2006-09-28 12:51:00 · 22 answers · asked by dnlhlycrss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BYE!
2006-09-28 12:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am actually going through the same thing with my boyfriend. We have been dating 2 years and I mentioned maybe it was time for us to take a break. Now, before everyone here jumps all over my back about how I found another guy, or whatever, let me explain.
I went to college, 4 years, BS degree in Fashion Merchandising. My boyfriend is a police officer. He can get a job anywhere, whereas my career is something that has to be more locally specific; NYC for instance. Okay, I tried to tell myself, I didn't want to go there, he says, I am never going there becuase it's not what I want, but what about what I want?
Point is. There is a reason she wants to break up. Maybe she thinks you aren't the one, that you don't treat her right, you are not romantic enough, she could do better, she's cheating. There are a million reasons. Obviously, you know something is going on, and it's time to speak up. You need to sit down and ask her what is on her mind. In most cases, like mine, we are dealing with the sit. at hand, one day at a time. She needs to talk and you need to listen.
If she wants to break up, woud you really still want to be with something that doens't love you the same way back?
2006-09-28 20:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Schott due 8/27/2010! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she give you a specific reason why? Don't let her walk away, sit her down & have her talk to you about why she all of a sudden feels this way. Think of your relationship as a marriage. You wouldn't let her get up & walk away without sitting down & trying to work it out, right? So, do just that. Talk to her, try to open up her feelings & see what's really bothering her. And if she's just under a lot of stress, tell her you're there for her & that if she wants space, you'll give it to her. I know how hard a 2 year relationship can be, & out of experience, it gets kind of bumpy, but you have to learn to pull through together, & be there for each other at your worst of times. So hopefully its not as serious as we think. I just hope for nothing but the best for you two.
2006-09-28 19:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by kchavee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u feel is right, but think long and hard, if u break up with her, and then a while down the road u decide it was a mistake, it might be too late to get her back, the best time for a guy to move in on a girl is just when she has a break up, u might loose her for good if your not sure, she could fall for another guy VERY QUICKLY
2006-09-28 19:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend really loves you, she would not want to break up with you. My questions would be why? Are you a jerk to her? Ever? Or is she one of those girls who "need time to think" she probably has another boyfriend and is in lust. I am sorry to hear she wants to break it off, can you picture your self with her forever? It makes no sense how someone in love can want to break off a good thing.
2006-09-28 19:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by mansyroot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is more to this story that you are letting on. It is quite possible to love someone but realize that you cannot and should not be with them. Were you having problems? Was she looking for more in the relationship and not getting it? There are many unanswered questions here on your end.
2006-09-28 19:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by sleep2dream65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably does luv you but not in the way she did 2 years ago she probably feels that now she loves you as a close freind but that is all and that is why she wants to break up.
2006-09-28 19:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just isnt goin to come out of the blue and say something like that but i think she found something else she like and is bein crazy to leave you or she is goin through some things in her life that u dont kno about and its causin her to come through this but i think u should talk to her about it
2006-09-28 19:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it, and point out how good you've been to her and all the good points of your relationship. however if she still wants to leave you should let her, even if you don't understand. Don't let this conversation devolve into an argument however or you will lose
2006-09-28 19:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by imanalchemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe she has another man, but wants to keep you waiting incase things don't work . I would break up and try and find someone who is committed to you.
2006-09-28 23:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her, leading her on is wrong. It's not fair to let her develop stronger feelings for you.
2006-09-28 20:52:33 · answer #11 · answered by sunflower091705 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋