking for help through this before ending your union in divorce. I think you should look at and consider all your options, cover all your bases, and try to do the wisest thing possible, for your children and for you. If divorce appears the best option, make sure you can prove it, document it, etc... and consider what life will be like after the divorce: Do you have skills to support yourself and your children? Would it be wiser to postpone any action until you can make sure you can maintain the life you're accustomed to? Women have been known to do that too and it's worked out better for them. Do you have friends that have gone through what you're going through? Surround yourself with people, support groups, etc..., that shall be on your side whatever choices you make. I've know many couples who managed to stay together for the children and made things work out quite well, so that's another option, and if it's for you, you'll have a great sense of accomplishment if you can make it work for you. Is there violence or do you think their may be the possibility of violence involved? If there is, statistically, you probably should separate and divorce ASAP for your children's safety and for yours. Too many times women don't think a violent mate will go too far and end up paying too great a price. So you can see, there are a wide range of questions to ask yourself that only you can answer. I'm sorry to hear this is happening to you, and hope and pray you can make the best decisions for you so that everything works out for the best and so that you can be a better and stronger person after everything is settled... Good luck and God bless...

Answer 4

First you approch your church, secondly you will have to file an application in the family court for divorce. After one year of legal seperation( in which period there will be counselling sessions by the court) your case will be considered for divorce by the court.
However since you are already sepeareted this should not take long. Since your wife has already left you, I feel she is also not interested in continuing with you, Have a mutual friend and look into the possibilities of getting divorced by mutual consent,this should take care of alimony part.
One thing for sure, if your reasoning is genuine you shall get the divorce from court of Indian law.
However it may take a while due to our system.
Ideally try for divorce by mutual consent,if she is not ready you will have to take help of a good lawyer.
In the mean time don't get too workedup, relax and look after your health. Everything is going to be just fine in the end. Don't worry more than necessary. Take a day at a time.

Answer 5

to get anullement for the church you have to go to your church and to talk with your priest.
to get divorce, get advocate as he will do the best things for you. as two of you are no longer in the same house, advocate will know when you can get divorse (after how long being separated) even if she refuse divorse and he will know all about alimony.

to get advocate is, maybe, not the cheaper way but in this situation is the best way.

wish you all the best

Answer 6

Mumbai? Isn't that the place where you turn counter clockwise and say I divorce thee , i divorce thee, I divorce thee, and the marriage is over?

Answer 7

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RE :I am a catholic want divorce she is difficult to live with ,what is the procedure & what do i do if she refuse
i am 34male from mumbai & a catholic,got married last year in oct,it turned out that we are totally incompatible, i am fed with her nagging & complaints , she has already left my home, iwant to separate as this relationship is meaningless,how do i get tthe anullement from the church & a divorce from the court in mumbai,what do i do if she refuses to go aahead with the divorce,what about alimony ?how do i avoid it? please help i am totally stressed up
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Answer 8

Try to settle it on mutually acceptable terms. To get it through church and our legal system, it will be a cumbersome process.

Answer 9

convert to islam, it works either way quickly

Answer 10

become a methodist