Would you be offended if your husband / boyfriend wanted to record you guys getting after it?
I am wondering specifically about married women being that they dont really have to worry about the tape being shown to others.
2006-09-28 08:42:35 · 33 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how is asking this dis-respectful ?
2006-09-28 08:47:51 · update #1
I wouldn't be offended...if it were just for me and my hubby to enjoy...then again if I didn't look absolutely friggin hot I might be offended if he asked again. LOL! Nah...it's kinda hot!
2006-09-28 08:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by MaHaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you'd said you wanted your census to focus on married women, but hey; I read the question and I might as well answer, even if I'm not married. I wouldn't be 'offended' in the least little bit by it. That's not to say I'd be ok with it though. I'm sure there are a few oversensitive ladies out there who might actually take offense to it, but really I don't think 'offended' is the right term to use in this question. I think it's more of a 'comfort' thing. Not just the comfort issue you'd addressed in the tape not being shopped around, but also just the fact that a lot of girls, more so than guys normally, are a little bit more conservative behind closed doors. So offended? No. Up for it? Depending on the guy, maybe.
2006-09-28 08:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Everyone has to worry about a tape being shown around - haven't you ever heard of robberies? My sister and her husband got robbed and someone stole their WEDDING videos - what use is that to someone? I totally agree with Autumn Lover and her points. Most of us are better live, than on Memorex, anyway.
2006-09-28 09:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married.. I wouldn't mind. My husband wouldn't do it though because he caught his ex wife with 5 guys in a video tape. I think that killed the taping of anything sexual for him... It's really up to that people involved.
2006-09-28 09:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by Marie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is something that most women would find alluring and exciting. The fact of it being only you and your spouse watching is good but, if you have children or nosy in laws that could be a big or embarrassing problem. I personally feel that what you and your spouse is your business not to be talked about or looked at by others.
2006-09-28 08:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Wifey K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married my husband and I set up a camera in the bedroom...now we are divorced he still has the tapes, I guess it makes me feel good knowing he still watches them and him knowing he can't have the greatest thing that ever happened to him
2006-09-28 08:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no I would not be offended accully my boyfriend has talked about it.. we agree that when we are old and pruny that the tape will come in handy! when we are in the act!
so why not! again with out the worry of it being displayed!
but some people are camrea shy!
I'm hot i think my man is sexy hot! but he would just say i'm glad you think so!
But when we are 80 yr old... what do you think i'm going to picture in mymind my pruny old man or who he was when he was 20 somthing!
:)
Mad luv
2006-09-28 08:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure a wife would offended, why do you want to tape something that is private. You better lose that tape or you may lose your wife, I think you got a little problem.
2006-09-28 08:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says it won't be shown to others. What happens after the break up .... and one of you decides to show off this little gem of a movie. I wouldn't be offended, but I would refuse.
2006-09-28 08:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always the possibility of divorce and you never know if it'll happen so even married women will have an opinion about recording themselves
2006-09-28 08:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by yes darling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married, I would be very offended, my husband would never do this, because he would always be afraid somehow someone else would see them and he wouldn't want others to see his wife in this type of situation.
2006-09-28 08:44:26 · answer #11 · answered by sweet smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋