Do you LIKE your spouse or do you stay for the child/children. Are you in a comfort zone or are you willing to stop appeasing and live life!!!!
2006-09-28 18:02:08 · 24 answers · asked by Legend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nope...and I'm glad I got out when I did.
You cant stay in a marriage because of the kids...you do something like that, you will ruin your kids....the see the fighting and the yelling or the cruelty - do you honesty believe "it's best for any child to grow up in an environment where there is NO love?" and if anyone out here say's yes...their kidding themselves. What you have taught your child is that love doesn't matter in relationships and neither does respect...my only advice for anybody.....is marry right the first time make sure it's right.....or don't do it at all - as far as "comfort zone" I'll gladly do without my beautiful things to have what I want and that is a strong healthy loving relationship - the heck with what society may think about me raising my children with out their father....I'm fine and they are too, just cause dad's not in our house...(my house that I paid for with my own money....) doesn't mean they don't have one. When he's with them without me his a better person and loving father too! We both knew when it was time and we have always backed each other up on issues with raising the kids. When they have been in school plays, if I was there first or if he was there first...we saved each others chairs...if he wanted to bring a girlfriend...I saved two. It's all on how you handle your business...how you wish to teach your kids what a parent is and does. I do not put him down in front of them...(and do not allow it from others). This was a life long commentment we both agree upon when we decided to have kids. They are #1....ALWAYS....bitter difference are put aside.
He's a good dad and I'm a good mom...we're just no good together!
2006-09-28 18:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. I'm not so disappointed with my spouse as I am with the things that come with being married. I just don't think that knowing what I know now that I'd bother with the formality. I think it's a great institution and romantic and binding etc. But, I would be just as happy cohabitating in a monogamous relationship than I am in what is essentially a legal union for the sake of taxes and property ownership. I know I sound bitter, but married life and all the BS that comes with it just creates too much noise and interference between the two people in the relationship. I'd never remarry again even if it were Anna Kournikouva with a bucket of Vaseline and a bushel of carrots.
2006-09-28 18:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by Luis LU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all likelihood not. i'm not so upset with my considerable different as i'm with the flaws that comprise being married. I do exactly not think of that understanding what i understand now that i might worry with the formality. i think of it rather is a great enterprise and romantic and binding and so on. yet, i could be in simple terms as chuffed cohabitating in a monogamous relationship than i'm in what's largely a criminal union for the sake of taxes and supplies possession. i understand I sound bitter, yet married life and all of the BS that comes with it in simple terms creates too lots noise and interference between the two human beings interior the relationship. i might by no potential remarry back whether it have been Anna Kournikouva with a bucket of Vaseline and a bushel of carrots.
2016-10-15 08:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just love questions that only see two possibilities.....
So if you're miserable in your marriage, your alternative is to get a divorce or be an appeaser, according to you? How narrow-minded. What makes you think they're "appeasing" anyone? What if the miserable one is also the one with all the power? Ever think of that one?
2006-09-28 18:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I will always love my wife forever and a day. We will soon be going through a divorce and unfortunately we cannot save our marriage. But for all the wonderful times, and our wonderful family. I would go back in time and do it all over again. Even knowing that I would end up standing here knowing that the marriage is over.
2006-09-28 18:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my spouse and we do not want any children. Life is good. Yes, I'd marry her again.
2006-09-28 18:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At one time I thought so....but no. We are better friends now 7 years after a 20 year marriage.
Besides, I doubt her new husband would go along with the idea.
2006-09-28 18:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by iraq51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no I wouldn't marry my spouse over again. If he was out of my life then good riddens.
2006-09-28 23:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by VON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, unequivocally, without a doubt........YES. My husband is my life, we compliment each other in every way and make up for the others weaknesses. So yes, I would marry him again in a heartbeat.......hey, you gave me a great idea for our 10th anniversary next year.
2006-09-28 21:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by mrwrinklesmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew then what I know now, I never would of married the ex. Live and let learn hey.
2006-09-28 18:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋