2006-09-28 13:06:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES, mine! I had an affair once, which I can honestly say was a BIG mistake on my part, to make a long story short my wife forgave me and we are still happily married after 15 years! If you would like the long story e-mail me and I will gladly share it.
Words I live by: You can only make this type of mistake ONCE, twice is taking advantage of a person who has shown you true love by giving you a second chance!
2006-09-28 15:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Archangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep - it's possible. I know a number of people, men and women who had affairs and preferred to stay with their marriage. For many reasons. Often an affair turned out to be a moment of sexual lust with no further meaning. Depends on what you expect from your affair.
I know also a number of people who had affairs for more than just that moment of lust and those marriages dissolved. .
So - be honest to yourself and ask yourself why you had the affair and how serious you judge that. Perhaps you have the affair because something is missing in or wrong with your marriage. Perhaps you fell indeed in love and it is more than a lusty affair. Then the more honest and better way would be to dissolve the marriage.
2006-09-28 13:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by spaceskating_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F- counseling. maximum counselors don't understand the thanks to manage affairs. Having examine through thousands of case research, i visit allow you to understand the in elementary words thanks to heal from a lady's affair is through making her own each and every and each and every thing of it. rigidity homestead that she had thoughts she did not take. provide her one hundred% duty for bringing some different person into the marriage ... definite, to the point the position she feels degraded, no longer through calling her terrible names yet restating the TRUTHS of it again and again till SHE feels and shows authentic regret. Telling her to get out even as you come back to a call no matter if you could stand to seem at her again is an exceedingly good commence. it quite is the in elementary words way. The. in elementary words. that's no longer saying that's worth it both. Getting over an affair typically takes years. The longer the affair, the longer healing takes. that's no longer worth it for most couples. huge determination to make. good luck.
2016-12-06 08:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness. Total and complete forgiveness. Like love and hate forgiveness is a decision. Asking if they know why they did it. Learn each other over again. Leave notes for each other. Be formal with each other until the familarity,laughter and friendship comes.
2006-09-28 13:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
d agree with goldwing1. Yes, I did it and I am still married after 38 years. It's about time to do it again. My wife told me just bring the paycheck home.
2006-09-28 14:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, lots of them...but you have to be prepared to change your relationship to one of ... don't care if you do, don't care if you don't ...and still be in love and lust. If he/she cheats once, it will happen with regularity, count on it. And, open relationships can work, but if you want a closed one, not with this person..ain't gonna happen but in bits and pieces. Good luck
2006-09-28 13:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope unless the wife/husband is an idiot
2006-09-28 13:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by Viinna_ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when this happens the one who was cheated on never forgets this and naver will in my opion no it wont last. my opion ? fact/
2006-09-28 16:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comunication towards both,Respect,and faith In God.
2006-09-28 13:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by missy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, dont your partner
2006-09-28 13:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋