Marriage & Divorce - 28 September 2006

Does anyone else deal with a bitter exwife? And if so, how do you get someone so full of hate to back off? We don't bother her, but she continues to bother us. I got yahoo to delete an email account where the username was "leeandruth*****areb*tches". She calls, emails, im's but with her being in another state, tx won't touch her because the police department down there thinks she's nuts. If I file a police report, or restraining order, she's does the same thing the next day. Any advice on how to deal with this madness will be greatly appreciated. Serious answers only please. I put up with enough of her crap already.

2006-09-28 20:03:25 · 16 answers · asked by ruthie b 1

i just want to get a divorce w/o having to pay anything since we have nothing together anymore, the boys are grown, and i dont even know where he is or has been for 13yrs. now. i want to run an ad in the newspaper and get a divorce. can anyone tell me how?

2006-09-28 19:47:54 · 8 answers · asked by donita h 1

It is now 2:25AM do you think she is cheating on me ?

She talks about this guy a lot and thinks he is really interesting and was very excited to get asked out to a dinner meeting with him when he was in town. I have heard that he has a rep for going after women. He cell phone is ALWAYS on and it was turned off at 11:45PM tonight and only takes messages now. She NEVER turns off her phone and I got a message on my cell phone at 10PM that she was talking with people and they were drinking martinis. She knows I turn off my cell phone after 6PM and she didn't call the home phone. What do you think?

2006-09-28 19:26:23 · 28 answers · asked by CTM 3

i had a violent relationship 6 years ago, and i got pregnant, and had a beautifull baby girl, i could'nt let her go through what i had to suffer,so we moved away.2 years later i had a letter from a solicitor saying i refused the father to see the little girl, the thing is he had our address and any time he phoned he was drunk, or having sex while on the phone, anyway this january the courts agreed for him to have contact every other saturday, plus they gave him parental responsibity,since then he has only seen her 6 times, while football was on he never saw her just saying to me 'you know what football meens to me, then yesterday he phoned up and said he cant have her because he's going on holiday, what do i do. i cancelled once and that is because she was in hospital and i had to get proff,she's only 5 and i am so sad to see her go through dissapointment please help

2006-09-28 19:25:39 · 15 answers · asked by ssldavey2003 2

doesnt please me in bed he was a virgin when we married and its kind of disapointing i love him no matter what its been four years , but he only last a few minutes and its over he just says your too good, i have been with men before him and i masterbate and think of another guy, (who'd I never take to another level its just mind contact )but I feel guilty about thinking about another guy to have a orgasm but the ways he made me feel comes to my mind, what can I do to imprve my husband he is perfect for me in every way but sexually

2006-09-28 19:23:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need a website where i can find payphone numbers for free. if anyone could help me? i'de sure appreciate it! (i already checked payphone-directory.com.

2006-09-28 19:20:14 · 5 answers · asked by cage 2

2006-09-28 19:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by donita h 1

I am madly in love. We met our freshman year in college and have been together ever since. He's my best friend, and I can't imagine finding anyone else like him. He recently asked me to marry him, and I don't know what to say because we are both still so young.

2006-09-28 19:06:19 · 20 answers · asked by iheartpink 1

I had been cheated on/abused in two previous relationships years before I met my husband, and now after two years of dating, and even after getting married, I feel very insecure, jealous and untrusting. He's done nothing wrong, and I know it's my own insecurity causing arguments, possibly ruining our marriage. It's really getting to him - and me! I have also cheated on the one I loved and know the "signs" and the heartache, and want to prevent it so badly, I'm just making things up in my head to make my "detective work"- ie checking his call list, looking at receipts, and emails- justified. I need to stop this!!! But how?

2006-09-28 19:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by mrschrisbennett 1

2006-09-28 18:59:13 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2

Hi, thanks for your answers about second marraige.
Getting second marriage is not my problem and all. Just debate we had in our room, I opposed the people who are supporting for second marriage,

And I am not such person who will go for second person.
Yesterday I seached no. of websites for this clarification and send it to My friends who participated in the debate.

Any how its a good answer from your side. I wish all the people will follow moral values, the God will give good ideas for the people,... "SARVE JANA SUKINOBAVANTHU" .
( I dont no how i can express my thanks to u , thats why I am posting as a question, sorry for the inconvinience )
Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks

2006-09-28 18:56:20 · 3 answers · asked by Krishna Reddy 1

I really need advice.I was married for several years and had five children out of that marriage and all my children are grown up now.That marriage ended in divorce after the kids grew up.I remarried four years ago,my problem is that I had one son that is co-dependant,he is also bipolar.He ahs been in trouble several times and I always help him or one of his brothers and sisters will.He is a little messed up sometimes and he wants to come home and I usually let him.Hes good to me and really helps me when he,s here ,then he gets cross ways and ends up leaving.This last month he was on the street with only a suitcase and no where to go,my husband said if he comes home he will leave.I let him come home again because I love him and will not let my son be on the streets,so my hushand is unhappy to say the least.I feel I have to help my son and I do.Am I wrong for doing this?My son is not deformed or babbling but he has a mental problem and if he calls me he begs me to tell him what to do and

2006-09-28 18:35:45 · 21 answers · asked by slickcut 5

that time i lover her but. I need someone to hold me sometimes.should i leave her ?

2006-09-28 18:16:16 · 17 answers · asked by tarras t 1

Out of possesiveness i lackd trust and always suspect and checking my bf.After 5yrs he's now fed up.Wen he stop texting and calling i was nearly dying.I paused for a week to take a breath,and contact him if we can stay frens?(just for the sake of having his attention n for him to text me) HE AGREED!!I now want to know if thro this frenshp can i win him back, by trusting and showing him i dont pester again?Show dat i changed?On this ground could it be dat he loves some1 else?(i asked he say he's ok the way he's no1 to pester him) and gota no1 in his life.cud he be lying?wud he agree to text me if he loved some1 else?ur suggestions plz wen he text wat to tell,i cant ask for any chance nor meet him nor call he fly this time!!wat u think

2006-09-28 18:16:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has invited me for his wedding but not my wife. My wife does not want me to go as she says it is the last weekend before I start a new hectic job and she wants to spend some quality time with me before I start my new job.
I have been studying for an exam these days and do not spend as much time as she would like with her although I do make an effort to spend at least an hour or so a day, in addition to the whole weekend. I really want to go to my friends wedding which would be for about 5 hours on a saturday evening 2 days before my new job, but my wife is adamant that I dont go. I feel she should let me make my own decision about what I want to do. What do you guys think? Is it wrong for me to go alone under th circumstances?

2006-09-28 18:12:53 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I divorced last year. He is very behind on his cs. We lived in Indiana when the judge ordered his cs amount. since then he has fled to Tx. How can I persue my cs while he is there. Indiana seems to drag their heels bc he lives in another state. I have a known address for him however he jumps jobs. HELP! I am not raisine 4 kids on my own, one is austsic and he is so far behind. courts just keep raising the amount but doesn't matter if he does not send it!

2006-09-28 18:10:52 · 7 answers · asked by Tamara A 1

We must accept whatever is there and once you accept unconditionally, then everything is beautiful. Every pain has a purifying effect. So whatever comes your way, just be thankful.

2006-09-28 18:09:54 · 14 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

free probon lawyer to advise me of what my options are concering child custody and a dioverce decree in AUSTIN,TX

2006-09-28 18:09:42 · 6 answers · asked by henry19702000 1

Do you LIKE your spouse or do you stay for the child/children. Are you in a comfort zone or are you willing to stop appeasing and live life!!!!

2006-09-28 18:02:08 · 24 answers · asked by Legend 1

i am just curious to know if it would go against Islam, or Islamic law or something.
If a Catholic gets married, it must be in the Catholic church, otherwise the Catholic church does not recognize the marriage as valid, as being a sacrament.
so can the Muslim man and Catholic woman get married in a Catholic Church without going against the man's(Muslim man) religion?
although the children will be raised muslim like the father.

or can they get married in a Mosque then? instead of a church.
where are they supposed to get married. a church? mosque? other?

2006-09-28 17:51:33 · 17 answers · asked by Alexis Samira 5

2006-09-28 17:50:29 · 12 answers · asked by june71969 1

My friends have suggested a carriage ride, or hanging at a low key lounge. Any ideas would be much appreciated.

2006-09-28 17:25:05 · 9 answers · asked by Lightchaser 1

K I posted this question in the Singles and Dating area but I wanted to get a point of view from married people too. Does your husband or wife expect you to get up and take a shower as soon as sex is over? Or maybe married people are closer and have a deeper commitment so this is not an issue with them like it is with someone that is merely dating in a bf/gf relationship? As soon as we are done with sex my bf asks and hassles me about getting up and taking a shower with no cuddle time sleep or rest.

2006-09-28 17:08:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

please say so. tell me its possible. and that it happens.
i must believe!

2006-09-28 17:03:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love the guy sooo much.help!

2006-09-28 17:00:38 · 19 answers · asked by star 2

2006-09-28 16:54:33 · 29 answers · asked by itsyouandmebb 2

I am stuck in Japan and cant speak Japanese so its difficult to get a job. I left my wife's parents farm because they dont like me and wouldnt let me be free, only work like a slave. I got a job through the Mormon Church but left cos I couldnt pretend to believe their religion and they told me not to drink coffee etc. Now I'm jobless, I dont see my wife and child(we are only friends and dont have a relationship she's only interested in being a musician) I only came here because she couldnt stay in England. To make things worse I've fallen IN LOVE with a girl but her parents wont let her see me because I dont have a job and because I got drunk and told her dad I love her but I'm married. My wife is glad I have a girlfriend because she cant be with me. Now her parents who are my guarantee in Japan want to send me out of the country and I'll have to go to Holland. I want to be with my girlfriend but I also want to see my wife and child. What should I do instead of getting drunk?

2006-09-28 16:43:43 · 25 answers · asked by Shironeko 1

My husband and I are very open and I am quite an exhintionist. I get a huge rush showing off myself. His friends love visiting. I know others do not all agree but I would like to talk with those that have tried or are curious

2006-09-28 16:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by sarah l 2

Is it possile has anyone out ther come across this problem. A couple divorced. There r 2 children involved. The oldest (8yrs) is not the actual son of the man but he has raised him as his own since he was 2. The woman wants full custody of their youngest child. The man wants full custody as well. Place he wants the 8 yr old as well. The woman has refused the man even the right to see the oldest child now because he is not his son biologically. Is there any way the man can get a Judge to grant him visitation to the oldest son. Even though the son actually is not his.

2006-09-28 16:40:01 · 13 answers · asked by sabbycat76 4

I've been thinking that when people usuallly have the same comment on the just-married couples or the already-married couples with "oh you both really have the good marriage looking, and pretty perfect match when you both came together" or some says "you both look like brothers and sisters than married couple!" Was that really a bothered when you found someone you really like who that is just because he or she that's just come fit what your style look like or even the same face sculptures? and then coem together? This page for example http://www.asianeuro.com/Success.cfm
Well, I'm not married, but I just found this is kind of a inqusitive idea!!! Please do give the decent answers! Thanks alot!

2006-09-28 16:39:13 · 3 answers · asked by Miss Train catcher 3