Marriage & Divorce - 28 September 2006

2006-09-28 08:56:39 · 13 answers · asked by barriaga329 1

He is 30 and has never really dated before. He has been dating this girl a few months, and are setting a wedding date in which they will be married within a year of meeting. This seems way to fast and I and his other friends are very concerned about the situation. How does one handle this situation.

2006-09-28 08:56:26 · 20 answers · asked by telefantastical 6

It started out because a co-worker of his who is 18 had a problem with this girl who had a crush on him. He was talking to her on the phone while at our house. The co-worker put her on the phone with my husband and my husband gave her "relationship" advice. Now she has e-mailed him, shown up at his work and continues to call him when she's bored. She says she likes older guys, she is now dating a man older than me who has a kid. He has told her they need to stop talking because it causes problems. She told him, he shouldn't listen to me. She calls several times a week. He will finally answer and talk to her. She makes small talk then wants to know if he is happy with me or if we have any problems. My husband is one of the guys who goes out of his way for a perfect stranger, he will lend them advice, give them money, help them with food, anything!!! I think this is flatering to him and I think she is trying very hard to win him over. He is acting stupid and says she just needs a friend.

2006-09-28 08:55:50 · 25 answers · asked by llbm3 2

... will point out a good looking woman to her husband or boyfriend or won't mind when their husband or boyfriend will remark on a good looking woman to you?

My wife does all this and she thinks she's in the minority.

2006-09-28 08:51:25 · 22 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

2006-09-28 08:49:02 · 11 answers · asked by Michaelangleo 1

This lady has been married like 5 times is in her early 30's has 4 children and has been kicked out of her apartment and now is after my brother like really bad..He is Insurance Agent and she is one of his clients... She told him that she would leave him alone if he would just be with her for one night! I told him that something is wrong with her do not mess with her....His wife believes that he has been sleeping with her and thats why she is after him so bad!! He as a restaining order on her but it has not helped much......this is like a soap opera or something Any advice??????

2006-09-28 08:44:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you be offended if your husband / boyfriend wanted to record you guys getting after it?

I am wondering specifically about married women being that they dont really have to worry about the tape being shown to others.

2006-09-28 08:42:35 · 33 answers · asked by RedEye 3

My husband and i have been together since 2003 and married since 2004 and not once has he ever said he loves me. He has said so many times that to him love is cleaning and taking care of the other partner. What does a woman do when theres no spark in their marriage? Everyday he sleeps because he works night shifts then at night its a quick hello good night see you later. What do i do to make our marriage better and more romantic? we have three kids too, a 3 week old girl a one year old girl and a 2 and a half year old son.

2006-09-28 08:41:01 · 8 answers · asked by mrsinneedofamakeover 1

She has been battling Cancer since march of 2005 going into remission for a 9 month period and has been hospitalized. She lives in the Bronx (has a view of Yankee Stadium) NYC and they have NEVER visited despite being invited for her 70th Bday and to visit her while ill. They have never once visited her in the hospital in Manhattan NYC at Columbia Pres and Lenox Hill both safe neighborhoods.

My wife's mother is an angel and has a place in heaven. She absolutely loved my parents and became very hurt when they decided not to come to her 70th Bday party and with there seeming lack of caring and inability to carve time out of there schedule to visit her in the hospital at least once although she's never said as much.

Do we have a right to be angry? Is it o.k. to expect that they would take the time to visit at least once?

How do I keep from damaging my relationship permanently with them?

2006-09-28 08:39:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My man cheated on me with his ex last week, then asked for my forgivness. I gave him a chance & all he has been doing is treating me like sh*t!! He doesn't call me anymore, cureses at me, doesn't pick up the phone. I guess I was a fool to take him back. He didn't even try to make up for his mistake. Again why are men like that?

2006-09-28 08:36:58 · 41 answers · asked by liz7768 1

i've been thinking alot about one of my husband's friend's. i don't think i would ever do that, but, is the fact that he's in my mind all the time, a hidden agenda? i don't want to lose my family, but i've even started acting different when his friend comes over. am i a cheater?

2006-09-28 08:34:43 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 08:25:12 · 33 answers · asked by ? 4

lets just say they left you, NOT FOR ANOTHER PERSON, but for there own reasons. If you had the chance to get even would you use it.

2006-09-28 08:24:13 · 25 answers · asked by kinreep 4

marriage after a month of dating? I am 18 and my bf is 22 years old and yesterday he wanted to now how many kids i want and when i want to get married and what i want out of life and stuff ended up asking me if i would marry him if he asked? I have a feeling he will ask for real and i will say yes?

2006-09-28 08:14:18 · 20 answers · asked by Melanie o 1

what can a wife do to spark the relationship when she feels her husband has lost interest in the marriage?

Please, no sarcastic or icky remarks.

2006-09-28 08:12:32 · 26 answers · asked by Kisses 2

I got married in august, and it feels no different to before? does it get better, will i feel married? so many questions, the only thing that i feel now is secure, indefenatley! is this normal? is it a good sign that it is no different....

i know that i'm in love with my husband, and dont regret marrying him.

i need sensible answers!

2006-09-28 08:12:08 · 22 answers · asked by storm.minx 3

In an effort for some long overdue lovemaking I planned a surprise evening away from the kids at a local hotel. Now she says she started her period this morning. Since sex is out of the question should I cancel the reservations. She doesn't do anything else sexually.

2006-09-28 08:10:43 · 31 answers · asked by parkdad73 1

I am a widow,aged 41, and looks like 33 only.3 years ago,my husband dead of cancer. I sweard to him,I will never marry ,give birth and wear wedding dress again.....but will find partner after griefing period...

Coz at that time, my heart is like 55 and I have 2 children and life is so tough,that I really think like that..Now my children are 15 1/2(boy) and 11(girl), I met a very wonderful man a few months ago ,he was diverced ,with a 7 years old boy.We wish to have another child,that runs our blood.......How about my swear?

2006-09-28 08:03:34 · 19 answers · asked by russclara 2

2006-09-28 08:00:46 · 2 answers · asked by sugar_nitin 2

I am a widow,aged 41, and looks like 33 only.3 years age,my husband dead of cancer. I sweard to him,I will never marry ,give birth again and wear wedding dress.....but will find partner after griefing period...

Coz att aht time, my heart is like 55 and I have 2 children.Now my children are 15 1/2(boy) and 11(girl), I met a very wonderful man afew months ago ,he was diverced ,with a 7 years old boy.We wish to have another child,that runs our blood.......How about my swear?

2006-09-28 07:59:00 · 23 answers · asked by russclara 2

Does anyone have any ideas on how to cope with annoying in laws? I am financially stable, but my culture tells me to live with them, which is why I am there. So, how do I put up with them????

2006-09-28 07:56:56 · 30 answers · asked by grace s 2

I mean, I'm a horn dog. I wanna do it ALLLLL the time. I can't comprehend NOT having sex even after a long days work! Who else thinks that men who can't pleasure their wives are pathetic? I seriously expected to see more men on here complaining that their wives won't give it up but yet, I see the quite the opposite...maybe it's cuz im puerto rican...

2006-09-28 07:56:29 · 18 answers · asked by Rivrav 2

if i find myself fantasizing of affairs OFTEN.
my husband has heart problems, not to mention, that part of him no longer works..
am i setting myself up, i have not acted on anything, but i want to?

2006-09-28 07:55:19 · 15 answers · asked by rainbowz001 4

I guess "affair" is the wrong word, it's actually a charity ball that I have to organize. Hanging around with all these hoity toity freaks is making my skin itch. Do you think my wife would be interested?

2006-09-28 07:54:25 · 12 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I know a lot of people get married to help someone get their green card and I know someone who needs to have this happen. This is not a joke, he really needs to get married soon, people have shown interest, but he has no idea how much he should pay someone, I've heard anywhere from $5,000.00 to $25,000.00? Has anyone done this or no someone who has?

2006-09-28 07:51:38 · 6 answers · asked by SpaceyLacey 2

i went to set up an account on my space and looked up my hubands name, i looked at his blogs and such and they are all sexual. his descriptions say he like a little slap and tickle, hes looking for someone to enjoy his company etc...can anyone help, im worried

2006-09-28 07:49:39 · 27 answers · asked by sweetwhitegirl28 1

The world craves for love. It kneels before it in awe. This is why so many seek for advice. They are hurting and they pour their hearts out to anyone who will listen. Seeking anyone who can give them advice on what to do about their lovelife. Why is it that some people stick the dagger even futher into their hearts with their cruel answers? Thanks for listening.

2006-09-28 07:45:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here lately my hubby and I have not been having sex. He'll come home from work take a shower eat dinner and watch the news. After all is said and done he is in bed and asleep. We have been together for 9 years and we have to kids. I have done everything I can think of to get him in the mood to do anything he wants to do. But nothing seems to work...HELP!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-28 07:45:08 · 16 answers · asked by moonangel1121 1

We have kids. Going it alone means punishing the kids with poverty as we are just above it now. I have no family support either. I don't love him anymore, the thought of kissing let alone sex makes me nearly sick. I feel like a single parent in a marriage.

2006-09-28 07:40:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were a happy couple but did argue quite alot but about stupid things that didnt matter. We hav split up before and got backt 2g4. He said he didnt feel the same and didnt want a relationship. Today when i asked him as a joke do you miss me he said no and started gettin angry again sayin you did my head in so im happier now. I dnt see why he has to be so nasty to me. I kno he can be a loving person but god only knows where that person has gone. We went on holiday last month just me and him and had a really nice time? I dno wot to do about the whole situation? We were together a year and a half i dont kno why he bein so childish i would like to b friends and take things from there. anyone have any advice? men and woman. Im 16 he is 18

2006-09-28 07:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by moi 1