... will point out a good looking woman to her husband or boyfriend or won't mind when their husband or boyfriend will remark on a good looking woman to you?
My wife does all this and she thinks she's in the minority.
2006-09-28 08:51:25 · 22 answers · asked by St.Anger 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd say your wife is right. Good for her to have such confidence & great self esteem.
2006-09-28 08:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by Coop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't and wouldn't mind if my husband noticed an attractive woman, but I don't know what her game is in pointing them out to you. It sounds like she's pretty insecure and thinks that by showing how "liberal" she is, she's appearing confident. Also, she seems pretty judgemental, too. Does she think she has this exceptional "taste in women" that she can judge them all as worthy of a look? Weird. Very weird. It's also very distracting. I'd wonder why she wants to divert your attention away from her.
2006-09-28 08:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't necessarily point them out but I will say that some was is beautiful or pretty when we are out in public and I see a woman that is. I don't mind if he looks either us woman are just as guilty as the men are. I know where is heart is and who he sleeps next to every night and its me. It isn't some strange girl walking down the street that he thinks is beautiful. So i never thought about but i guess my man is fortunate tooo. Thanks for pointing this one out to me.
2006-09-28 09:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Aries Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are at the mall, airport, etc. I can relate to what she's saying - But go to a store or gas station within a block of your home or workplace - she may sing a different tune when you're eyeballing an ordinary looking woman you could be familiar w/.
2006-09-28 10:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it before. I have told my husband that a girl looks good. I don't mind my husband looking. I just don't like my husband looking and saying things like why can't your stomach look like hers. Or other comments that put me down. It means your wife is comfortable with you and knows that she is the one you want!
2006-09-28 08:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Marie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it every once in a while, some women are truly stunning, and I can't help but say something. And I mostly don't mind if my husband makes a remark like that - being that he doesn't abuse this "priviledge" very often; he likes to keep to himself in general, and I like him this way.
2006-09-28 08:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I always talk about how good looking we think someone is whether man or woman, we love and trust each other completely and I dont have any hangups with that because I consider myself to be good looking too.
2006-09-28 09:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know my husband notices other attractive women, but he always seems to conveniently look the other way..I think he's afraid of a confrontation with me, but I think it's quite sexy to have your mate notice other physically appealing people... as long as its not in a demeaning fashion to you. I always point out the lovelies out to him, but he most often responds, "who, what, where?" Big chicken...I'm a confident women and I think noticing other beautiful women is healthy and a great way to keep me on my toes..cheers to your wife..I'm sure you guys have a sizzling romance..
2006-09-28 09:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by melissap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is absolutley right she is in the minority. I try not to let it bother me when my b/f looks. I keep telling myself it is natural and really means nothing to him. I try to liken it to me looking at clothes in a store window I look but that is it it doesn't mean that I don't like the clothes I already have!
2006-09-28 09:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if a woman is secure she has no problem with other women.....there will always be younger, firmer, beautiful women and I can not allow my insecurity get in the way of my relationship with my husband......Besides He will be faithful "if" he so chooses.....I can not make him.
2006-09-28 08:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually point out good looking women.
2006-09-28 08:53:57 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋