Marriage & Divorce - 28 September 2006

I was just wandering if I put some distance between myself and my partner, and show a lack of interest in them, would my partner miss me more? My marriage has had some problems, and when we are on the outs, usually I am usually the one who runs to fix things, cause my partner shows no interest any longer, till we are back together. I know this sounds messed up, but I was just wandering if I gave the same dose of medicine back, if it would turn things around or not. Please give your in put. I hate playing games, but I am sick of this happening to me, and don't want to leave the relationship quite yet.

2006-09-28 14:27:50 · 12 answers · asked by Evie 2

2006-09-28 14:21:15 · 15 answers · asked by IVAN G 1

meaning that if a couple's (the husband and/or the wife) parents divorced, they are more likely to divorce too? I know that I see that a lot of abusers or people who are in abusive relationships had parents who were also abused or abusive. I hope I made sense.

2006-09-28 14:20:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other day my hubby shaved me down below and later that evening after we were all showered up and ready for bed, he performed oral sex on me. Without the hair it felt totally different!! It was really nice and I actually had an orgasm which has never happened for me with just oral. Now I'm hooked on just oral and I'm afraid I'm driving my hubby nuts. I've wanted it several times a day. The sex has always been great but how do I get over this oral fixation I have currently? He doesn't seem to be getting tired of it but I don't want to grow selfish and not allow him penetration anymore. I am serious about this please answer maturely.

2006-09-28 14:15:21 · 18 answers · asked by SmartyPants 5

2006-09-28 14:11:43 · 15 answers · asked by Hookman 1

2006-09-28 14:05:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 13:56:25 · 36 answers · asked by whatzup 1

My Hands


Hands can express so many things,
Sorrow, happiness and fear.

Hands can push someone away
or hold them very near.

Hands can create something beautiful
or reach out and destroy.

You can discipline a naughty child
or reach out and mend their broken toy.

But there’s another use for hands
that we all can truly do.

That’s when you reach out, to a friend
and say is there anyway, I can help you.

Hands can change a friends dream
by holding their hand in the park.

And hands can save a friends life,
or help the blind, see in the dark.

Hands can make a difference,
on the work that you do.

But the greatest sign language, for my hands
are when I use them, to say I love you.

By: Kenny P aka- Cobra

2006-09-28 13:55:47 · 9 answers · asked by Cobra 5

I really screwed her bad, I sold my wifes co-worker a car for 4,000 dollars and I knew the transmission was about to go out in it....my wife didn't really like her so sheis ok with it, but is it wierd for mw to feel bad about screwing her over with the car?

2006-09-28 13:48:27 · 25 answers · asked by Hank 2

I posted this question a couple of days ago but still require more help?We have been happily married for 6 years ,we have 2 young children.Because of the children we decided to have a code word if we wanted to have some adult fun,the code word was "washing machine".Last night in bed i snuggled close to my wife and whispered "washing machine" into her ear,she said not tonight so i turned my back on her(as all men do) in a huff,but 5 mins later she must have felt bad cause of all my huffing and puffing and whispered "washing machine" into my ear.I turned round to face her and said "its ok dear it was a small load and i done it by hand".....she hasn't spoken to me since.What did i do wrong and why is she upset?

2006-09-28 13:45:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I had a heart to heart last night. He told me that he had doubts about us because of his exwife and daughter. He then said that he still wanted me to move in because he wants to give us a try.

He left for a couple of hours to work on the exwife's house. When he came back, I was in bed upset and he was happy. He wanted to have ice cream and watch movies, but I just wanted to sleep. I ended up joining him for the movie and we played cards. We didn't talk about anything, except he said "I told you I wouldn't be gone long".

This morning, I was still upset when I woke up so I went to lay down away from him. He asked me to come back to bed so I did. When we were getting up I asked him "what are we going to do?" he said "continue on this path because we're going to be together." I said something about him having doubts and he said "you have them too, so stop.". We dropped the subject, went for breakfast and I went home.

2006-09-28 13:45:45 · 7 answers · asked by torn 3

2006-09-28 13:44:41 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ lavender baby ♥ 4

i would think that is a personal question.....what are good one liners to give..if you'd rather NOT explain.????..geez!!! also what if your marriage is not annuled and you are not divorsed also!!!

2006-09-28 13:42:39 · 13 answers · asked by sweet 4

My husband and I haven't spoken to each other in 3 weeks, more or less(literally not spoken). I can't stand being around him cause he pays no attention to me. We live in another country and in Oct. I'm planning a trip to visit fam in the US. I'm thinking of using that trip to just up and leave forever. I really can't stand the indifferance and I actually for the first time enjoy the attention men give me. I'm a nice person (I think) but I feel unappreciated around him. So the question is.. will he even care if I up and leave? Should I even do it? "Talking things through" is simply out of the question. Wont work.

2006-09-28 13:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by gumby and pokey 3

parties got severly brain damaged??? You know how marriages are now a days especially in Hollywood!!!!

2006-09-28 13:31:04 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4

If you look at these questions and answers it's clear that we have a strong theme among us -- many of us are in relationships with people that aren't the love of our lives. I'm wondering why? Did you choose to be with someone for practical reasons? Is the love of your life just impossible to deal with? Is being alone better than being with someone that is just a good companion? I'm curious. Thanks for your honesty.

2006-09-28 13:28:25 · 21 answers · asked by Luis LU 1

2006-09-28 13:24:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just recently married and like all new couples enjoying our honeymoon period(plenty of love).....The problem i have is everytime i make love to my wife her toes curl up,at first it was quite cute but after a while it was annoying me so i asked her why her toes curled everytime we made love and that it was annoying me she told me that it would never happen again cause she will take her pantyhose(tights) off........

2006-09-28 13:23:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together for a year and I'll be 39 soon. I vowed to myself LONG AGO that I would not marry after the age of 40 (what's the point?). Is it reasonable to tell him that if we aren't married by the time I hit the big 4-0 he may as well forget asking?

2006-09-28 13:19:03 · 23 answers · asked by moniquebell 3

Some one u love and some day u feel it and some time u both said to each other : you are everything in my life. and for some reasone they r not togther . Is dat mean love between u both is died ? Realy I can not imagine dat do u ?

2006-09-28 13:17:05 · 8 answers · asked by silent_poem2000 1

2006-09-28 13:11:08 · 19 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4

2006-09-28 13:06:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

and I ignored him untill I was finished?
I mean it was only 45 minutes, and it ain't like he hasn't seen me watchin it on Cinemax, or neighborhood dogs humping.
Is she a prude or what?

2006-09-28 12:58:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats the difference between your partner loving you and being in love with you??

2006-09-28 12:55:57 · 10 answers · asked by thepainter 4

Why is my future husband avoiding introducing me to his mother? We have dated know for 3 years? He just said his italian moma wont like me because i am spanish/french and not italian!He never told her i was not italian!?Could someone explain this too me?

2006-09-28 12:53:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 12:51:00 · 22 answers · asked by dnlhlycrss 1

My husband works 350 miles away from home. I found out he has been cheating on me. He is coming home this weekend. We're trying to work it out but I can't seem to get it out of my head. We are always fighting about it cause I can't let it go as he always says. Is there some thing that I should do this weekend that might help our marriage?

2006-09-28 12:45:36 · 27 answers · asked by Martha L 2

My husband and I both work 40 hours a week but I feel I am getting f------. I do all of the housework, help my son with his homework, look after the pets, grocery shop, pick up the dry cleaning, fix dinner at least 4 times a week, do all the laundry and perform my wifely duties at least 3 times a week. My husband does the yard work!!!! Please please please do not tell me to talk to him about it......... I've been there and done that. All I hear is that he makes 3 times what I make which is why he feels he doesn't have to do sh*t!!!! And also please do not tell me to hire a cleaning lady............. my husband and I keep seperate accounts which means I have NO money!!! He has it all!!!!! I am just trying to find out if I am the only fool living. I do live in a beautiful home, wear nice clothes, drive a nice car, etc so maybe I should keep my pie hole shut. Give me your feedback.

2006-09-28 12:40:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-wfie and I have been divorced for three and a half years now and during that time she has not made very good decisions when it comes to dating men. In fact she has been a total disaster in her behavior and choices. Now she has met a guy who from what I understand is a pretty good guy. So here is the problem. He is being deployed to Iraq for a year, they have only been on 1 maybe 2 dates and yet she is willing to wait the entire year. Just because she has bad luck with men. Of course what she is not willing to admit is that the main reason for her bad luck is due to her bad decision making. So is it reasonable for me to want her to keep her options open so that our kids don't have to see mom get her heart broken again. I want this relationship to work for her, I want her to be happy. I just fear that she might be setting herself up again for a bad sitaution just because she is desperate.

2006-09-28 12:38:00 · 19 answers · asked by big_dreamer2005 2

My husbands fantasy is to watch another woman with me and he later join in. I 've never been with a woman before! Should I do this? And how would we chose the person? Should it be a friend or aquaintince or a complete stranger? I don't know what to do, I want to make him as happy as he does me! But if he joins in how is that going to make me feel? In a way I think it would be exciting to try something different , but I'm not a lesibian or bi sexual and have no plans on ever being that way! Please give me advice!!

2006-09-28 12:33:22 · 25 answers · asked by tld_9803 1