that time i lover her but. I need someone to hold me sometimes.should i leave her ?
2006-09-28 18:16:16 · 17 answers · asked by tarras t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HELP me now
2006-09-28 18:18:00 · update #1
A marriage is not based on sex if you love her stay and learn to masturbate simply put while the sex may be hot with someone new it will fade with time also the grass isn't really any greener on the other side
2006-09-28 18:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, ok, leave your wife of 14 years because you have had no sex in 3 weeks. Come on, there is MORE to marriage than sex. Really, I don't understand why you don't talk to your wife and see what's going on with her. Maybe she is ill, maybe she is sad, maybe she just doesn't want to have sex. But to leave her because of this, that's crazy!!
2006-09-29 01:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
not for 3 weeks of no sex verses 14 years of sex.
No, give her at least 15 years of no sex before you use that as an excuse to leave her.
2006-09-29 01:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw man what the F U C K she might just be going through some S H I T right now you need to ask her why and yall been together for 14yrs man ask her whats up but I bet its stress
2006-09-29 01:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by BIGDIGGA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women withold affection when something about you or about sex bothers them. Only she knows what it is. Talk about it and go for counseling. She also may have a very naturally low sex drive, but you should be able to make a compromise with that.
2006-09-29 01:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by winkcat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shoot! You are lucky, I have not had any from my wife for 4+ years, and you are complaining 3 weeks.
I have not left, but I am going looking again. It is cheaper to live together than apart. Yes, I know that is wrong way to look at it, but this is me.
2006-09-29 01:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is probley bothering her, is she stressed, tired, romance her, when you're together that long it's the same boring sex , light candles, play romantic music, do you please her or just make sure you have an orgasm? if I'm not satisfied why waste my time for you to c*m in 5 min? [ I was married 19 yrs] make it better for her and she will start enjoying sex again.
2006-09-29 01:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok about 51 days you guys had sex at least once give her a break over your 14 year marriage
2006-09-29 01:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the reason of absence of sex, you will find the answer by yourself. You haven't provide further details, do I make my suggestion as above.
2006-09-29 01:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by Billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it sex that you really need? I think your being selifish. No you should not leave her over it....I think you two need to talk about whats not going on in the bedroom.
2006-09-29 01:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by playwitdamind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋