Marriage & Divorce - 28 September 2006

I heard my husband tell his friends that when he gets good profit from his business he would get me out of his life.All because I did not lend him £30

2006-09-28 10:30:18 · 64 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

I had a discution with some friends saying they dont have sex with there wives enough. One friend said "I just want a normal sexual relationship" and I asked "what makes us think we arnt in a normal sexual relationship?" We dont know. Then I though I should ask...

"How offten is it normal to make love when your have been married for a while"?
Please be totally honest.
(I cant ask the guys because they all exagerate ;o) ) P

2006-09-28 10:27:24 · 11 answers · asked by flyboy_447 1

2006-09-28 10:22:15 · 29 answers · asked by KayAlley 3

how many of you married couples still hold hands when you are out together?

would you be hurt if your husband wasnt into holding hands?

2006-09-28 10:19:38 · 23 answers · asked by RedEye 3

Before the 70s it was very low and before the 60s even lower...

Why do almost all relationships fall apart now and are unstable?
Even people who are NOT married cant seem to stay together
and keep from fighting.


Explain : )

2006-09-28 10:17:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what can I do as its embarrassing

2006-09-28 10:17:35 · 9 answers · asked by marykuntfarts 1

2006-09-28 10:14:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok here it goes iam 19 and married to my future ex-husband manly beacuse he is a di*** oh well my mastack all iam asking is if the knight in shinning armor still exsitgs

2006-09-28 10:07:00 · 15 answers · asked by angel_face_20052001 1

Why is it that when a woman stops having sex with her significant other in a LTR, does she get upset when HE goes elsewhere to get his needs met?

2006-09-28 10:06:52 · 26 answers · asked by Lou 2

2006-09-28 10:05:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe not a punishment in the sense, but some kind of consequences for carrying on an affair with someone elses spouse?
I personally think there should be some kind of fine involved. It is kind of like stealing someone's property... for some maybe even there liveliness. If a person knows, has been told or is very well aware that the person they are dating/screweing whatever has a spouse or significant other... why should they get off without a care in the world, going about their business as if they've done nothing wrong?
Just curious to see if anyone else has so much free time on their hands that they sit around thinking about stuff like this:-)

2006-09-28 10:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

(****Not talking people who report spam/advertisements)

Do you think they are:

A) Annoying People with nothing better to do who should mind their own business and get a life.

B) Saints for cleaning up this filthy question and answer session. Without them, this place would be nothing but chaos and porn.

C) Somewhere In Between-Sometimes it's justified and somethings just aren't suited for these boards.

2006-09-28 10:03:53 · 8 answers · asked by . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2

2006-09-28 09:59:02 · 1 answers · asked by lorit96@sbcglobal.net 1

I wonder if the responses I got were honest. It seems to me that men have a much higher number so am I to believe that all these men slept with the same woman, I don't think so. It does take two to tango, right? I'm in my 30s, married twice and I'm on man number 41.... think what you want but I'm definitely not the neighborhood ho and neither is my sister (read last question). Are you girls being honest.... that's my question.

2006-09-28 09:50:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd simply like to take my clothes off and be nude in her presence, in order that she can become accustomed to me naked again, and thus not feel anxious about this. I'm not demanding penetrative sex or even oral. She has suffered very badly with anxiety, and I have supported her throughout - even to the extent of being celibate for 5 years.

I am, however, getting to the end of my tether. Im 49, and the wife is 44. Can anyone help me out. Porn does not help, and, as I love my wife, seeking a mistress is not a possibility.

I've suggested we go to Relate, to get her some counselling, but this, like all my other attempts to get some sort of response, is stonewalled.

2006-09-28 09:47:52 · 23 answers · asked by ? 6

Do you and your spouse still make out passionately for a good period of time before doing it?

2006-09-28 09:46:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why?
Is it that something is lacking in your sex life, lack of attention, or just because the opportunity presented itself?

2006-09-28 09:44:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife doesn't like how I pull the sausages from the machine. We make our own sausages, I've never broken one & the casing is really strong, so what's the big deal. Do you have to do things your way? Does this drive your spouse crazy?

2006-09-28 09:41:47 · 7 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

How did it work out?

2006-09-28 09:40:23 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3

Ok, I had planned for use to have a wedding this coming April, but now he says that I am rushing him. He still wants to get married and loves me very much. I just dont understand. We have been living together for 2 years now and have a 8 month old baby girl. We are very happy woth one another. I dont want to wait another year to get married. What could I say or do to help speed up the process with out it seeming rushed?

2006-09-28 09:27:48 · 17 answers · asked by Beautiful Disaster 2

I have been married for 7 years. Throughout the last seven years my wife and I have both evolved. Through this evolution I have noticed that what she finds both emotionally and sexually stimulating has evolved as well. Other than love, what is the one thing that doesn't change when it comes to emotional/ sexual stimulation for women?

2006-09-28 09:26:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 09:23:38 · 14 answers · asked by jingles_200 6

Let's say you are married and have a terrific sex filled, love filled relationship. You are always cudling your wife and shower her with kisses. Then comes this girl 10 years younger than you who was a friend of a friend. She talks to you on the phone and asks you for relationship advice. She then procedes to call you more, come to your work to meet you. She tells you she likes older men, says she really likes kids, ( you have 4) is always asking you about your relationship with your wife and if you are happy.
You are honest with your wife and tell her that she called when your wife asks you if you have heard from her. Your wife asks you to put a stop to talking to her, because your wife 'see's that she wants more than just friendly advice. You kinda like the attention from this young girl... what would you do? Would you think this girl is obviously picking up on you? Or using you as a friend, since she seems to like older men. What would you tell your wife?

2006-09-28 09:22:10 · 16 answers · asked by llbm3 2

2006-09-28 09:17:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see my marriage dwindling to an end. my husband won't open up and be completely honest with me and I'm to the point where I've lost interest in trying,I didn't want to but that's how I feel now. My guy bud and mother think I shouldn't try getting him to open up so much and just step back for a while. They also told me to stop being such an open book and that I'm too informative when it comes to my thought, but the suspense is killing me and I'd rather come to a conclusion than drag things out any further. We've accomplished so much together as a couple but he basically told me and shows me he's not trying anymore. Should I just step back and live in suspense or go for the jab and try to peacefully talk things over with him anyway?

extra info: we just bought a house and have a baby on the way

2006-09-28 09:17:09 · 19 answers · asked by Skypride 2

If husband's mom gave him a check, for large amount of money(the check was made out to husband, NOT husband and wife), and said "use it for whatever you want", is this money
considered "joint money", or "husband's money"?
BACKGROUND INFO.....The check was given to husband by his mom, sometime in 2002 or 2003. The husband and wife are getting a divorce now (2006).The wife was upset that her name was not on the check. The husband then deposited that check into our joint account.
At the same time, the wife's parents purchased furniture for house, not the type that husband wanted. Does wife get to keep furniture, or is it split 50/50, or has to be agreed to by husband and wife?

2006-09-28 09:08:10 · 29 answers · asked by Sylvester L 1

imagine that you fell in love with a girl who claimed she was a student of a good major in a reputable university but you found out that it was a lie.what would you do?would you marry her?

2006-09-28 09:06:30 · 10 answers · asked by unicorn 2

My sister was pretty wild in college and her BF asked her the other night how many men she had been with before him. She didn't want to tell him the actuall number because she doesn't want him to think she's a slut.
She's an inteligent woman in her 30s so I told her that she isn't the only person who has a history........ so I'm asking;
How many men were you with before you choose Mr. Right/husband/BF??

2006-09-28 09:06:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

We bought a fixer upper old house. My husband can do almost anything to a home.Well we have been in this house now 8 years and still it is not completed. I asked him if he need help (other than me I am dam tried) he always say no! I think he is to proud to ask anyone for help. Should I Go ahead and hire someone who can finish the job before I croke, or just keep living in this dam half finish home another 8 years?

2006-09-28 09:05:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

No my guy has never hit me. No man has. But i'm interested to know what exactly people consider to be domestic abuse. Is one slap in the face domestic abuse, or just lost temper and forgivable? Do you call the Police, just leave, or listen to him/her when they apologize and try to work it out? Mom would kill me for saying this but in my opinion I don't really think just one slap is domestic abuse. I think it's something that can be worked out with counseling, apologies, and a promise to never do it again. Understand I in no way support any form of abuse but I just want to know how much is too much? When is the line crossed from merely lost temper to abuse?

2006-09-28 08:59:51 · 17 answers · asked by LadyBug 1